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The Other Side of Selfishness
Did you grow up being told you are selfish? I did. The wagging finger and the "Shame on You" from a misguided adult is a vivid memory. I knew viscerally, the feeling of guilt in my body each time I was accused of selfishness or putting myself or my needs ahead of someone else's. Guilt did not feel good then and it doesn't feel good now.
By Judy Walker 4 years ago in Humans
December 10, 2021
Well, today started good and was busy for the longest time. Finally, when arriving at work started getting busy with the things to do this morning. Well, the other grill op was late for work for the first time today. We ended up doing around 1400 dollars this morning. Lots of customers go shopping trying to find those deals. Of course, they also have to stop in to eat with us every day. Many of the customers we have come into our establishment are regular customers we see seven days a week. Sometimes you will have customers that want only you to cook their food because you know how they like it. It is always satisfying to know; that you're cooking is what they come back for every day. You have to take care of your customers to keep that clientele up and going throughout the year. Today was not that bad although, the truck that was supposed to come yesterday came today right at the time; we started getting busy. Go figure! Finally, she got everything done and was ready to head home for the evening. It is the time of year and is the busiest time for the place she works with all the travelers coming through our town for the holidays.
By Tammy hopkinson4 years ago in Humans
Are There Lies Accepted in a Relationship?
Lies in a relationship: sometimes a controversial topic! Some people say that in any relationship the partners lie, that it is a common fact, based on arguments that "it is in human nature to lie", "it is better to lie than to hurt the other" or "what you do not say, it is not a lie, but an omission "… But the truth is that lies usually have nothing to do with a harmonious relationship!
By Delilah Booker4 years ago in Humans
I Saw Him With Another Woman
I saw him with another - I don't know if he's cheating on me! Are you going through this situation? Maybe you are afraid to confront him, to ask him who she was and what he was doing with her because you are afraid to find out the truth. But sitting next to someone you no longer trust completely, constantly wondering whether or not you have cause for concern becomes unbearable…
By Delilah Booker4 years ago in Humans
Important Tips to Remember Before the Wedding
You are about to get married - then you will probably receive advice from all sides before the wedding: what to do, how to do it, where to do it. People who haven't even had a wedding or got married 100 years ago (!) Are happy to tell you how to proceed or even organize everything yourself! Her parents want something, her parents want something else, her friends don't help - and you don't know what to do!
By Delilah Booker4 years ago in Humans
What Are the Aspects That Betray That Your Boyfriend Is Cheating on You
Do you feel that something has changed between you, do you suspect that he has someone else, and ask yourself "how do I know he is cheating on me"? Before giving any suggestions, think about it: why do you have such doubts? Do you have an objective, practical reason or are you too jealous and used to making dark thoughts?
By Morison Cervantes4 years ago in Humans
I Can’t Live Without Her, How Do I Get Her Back?
You quarreled, you broke up and all you can think about is, "I can't do without her, how do I get her back?" Which of you got it wrong, from what started the quarrel that led to the separation? If you are the one who made a mistake and caused the separation, you can try a few ways to make her forgive you. But if she wanted to break up, maybe you have nothing to do, maybe that's how it should be and you have to accept that. In the first case, in which you made a mistake - at least from her perspective, you can try to make her change her mind.
By Morison Cervantes4 years ago in Humans
When Do I Tell My Partner That I Love Him for the First Time?
You have finally met someone for whom you have real feelings, you are beginning to understand what it is all about in those love songs - then you ask yourself with emotion "when I first tell you I love you"! It's a difficult step, especially if you haven't told anyone before or if you're not the exuberant type who noisily expresses his emotions, but rather you're closed in on yourself…
By Valencia Sean4 years ago in Humans
How Do You Forget Your Ex-boyfriend and How Do You Get Over a Failed Relationship?
How do you forget it, how do you manage to forget so many beautiful moments together, with going through a failed relationship? It can be extremely difficult, especially if the relationship has meant a lot or if you are in the first breakup - you feel that you will never forget, that you will never be able to have feelings for someone else…
By Valencia Sean4 years ago in Humans
