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Why Will You Never Forget Your First Love and Your First Emotions?

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By Asher CrosbyPublished 4 years ago 4 min read
Why Will You Never Forget Your First Love and Your First Emotions?
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Why will you never forget your first love, why does the memory of that shy boy / that cute girl stay with you after years, even if today you wouldn't recognize him/her on the street?

Because the first love, whether it is shared or not, whether it becomes physical or not, is a rite of passage, of maturation, the unique moment when you find out what is with all this agitation around love…

Why will you never forget your first love - because then, the moment you wake up with a confused amalgam of feelings, it is the moment you realize that you are no longer a naive child. You realize that you are finally experiencing that strange feeling. Happiness, impatience, enthusiasm, dreams along with fear, confusion, anxiety…

Why you will never forget your first love:

The first emotions. The first time you realize that you have fallen in love, so many emotions and feelings overwhelm you that you forget about other worries. First love tends to take over you, to make you forget about any other worries, to make you unable to sleep with happiness and sadness at the same time. Sweet hope, enthusiasm, enthusiasm, are so strangely intertwined with acute fear, pessimism, doubts…

It is a sea of ​​emotions that you can not forget and that you think you will never be able to experience again. It's all the more overwhelming, as you don't know what to do, what to say if you should say something to your loved one.

Unanswered questions grab you and make you forget about school, play, friends, parents, make you unable to sleep peacefully: "does she/he like me too", "does she say yes", "would I have to talk to her/him "," what should I tell her "," should I kiss her without telling her anything "," should I just send her a note "and so much more…

Moment of truth. The moment is the answer to the question of why you will never forget your first love - the moment you find out her / his answer to your declaration of love. Because you can't live long without knowing, without knowing if she/he feels the same…

And if she/he says "yes", if she wants to go out together, it's a moment when nothing else matters, in who feels happy and It is a moment of euphoria in which everyone seems to be perfect and you the happiest person.

It is a moment you will hardly forget - u will not forget it! And if she/he says "no", if she refuses you, that moment is just as intense, it is a moment when you feel that everything has collapsed, that you have dreamed in vain, that the world is ugly and bad and you alone (a)… It is a moment that you think will mark your life when you first feel the bitter taste of defeat and realize that life is really cruel…

First handshake, first kiss. But maybe she/he says "yes" - then other unique moments will follow, impossible to withdraw because they are the first. The first time you hold hands and realize that you are together, that you are a couple is a moment of happiness and fear, a moment when you declare yourself submissive to love and want nothing else…

And the first left-handed kiss, maybe a little embarrassing, but so sweet that your heart beats in your chest that crazy is, perhaps, the kiss you will always remember; even if you have other more pleasant kisses, even if the wedding day kiss is more important - the first one has its place of honor. When your lips approach you tremble, and you do not know what to do, how to move, but you let yourself be carried away by the wave and feel for the first time what it is like to be glued to the other, so many feelings in one moment make it impossible to forget.

The first time you make love. Here is another answer to the question of why you will never forget your first love - if your first love becomes physical, if it takes long enough to reach this big step, it is only logical that you will always remember that moment, that night in which you have become "mature."

And even if you don't know anything about your first boyfriend/girlfriend he/she will always be in your memory, with that weird night. Maybe it was romantic, pleasant, and painful at the same time, you were fearful and ignorant, maybe it was quick and embarrassing, and you couldn't look at each other for a while without blushing…

But the first time you do love marks you and fulfills you - you finally know what the physical sharing of love really means. It seems to you now that love has no secrets for you, you have stepped into the unknown realm of mature love and you are quite happy with it… No more questions, fears, confusion - you know what physical love is!

First breakup… Why will you never forget your first love? Well, yes - and because of the painful moment of the first breakup. Few are lucky enough to have their first love stand the test of time… Often, lovers of another time distance themselves, mature and follow their path. And the moment one of them says "goodbye" is such an intense, painful, heartbreaking moment that you think you will never be the same person again, you think you will never love again…

The first breakup is a key moment in the young man's maturity - it is a test that he passes with difficulty, a test of awakening to reality, in which he realizes that he has to overcome difficulties on his own, that everything has its end, that life is not only loving and play… You feel that the world is pale, that you are left alone with your pain, the pain that the person you loved so much caused you.

You swear that you will be stronger in the future, that you will never fall prey to deceptive love again… this until the second love… But no matter how many loves you live, don't forget the first one - so many unique moments that, even if you live them with other people, they will never be the same…

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