When Do I Tell My Partner That I Love Him for the First Time?

You have finally met someone for whom you have real feelings, you are beginning to understand what it is all about in those love songs - then you ask yourself with emotion "when I first tell you I love you"! It's a difficult step, especially if you haven't told anyone before or if you're not the exuberant type who noisily expresses his emotions, but rather you're closed in on yourself…

When I first tell him I love him - unfortunately, there are no rules or instructions to make sure everything goes well. Maybe everyone has gone through the embarrassing moment when you say "I love you" and they don't answer in the same way…

Or maybe the other way around: you were told, but you didn't know how to answer. Therefore, it is normal to have emotions, to ask questions, to think when and how you do it, to think about his / her reaction: he will laugh, he will say the same, he will remain silent, he will kiss me ⁇

When I first tell him I love you:

Do you feel it? Don't be carried away by the wave, by the typical adolescent enthusiasm! Wait to see if what you feel is real. Do you feel it, do you know that you love it, or is it just a temporary euphoric effect given by physical attraction?

When you look him in the eye when you kiss him, do you feel those "butterflies in your stomach", do you feel that he is the person for you? When she's not around, do you miss her? When you are with her/him, the world around you disappears and it only matters to be together? Do you feel that you need her/him and that without her/him, everything would be nothing?

Do you know each other? Saying "I love you" is a romantic, spontaneous, emotional gesture, but it is also a gesture through which you offer your soul on the tray, you confess that you have been conquered. And it's not good to expose yourself, to be vulnerable in front of anyone - do you know the person you want to make this statement to?

Wait for a time to get to know each other, for better or worse. If you find out what's wrong with the other person and you feel that you still love him, you don't care about his faults, then you're on the right track - love means loving a man with everything he has, good or bad…

Don't make this statement love to everyone and too many times - the more you say it to the more, the more you snatch it from the meaning… To say I love you too many people becomes a trivial reply, without depth, not a special moment.

His reaction. When you first tell him I love you - when you can at least predict what he will do or say. When you hope for a good reaction! Sure, this takes away from the spontaneity of the romantic gesture, but it is good to make sure that you will not live an embarrassing moment. When you are together, follow the signs: how they look at you, how they hold your hand, how they kiss you…

They can show you if it's time, if she/he feels the same or if she's not there yet… The reaction of the person saying "I love you" is the one that makes you excited, makes you doubt - but if she/he seems attracted to you, seems happy with you, then you have nothing to fear!

And even if he doesn't answer you immediately, if you saw that you were following him, following his gaze and gestures, don't be disappointed! Maybe he wasn't just ready for this statement, maybe he was taken by surprise - but the time will come when he will answer you…

The right time. When you first tell him I love you, if he/she feels the same way, it doesn't matter. The idea is, as they say, to be patient and calm your enthusiasm until you know the person. As for the exact moment - it doesn't matter, just to be in a quiet place, without too many people around and noise…

But what is good to remember: this statement is not taken seriously and may even bother the other said in two moments inappropriate - during sex or when you're drunk! DO NOT make statements at this time - you do not feel what you are saying (in time or after sex hormones lead you, and when you are drunk… alcohol), and the other will not take it seriously even if, ironically, you feel to stay!

What are you telling him? When you think about it when you first tell him I love you, you can stress too much with the choice of time, place, words. As the saying goes, it doesn't matter! What matters is that the other person feels about how you feel…

And if he feels the same way, then he will be excited wherever and whenever you tell him… Don't stress about building an impressive speech - you don't have to write a poem for him, but to say only two simple but sincere words to him: "I love you." They will be enough… Don't rely on greeting cards, text messages, or letters for your first declaration of love. Tell her when you are close to her/him, whisper these two simple words in her ear…

It has been said - if you are not answered immediately, don't be scared and don't be disappointed - many need time to be able to express your emotions, you just know it… It's important how he looks at you, how he touches you, how he kisses you…

He or she? Who is to say that I love you for the first time in a couple - him or her? Unfortunately, this should still be his task - because the girls are too scared of a possible non-response or even refusal! A girl must have a lot of courage to say it the first time - and when she does, she feels it!

So, even if it seems unfair to you, you as a boy will have to take the first step, declare your feelings, and wait with all your heart for her answer… Maybe it is a "reward" of the female sex for everything they do for them - but when it comes to declarations of love, he must be a man and take the first step! At least, usually And it will be a beautiful moment, worth all the emotions and fears…