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Differences and Similarities Between Envy and Jealousy, How Do We Distinguish Them?
What are the differences and similarities between envy and jealousy - different emotions, but which can sometimes intertwine and which are often confused when we talk? The most obvious difference is that while jealousy occurs when a person is afraid of losing someone in his life, envy occurs when a person wants to get something that another person already has.
By Beck Davidson4 years ago in Humans
How Adding Value to Others Will Make You Succeed in Life
Every single one of us needs encouragement regularly. One of the greatest things that we can do in life is to add value to everyone we meet. Habit is formed through repetition, so focusing on doing this is key to succeeding in life.
By Marcus4 years ago in Humans
The Existing Types of Jealousy - And Not All Related to Relationships
Jealousy, that "green-eyed monster" is a normal emotion, learned right from childhood, coming directly from the primary instincts - it gives the person an alarm signal when what is rightfully his can be stolen (!), But there are types and types of jealousy - and not all of them related to relationships.
By Beck Davidson4 years ago in Humans
What Is Too Much and When Does the Relationship Become Suffocating?
What does addiction mean in the relationship and a partner dependent on you and the relationship, where does the addiction come from, how does this relationship affect the couple's partners as well? Simply, addiction to your partner is like any other addiction: an intense need, which grows with time, to be with the other, to know that you are loved, to get all his attention, and the feeling that life is not it makes sense without the other! When we talk about the couple, it seems that they are necessary and normal, right? But real addiction involves an obsessive need and an exaggeration of what it means to be close as a couple.
By Beck Davidson4 years ago in Humans
Ever Vigilant
I was blessed with a strong immune system. I haven’t called in sick for years. That‘s not to say that I haven’t felt under the weather occasionally. My body seems to be able to wait until I have a weekend or a break before succumbing to whatever ailment is around.
By Julie Lacksonen4 years ago in Humans
Why Do Girls Mature and Grow Faster Than Boys?
Why girls mature faster than boys - it's about both nature and society - we'll see how. But this statement should not be taken as a universal and generalized fact!
By Ritchie Miller4 years ago in Humans
10 Signs That He Will Leave You and the Relationship Will End
Are you looking for signs that he will leave you? Then, you already feel that something is wrong and the first clue that you should never ignore, as a man or as a woman, is the one in you: your intuition, which tells you that something has changed - and not for the better! Many times, we ignore the practical signs because we want to, but intuition does not lie…
By Rory Dunkley4 years ago in Humans
Top 10 Things That Men Appreciate About Women
What would a top 10 things that men appreciate about women look like? No, no: "breasts, feet, buttocks, eyes, lips, hair, neck, skin, hands and private parts"! The very important things that men admire, appreciate, and look for in a woman with whom they want more than a short affair are very similar to those that women want in men!
By Rory Dunkley4 years ago in Humans
How to Impress a Woman Easily and Without Hassle?
How do you conquer a woman? Maybe you bombard her with beautiful compliments, flowers, candy, romance… Or, on the contrary, maybe you make the indifferent and the "superior", waiting for her to want you… Or maybe you stage the role of the shy boy, the injured boy, of the special boy - in any case, of the man who is somehow different from the others!
By Ritchie Miller4 years ago in Humans
Top 10 Reasons Why People Divorce
Top 10 Reasons to Divorce: Unfortunately, our country has an extremely high divorce rate, and the most threatened households are the new ones! Although when they go to the altar, few young people think that it will not work, many of these marriages end in divorce, perhaps precisely because young people do not realize that marriage also means work. INS says that over 20% of marriages ended in divorce two years ago!
By Ted Nava4 years ago in Humans
Top 10 Reasons for Jealousy in the Couple, Why the Partners Quarrel
Why would we make a top 10 reasons for jealousy in a couple? Because, no matter how much jealousy is said to be a negative emotion that can affect a couple's relationship, jealousy is in many situations a normal reaction! It is very good to know in what situations you can expect your partner to become jealous.
By Rory Dunkley4 years ago in Humans
Completely weighed Superman
Blake moodily gazed into the embers of the bivouac-fire. Never had we seen him so utterly unlike himself as on this burlesque of a scout, and now that we were virtually homeward-bound, and empty-handed too, he was completely weighed down by the consciousness of our lost opportunities. If something could only have happened to Gleason before the start, so that the command might have devolved on Blake, we all felt that a very different account could have been rendered; for with all his rattling, ranting fun around the garrison, he was a gallant and dutiful soldier in the field. It was now after ten o'clock; most of the men, rolled in their blankets, were sleeping on the scant turf that could be found at intervals in the half-sandy soil below the corrals and stables. The herds of the two troops and the pack-mules were all cropping peacefully at the hay that had been liberally distributed among them because there was hardly grass enough for a "burro." We were all ready to turn in, but there stood our temporary commander, his long legs a-straddle, his hands clasped behind him, and the flickering light of the fire betraying in his face both profound dejection and disgust. "I wouldn't care so much," said he at last, "but it will give Gleason a chance to say that things always go wrong when he's away. Did you see him up at the post?" he suddenly asked. "What was he doing, Carroll?" "Poker," was the sententious reply. "What?" shouted Blake. "Poker? 'I thank thee, good Tubal,--good news,-- good news!'" he ranted, with almost joyous relapse into his old manner. "'O Lady Fortune, stand you auspicious', for those fellows at Phoenix, I mean, and may they scoop our worthy chieftain of his last ducat. See what it means, fellows. Win or lose, he'll play all night, he'll drink much if it go agin' him, and I pray it may. He'll be too sick, when morning comes, to join us, and, by my faith, we'll leave his horse and orderly and march away without him. As for Potts,--an he appear not,--we'll let him play hide-and-seek with his would-be reformer. Hullo! What's that?" There was a sound of alternate shout and challenge towards where the horses were herded on the level stretch below us. The sergeant of the guard was running rapidly thither as Carroll and I reached the corner of the corral. Half a minute's brisk spurt brought us to the scene. "What's the trouble, sentry?" panted the sergeant. "One of our fellows trying to take a horse. I was down on this side of the herd when I seen him at the other end trying to loose a side-line. It was just light enough by the moon to let me see the figure, but I couldn't make out who 'twas. I challenged and ran and yelled for the corporal, too, but he got away through the horses somehow. Murphy, who's on the other side of the herds, seen him and challenged too." "Did he answer?" "Not a word, sir." "Count your horses, sergeant, and see if all are here," was ordered. Then we hurried over to Murphy's post. "Who was the man? Could you make him out?" "Not plainly, sir; but I think it was one of our own command," and poor Murphy hesitated and stammered. He hated to "give away," as he expressed it, one of his own troop. But his questioners were inexorable. "What man did this one most look like, so far as you could judge?" "Well, sir, I hate to suspicion anybody, but 'twas more like Corporal Potts he looked. Sure, if 'twas him, he must ha' been drinkin', for the corporal's not the man to try and run off a horse when he's in his sober sinses." The waning moon gave hardly enough light for effective search, but we did our best. Blake came out and joined us, looking very grave when he heard the news. Eleven o'clock came, and we gave it up. Not a sign of the marauder could we find. Potts was still absent from the bivouac when we got back, but Blake determined to make no further effort to find him. Long before midnight we were all soundly sleeping, and the next thing I knew my orderly was shaking me by the arm and announcing breakfast. Reveille was just being sounded up at the garrison. The sun had not yet climbed high enough to peep over the Matitzal, but it was broad daylight. In ten minutes Carroll and I were enjoying our coffee and _frijoles_; Blake had ridden up into the garrison. Potts was still absent; and so, as we expected, was Mr. Gleason. Half an hour more, and in long column of twos, and followed by our packtrain, the command was filing out along the road whereon "No. 3" had seen the ambulance darting by in the darkness. Blake had come back from the post with a flush of anger on his face and with lips compressed. He did not even dismount. "Saddle up at once" was all he said until he gave the commands to mount and march. Opposite the quarters of the commanding officer we were riding at ease, and there he shook his gauntleted fist at the whitewashed walls, and had recourse to his usual safety-valve,-- "'Take heed, my lords, the welfare of us all Hangs on the cutting short that fraudful man,' and may the devil fly away with him! What d'ye think he told me when I went to hunt him up?" There was no suitable conjecture.
By ranjit4 years ago in Humans