CIM

Joined October 2025

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I believe challenges shape us. I guide you to heal from breakups,toxic relationships, rediscover your dreams, and grow into your best self—with honest advice and uplifting insights to help you rise stronger.

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When pain shows on the skin: how emotional abuse can steal your peace and your beauty
There was a time in my life when a was trapped in an emotionally abusive situation. Each day felt like a silent war. I cried often. I was anxious, unsettled, and constantly walking on egg shells. I smiled in front of others_ at school, in public during conversations_ but inside, I was deeply broken.
By CIM21 days ago in Psyche
Behind the smile:Living with a narcissist who charms the world but destroys you
There's a particular kind of pain that goes unseen_the kind that wears a mask in public but leaves bruises in private. Narcissist abuse is one of the most invisible forms of emotional violence, not because it's rare, but because the person causing ham is often the most admired in the room.
By CIM24 days ago in Families
From Appearance to Assurance
There was a time in my life where I believed that looking beautiful was the key to being confidence. I was convinced that if I was dressed well, wore the right makeup, and presented myself as the most polished person in the room, I would automatically earn respect. Especially when it comes to public speaking, I used to think that external beauty would hide my insecurities. I believed that as long as I looked confident ,people wouldn't notice how nervous I really was inside.
By CIM29 days ago in Writers
She taught me to build the inside
A few years ago while I still at the University, I had a conversation with a friend that shifted everything inside of me. We were in class chatting about money, dreams and our future goals. She was someone admired, hardworking, determined and smart. She always found ways to found her own money, and I remember joking with her about how focused she was. I said something like "you're a bit obsessed", aren't you?
By CIM29 days ago in History
When family toxicity delays dreams
Many psychologists and educational_studies researchers confirm that too many experience in silence: a toxic family environment,even if just "family" can seriously delays a young people's dreams and personal growth.
By CIMabout a month ago in Families
When Missing Someone Isn't About Them
We often say we miss someone from our past_an ex, a friend, a lost loved one. But what if we don't miss them? what if we're missing a part of ourselves? A moment in time ? A dream that was once alive?
By CIMabout a month ago in Confessions
When Real Love feels to Much: Learning to Receive After Being Conditioned by Pain
There was a time in my life when I believed that love meant surviving. I thought love was something that you had to earn by being quiet enough, Pleasing enough, useful enough. I thought love was accepting whatever was given, even when it hurt, as long as it meant you weren't alone.
By CIMabout a month ago in Families
The Silence Trap: When Silence After a Breakup Becomes Self-Sabotage
In the aftermath of a breakup, many people choose silence. It's quiet, powerful, and can feel like the only left to protect one's pride. But when silence is used not for peace _ but for pretense_ when it becomes a weapon to provoke a reaction, rather than a space for healing_ it often backfires.
By CIMabout a month ago in Writers
From Fear to Fearless: How I found My Voice Through Pain
Some time ago I wrote about the danger of using pain as our only motivation. But today, I want to share to other side of the story_how our hard times when understood and embraced, can actually guide us toward real growth and success. Pain, when channeled wisely, can become our teacher, not only our burden.
By CIM2 months ago in Writers
THE PROMISE THAT HOLD US HOSTAGE : HOW EMOTIONAL EMPTINESS KEEP US IN TO A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP
I want to share something personal _ a story about how the emptiness we carry inside can blind us and keep us tied to relationships that harm us, all because of a single promise made during a vulnerable moment.
By CIM2 months ago in Motivation
GIVING MYSELF CLOSURE
Inspired by my journey and a motivational talk by Denzel Washington. After my breakup, I felt completely lost. The person I deeply cared about was no longer in my life, and yet I spent days and months waiting for them to give me answers. I couldn't sleep, I couldn't focus, and every thought seemed to circle back to them. I kept asking myself: what did I do wrong? was I not enough? I replayed our moments together over and over, searching for a reason, something to make me understoond why it ended.
By CIM2 months ago in Humans
Transform pain into success
We often find ourselves in the situation where we can not held ourselves with confidence not because we're weak but because the person in front of us makes us feel small. We hide our true selves out of fear : fear that If we show who we really are they may stop loving us. We stay quiet so we don't offend them, we stay in a relationship for long wearing a mask. They think they know us deeply, but they only know the version we've carefully crafted while walking on eggshells.
By CIM2 months ago in Writers

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When pain shows on the skin: how emotional abuse can steal your peace and your beauty

Behind the smile:Living with a narcissist who charms the world but destroys you

From Appearance to Assurance

She taught me to build the inside

When family toxicity delays dreams

When Missing Someone Isn't About Them

When Real Love feels to Much: Learning to Receive After Being Conditioned by Pain

The Silence Trap: When Silence After a Breakup Becomes Self-Sabotage

From Fear to Fearless: How I found My Voice Through Pain

THE PROMISE THAT HOLD US HOSTAGE : HOW EMOTIONAL EMPTINESS KEEP US IN TO A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

GIVING MYSELF CLOSURE

Transform pain into success

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