Amanda Nicole
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Hey I'm Amanda! I'm a writer, Podcaster and a pet sitter. I'm much more then that! Read my stories to find out :)
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I'd like to talk about Mental Health
I think we as a society need to talk about Mental Health more. So as the resident loud person I'd like to talk about it. Yesterday I published a piece on how much I accomplished this year and how proud of myself I am. I talked about all the lessons I learned and how I've grown as a person over the last 3 years in particular. And while all that may be true, and I will never want to change anything about what I accomplished. I do want to let you in on a little secret? But before I do please understand that I am not being negative or downplaying my accomplishments or saying that I'm not proud of myself. I am so proud of everything. That will never change. Please understand that.
By Amanda Nicole26 days ago in Humans
You Can't Rush Healing
I've been baring my naked soul on here, in my books, on my podcast, other websites for years now. All of which have documented my healing journey over the last 5 years. And while I'm happy to share my story in hopes of helping others and will continue to do so. I had a thought last night that struck me. "You've been healing for 5 years now shouldn't you be done? you have an associates degree, you're close to getting a bachelors, you've done all this work....why aren't you done?"
By Amanda Nicoleabout a month ago in Humans
I'm Different . Top Story - November 2025.
Hey everyone! I'm Amanda. I've been writing here for a few years now and boy have I bared my naked soul to yall. I've written about heartbreaks, music, lessons. You name it. But now I'd like to tell you how much i've changed over the last 5 years.
By Amanda Nicole2 months ago in Humans
Well it's been a while
Hello! It's been a long time since I've written. A lot has changed, I got my Associates Degree in Human Services. I graduated 2 months ago with a 3.76 GPA. I'm now getting my bachelors degree which I will have in one year. I flipped the script of the narrative that I thought i would have forever. I thought I never get anywhere for the longest time but after doing 2 amazing internships and getting my degree I can confidentially say that I will do it all. I will be a damn good therapist and a writer and podcaster. I'm extremely excited for what the future holds.
By Amanda Nicole6 months ago in Humans
F*ck Going Back To School
This May I embarked on a two year adventure, I went back to school. I decided to get an associates degree in applied sciences and study to be the addictions counselor I've wanted to be for years. 6 years and one abusive realtionship later here we are. It was hard to get the courage to go back, I pondered this for months. So many questions came up, would I do well? Would I pass my classes? Would I even get my degree? Am I even smart enough? Could I afford it? Would it be a waste of time? So many thoughts ran through my head. But despite all that I decided to take a risk and apply, I filled out the application and got all the required information from my high school. I decided to major in Human Services that seemed the closest thing to psychology (it is) And I sent in all my information.
By Amanda Nicole2 years ago in Humans
An Open Letter to my Daughter
Dear Wednesday, That's what your name was going to be, please don't @ me. I've always loved the Adams Family and Wednesday was always my faovrite character. She's sarcastic and acerbic and I live for it. I always thought that would be a cute name for a girl. Well today would've been your fifth birthday. You almost came into my life 3 times and while I'm glad you didn't in a way because you would've grown up with an abusive dad. I still wonder how you would've ended up. I bet you'd be just like me, weird and way to caring. I wonder if you'd have my eyes or my voice. I also wonder if you'd have my Taylor Swift Addiction. We could've gone to concerts together! We would've been best friends. But you never ended up coming into my life and that's probably for the best. I was way to immature to have you and your dad would've hurt you in addition to me. I still wonder though at times. It's been 5 years but I still hurt every year on this day. I can't go visit you at a grave, you were never born. I can't write you letters, you won't get them. I have to get over it. I can however say that someone else has come into my life and filled the void. My dog, Bonnie lou. She's 8 years old and my world. But she still isn't you. I love her more then life itself, don't get me wrong. I would do anything for her, she saved my life. I can't deny that. But she's still not you.
By Amanda Nicole3 years ago in Humans
F*cking Song Lyrics
How closely are we listening to Song Lyrics? In my opinion songs are often ignored stories and poems. They are windows into someone’s soul and heart. When you turn on a song are you really listening to the words? Are you finding meaning in the lyrics? Are you feeling anything? That’s what happens when I listen to music. It’s free therapy in a way. I’d be lying if I said there wasn’t one artist in particular whose lyrics and videos have helped me through things, I’ll never be able to explain or understand personally. Her music inspired me to write most of my books! And has helped me heal. I’ve cried to her songs, I’ve laughed, and I’ve screamed. But most of all, I’ve felt solace in knowing maybe I wasn’t alone. That artist is Taylor Swift.
By Amanda Nicole3 years ago in Humans
Getting the F%ck back out there.
We've all been there, after a relationship ends and we've taken some time to heal. We decide that it's probably time to get back out there....Maybe. It's a scary situation! Putting yourself out there again after being treated like shit. Because we have to figure out what it is that we want from our next relationship. Sure we don't want someone like what we had, but what do we want? I want something very specific and I'm not sure I'll find it. I want to be with someone whose my best friend. I want to belt out music in the car, give them weirdo gifts we joked about months ago, I want to have inside jokes with them. I want to pull up to their house with a car full of snacks and rock music and surprise them with a day at the beach. But most importantly I need to feel safe with that person. If you've read any of my other pieces you'll know I was in an abusive relationship for 6 years. So naturally I'm going to need to feel safe with someone and be able to trust them. This is hard for me. Especially in this hookup culture we seem to be living in. Nobody wants to do any of that special stuff anymore. All they want to do is f%ck and leave. That's not a relationship. I want to actually have a relationship with someone. I want to wake up feeling safe and with a phone full of good morning messages if we're not together. Of course I'd have boundaries like no talking or hanging out with the opposite gender alone. I don't think that's unfair. I think not settling until you find that right person is the best thing you can do. Sure nobodies perfect, but we can't just settle with the first person that's nice to us. Maybe they aren't right for us. Just because someones good to you, doesn't necessarily mean there good for you. That's something I feel like people don't really understand. And frankly it took me a while to understand as well. You need to find someone whose both. I do say quite often that I'm never dating again. And while that may be true! I do want to point out that I've done some reflecting and came to the conclusion that IF someone came along and they fit all of my boundaries and standards, MAYBE I would give them a chance. But with that being said, it may never happen. I may never find someone. I may in fact be single forever and that's not a bad thing. I can still achieve all my dreams without someone in my life. I'd require a lot of patience and reassurance and care. I don't think that's something a lot of people would necessarily be equiped to do. Maybe I need to do some more healing before I get back out there. There is really no rush! We have our whole lives to find someone if that's in the cards for us! We don't need to have someone in our lives to be happy. You need to complete yourself, don't expect someone to complete you! That's unrealistic. Sure you want someone to compliment you but expecting them to complete you is too much. Being upfront with what you want and what you're willing to accept and not willing to accept is something we all need to do. Don't settle for anything less then you deserve. Remember this one thing that we all need to know and it's fairly simple: Never think that almost is good enough for you.
By Amanda Nicole3 years ago in Humans
To The Girl With No Self Esteem.
To The Girl With No Self Esteem, I'd like to start this letter by saying that I'm right there with you. I don't have any either. I don't know that I ever did. But that's what this letter is about. It's about why we don't have any. Maybe you were bullied in school, Maybe you were abused in a relationship? What caused you to not have any. Think of the reason right now. Whatever the reason is I want you to know that it is NOT your fault. Whoever hurt you was projecting their pain onto you, while that's not fair or nice. It's the truth. But what I want to you know is this: You do matter! I know you think you don't. And I have those days as well. I seem to think nobody cares about me and I'm better off alone and that I deserved to be abused by my ex. And while the last one isn't true! Nobody deserves to be abused. I have to remember that I'm not alone and that people do care about me. I'm not alone because I know people have the same struggles as me. It's not easy to remember. Today I just wanted to lay in bed and do nothing. But I couldn't, I had work to do. Somedays I feel like I'm bothering everyone around me and I would be better off on a different planet all alone. And sometimes I feel like people are only talking to me because they want to be nice, not because they want to. Can you relate? If so, welcome to the party! If not, I hope you're enjoying your life with self esteem. I'd love to know what that's like. I'm glad you have self esteem though. But for those of us that don't. I'd like to say something: You can find the self esteem you deserve! I'm working on it daily. It's difficult for sure but it's necessary. Or is society telling us to find it? I'm not sure anymore.
By Amanda Nicole3 years ago in Humans
Goodbye Love
I was sitting in church this morning and my pastor was talking about love. And how Love is patient and kind and bears all things and endures all things and never ends. While that is both a bible verse and a qoute from one of my favorite movies. I disagree with that qoute and here's why: Love shatters you, it changes you in a way that you won't always like. It cracks you open like a walnut and devastates you. It makes you see things in gray. Love is not rainbows and butterflies. Love can sometimes hurt you in ways you never saw coming. And while they say love shouldn't hurt, and I do agree with that statement. I also don't believe in love. Love is for suckers. Love is not for the faint of heart. Love can change you in ways you didn't want to change. It can distract you and make you see things you never saw before.
By Amanda Nicole3 years ago in Humans
Late Night Thoughts....
Quick Backstory: This is actually an excerpt from a book I recently published called Late Night Thoughts: What keeps me up at night part 4. I was very inspired by Taylor Swifts New Album Midnights. Which is a collection of Late Night Thoughts. This got me thinking about my own late night thoughts. So with that I decided to write a book, four to be exact. And believe me when I say some of the thoughts were heavy. I was able to process things I didn't know I needed to, I was able to let things go that had harbored in my brain for years and was finally able to find peace in my heart with things that I never thought I would. See to me writing is therapeutic, it's been elemental in my healing process and has allowed me to share my story and connect with people out there who've been through similar things. That has been more than humbling and for that I'm forever grateful. So without further ado...here is an excerpt from my last book.
By Amanda Nicole3 years ago in Humans
