healing
How to heal fully and properly.
Life is precious
We all are so engaged in our lives that no one acknowledges that our lives are so precious. Life is a gift given to us to make the best out of it. It is a celebration in itself, glorify it, and cherish it every single day. Life is very short to be wasted, to give up on our plans, to stay far away from the people we love. We are ageing every day. We don't know how much time is remaining for us so being content and finding and executing our purpose should be our goal. We all should 5 by 5 rule in our lives. If something you think is not going to happen in the next five years so don't stress about it for more than 5 minutes a day.
By Vanshika Dhawan4 years ago in Motivation
Drive Through Suffering
Time after time my life seems to fall apart and I’m always there to pick myself up. I’m a strong woman but I’d be lying if I said that it’s easy to wipe my tears and continue on. It’s absolutely exhausting. You have a few good days and think to yourself, “Okay, maybe I can do this. Maybe this is the top for me, and everything will be alright after all.” Then, all of a sudden, a relative pass away, your boyfriend cheats on you, you end up broke or get left with nothing to your name. Something unexpected happens that stunts your growth, creates a pause in your life and next thing you know your back where you started. You weren’t prepared for it, to deal with these things, but when are you ever prepared for something unexpected? Your heart begins to ache again, and life is no longer what you thought it was a couple days ago. But don’t even get me started on those days where you had to save the hurt for later so that you can get through the day and the next day and the next one after that. Then, something else comes up and you collect that and save it with the other thing and so on and so forth. You know it’s not the right thing to do and that you're just hurting yourself holding onto things that just want to be set free. You just want to be happy. “Why can’t I just be happy? Why can’t I just have one good week?” Most times I feel like I will never escape these hard times because of how harsh and heavy it feels. But there you go. Pushing on no matter what. You could’ve given up and just said fuck it. Man, I don’t know how many times I could’ve just said fuck it and just stayed where I fell off at, but that part of me who longs for success couldn’t just let the bad things overcome me. It was almost as if I found drive through my suffering. My relatives passed, I'm going to cry about it and make sure they didn’t pass for nothing. My boyfriend cheated on me, I’m going to cry it out and then begin my healing journey because I know that there’s always going to be someone out there for me and only me. I end up broke, I'm going to bust my ass to be financially stable again. I’m left with nothing; I’m going to keep going on until I have something. You get the point though. You have to appreciate your hard times just like you do your good times because that’s when you decide that you will no longer stay stagnant in your suffering. This is what makes us the strongest. Not how we are able to endure it but how we are able to move on and keep going afterwards. I was reading a famous book by Mark Manson called “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck,” where he talks about “The Responsibility/Fault Fallacy” where what happens to you, the responsibility, isn't your fault but what you decide to do or how to feel afterwards, the fault fallacy, is all up to you. Maybe it isn’t my fault that my life has fallen apart many times, but it is my fault on how I decide to deal with it afterwards because that will determine how I’m going to move forward.
By Myra Vey4 years ago in Motivation
The world
Life is, what you think it is . If you think happy and are vibrant and loving . You become that you radiate that and you spread that. Energy is the quickest way to heal not only your own self, but the world we experience as a whole. Love is beautiful, and you making other people feel loved, causes a cycle. You will spread that to someone and they will spread it too. Through a smile ,or handshake , maybe even five dollars while it’s due. Happiness is more powerful than hate . Love is more powerful than being unkind.
By April Liao4 years ago in Motivation
Make Good Decisions
I was seventeen when a boy told me to “make good decisions” after he asked me what I was going to wear to an outing with my Aunts when I told him jeans and heels. He was disturbed by the fact that I’d be wearing kitten heeled shoes to a bridal show as if they were a symbol of promiscuity. Good Lord… if I knew then what I know now. I remember feeling a chill to my bones when he told me that, too. As if I’d be too sexy or too much for the general public. You hate to give a guy like that any sort of attention, but sometimes when you break yourself free of that, it’s not damned if you didn’t… it’s damn glad you did.
By Emily Beck4 years ago in Motivation
Believe in God first
This part of my story was written on July 2, 2018. I will start slowly for my readers to feel where I am coming from with no judgment. I want my readers to take my story and my accomplishments and use it in their everyday lives from this point on. Eventually, you get tired of being in the dark, and you want to be heard. I am such a go-getter, and I want so much for my-self. No matter my trials and tribulations, I've always stayed true to being a good human being. Take my strength and learn from it. I want to help all of us succeed. HONESTLY, I CAN'T BELIEVE I AM DOING THIS. I can go on and on about the things I've been through, but then I think to myself. FOR WHAT? So I can look like a victim, so people will judge my story to laugh. And that little voice in my head says, "you're not doing it for them. You are doing it for YOU". Rolonda, you're not like everybody else. You have a VOICE.
By Rolonda Lewis4 years ago in Motivation
13 Differences Between Successful and Unsuccessful People
There are plenty of theories out there of what it normally takes to be profitable. Some men and women declare that you have to be blessed with certain attributes to succeed, while some others assume that everyone who also paid the retail price can easily attain success.
By lupu alexandra4 years ago in Motivation
Your Life
When you spend your time , your days , and your weeks appreciating Someone beyond comprehension ,yet they look at you days later saying it wasn’t enough, only to add more things for you to do as if you were Cinderella . But the minute you come to this awakened perception of what’s actually happening you can finally be free . ✨✨✨✨💕💕💕💕💕 you have to realize you’ll be loved no matter what you are or what you do in life . Someone out there is waiting for you, the breeze of air is being guided to you and just on the other side will be a man or woman shortly at the end of it . So I ask every single one of you stay strong and present in the life we are all here living , know you are not alone . when you have doubts look in the mirror for it’s an image of you. now hold your hand up , put it softly against thy mirror , as you hold that hand up feel the power as you say i can ! now as your saying i can, i want you to think of a dream you thought impossible. A place you wished to be in, a state of mind you’ve always wanted to achieve . in those very seconds i’m proud to tell you you’ve already achieved it . every day you do this you will see results . you a blessed you are loved you are your own path . you are uniquely and beautifully in control of your life . take it now ! remember everything takes time it’s not something to rush . some of you might say well why not i want it here now . some might just be overly impatient . but the best advice i can give to any of you reading this in the world is the universe is full of patience . so when you are patient you will notice the finer things in life . Each day you wake up there is a new adventure looking to pick you up and teach you . This is life’s way of bringing you to the path or goals you’ve always wanted . Sometimes you’ll even achieve more than what you’ve wanted . life can be full of sour lemons , weighing you down. but i’m here to tell you we’re stronger, we’re the sweetness that bites the bitter . Now if you really think about it for just one small moment, it takes less than 5 seconds to change your life . Let me repeat that it takes 5 seconds to change your life . Some of you might say how is this possible it can’t be true . But i have great news for you , it is beyond true . Even better if you think positively for 15 seconds straight you manifest into your reality in the control of yourself ! if you think negatively for 15 seconds you’ve got something coming around that corner, but it was also guided by you . but this life is full of choices and it’s up to you to choose which you want . Now going back to the mirror i want you to see that mirror as a portal . some of you may say hell no , but mirrors are not bad they are reflectors . what you see may be reflections of who you are now . in the mirror can be the person you want and can be , sometimes we may feel stuck like we can’t do it . but again i will tell you to touch that mirror touching your hand once more, that’s all you need to do to have the strength of claiming your life back . for those of you going through a time where you think other peoples opinions matter in your life . i hate to tell you this but they don’t . make the opinions on yourself not on the grounds of someone else’s life . they are not you but you are capable of doing anything you want to do in life . take charge be you and choose love .
By Tiana Caldwell4 years ago in Motivation
Square Peg
In the second grade you usually can't understand the importance of shapes in relation to their intended purpose… not right away, anyhow. I remember game day with significance now at this juncture in my life, and find myself inclined to act upon a habit that formed in childhood, shaping the outcome of my choices ever since.
By Veronica Coldiron4 years ago in Motivation
