advice
Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..
Don't waste time knocking on a wall
A distant relative is particularly fond of painting. He has participated in many trainings, painted a lot of works every month, and tried to participate in various official or private exhibitions, but after more than ten years, he failed to become a famous painter. He complained to me about his frustration, complaining that some people who hold the power of art discourse nowadays have no eyes and look down on grassroots painters. I said to him, "It's good for a person to love painting, but you don't have to be a painter to love painting, it's too hard to be a painter, it's not as happy as enjoying paintings and books." I threw cold water for a reason. This relative has sent me several paintings with dull brushstrokes, mediocre colors, poor imagination, and no personal characteristics, and the poems next to them are half-passed and without context. Such a person will not succeed if he wants to take the path of art creation.
By RACHEL HELMS5 years ago in Humans
Listen
At the end of the night, the moonlight is like a white lotus, gradually opening in the dark night sky. I was in front of my desk, writing furiously, worrying about my academic performance which had not improved for a long time, and my mood was so depressed that water could drip out. The dark desk lamp shines on the pages, and the only sound left in my ears is the rustle of the pen tip rubbing against the paper.
By RACHEL HELMS5 years ago in Humans
What you suffer will light up your way
The road of life has its ups and downs, and anyone can fall into a low period. We often say that there is no blessing, no misfortune, misfortune comes one after another, but people do not even have the opportunity to breathe and adjust, they are pushed into the abyss by a pair of invisible giant hands.
By RACHEL HELMS5 years ago in Humans
Let the emotions come and go lightly
Without accepting your own emotions, you cannot accept the emotions of others. Especially in intimate relationships, when your significant other encounters problems or difficulties in work and life, confiding in you his anger, aggravation or helplessness and other emotions, if you do not maintain a good listening, companionship or comfort, but took the way to reason with him or complain, blaming him for not doing what you came up with, or using your own usual method of suppressing avoidance of emotions to ask him: keep smiling. That's really a cruel thing to do! This cruelty, of course, does not mean how much you consciously do not want him to be well, but on a subconscious level. You think he encountered such a thing, the reason why haunted because not sensible enough, small-minded, always trapped in the event itself, can not jump out. You persuaded him in the WeChat end, sent him a few smiley faces and said "look at my smile".
By RACHEL HELMS5 years ago in Humans
Keeping the bottom line of life
In one's life, one should ask oneself to achieve this, do that, get this, feel that, etc. from the positive side. At the same time, it is perhaps more important to set the opposite boundary, i.e., not to do this, not to do that, not to get out of this. In this way, perhaps your life will be clearer and more lucid.
By RACHEL HELMS5 years ago in Humans
The balance of life
I don't know if you believe it or not, no matter what kind of life, in the short or long life need to balance, and will be balanced in the end. Snow White naturally has her beautiful face as it should be, but also because of the jealousy of her stepmother and being hunted, poisoned combs and poisoned apples and other dangers brought about by the unsatisfactory; Cinderella naturally has its tragic fate of all kinds, but also its wonderful reward of finally coming true. Blind, Italy's Andrea Cepoli became a famous blind singer; leg disability, Ireland's Christy Brown but with the only able to move the left foot typing keyboard, become a famous writer. The tall ones, such as Yao Ming, can naturally achieve his career, he can go to the NBA to play basketball in the United States, the scenery is unlimited. But short, it must be inferior to a tall one? Such as Napoleon, by today's standards probably have to be a second-degree disability, but his short height does not prevent him from becoming a hero of the world.
By Chevon Hopkins5 years ago in Humans
The three keys of life
Any iron lock, there is a key to open; any problem, there are ways to solve; any hardship, there are ways to free. Some people conclude that there are also three keys to life, as long as you master it, you can turn good fortune and smooth sailing.
By RACHEL HELMS5 years ago in Humans
Please stay away from the person who always throws cold water on you
Yesterday, when I was shopping in the mall, I met two girls in a brand clothing store, one of them was holding a big red dress and wanted to try it on, the clerk was about to take the girl to the fitting room, the other girl interjected inappropriately: "Wearing red is tacky, and your body shape, skin does not match at all, or change it."
By Chevon Hopkins5 years ago in Humans
Life's Regrets
One day, A, B, C, D, E five old people in a coffee shop meeting, are full of the world, and the "vicissitudes" of different versions; but there is a common place - drinking black coffee, that is, milk, sugar, sugar substitute and so on all do not add. Today, the topic is "regret".
By RACHEL HELMS5 years ago in Humans
Those passbooks of life
The other day, I went to the bank to make a deposit, holding the green passbook, and suddenly found that the green passbook is very much like a green field. The thin lines on the passbook are like a monopoly, month after month, year after year, I don't know how many seeds of hope have been planted and how many smiles of happiness have been harvested.
By Chevon Hopkins5 years ago in Humans
