Please stay away from the person who always throws cold water on you

Yesterday, when I was shopping in the mall, I met two girls in a brand clothing store, one of them was holding a big red dress and wanted to try it on, the clerk was about to take the girl to the fitting room, the other girl interjected inappropriately: "Wearing red is tacky, and your body shape, skin does not match at all, or change it."

　　Both the clerk and the girl were awkwardly silent for a few seconds, and then I saw the originally elated girl silently put down the skirt in her hand, the joy on her face swept away, and the two went to another clothing store.

　　I took a look at the back of the lost girl and felt sorry for her.

　　In fact, the girl is just a little fatter than her companion, and her skin is not too dark, wearing that skirt is no problem at all, but the other girl's sense of superiority is too strong.

　　Life is full of such examples, there is always a kind of people, the beautiful name is to stand in your shoes for you, but when you think about it, they seem to have nothing else to do but to throw cold water on you.

　　When I was a sophomore, my classmate, Linzi, took the Mandarin level exam, and stepped over the line to pass the second grade A. The young girl was very motivated and wanted to go to the first grade B. So she posted a comment in the space, and after half a day, the comment section exploded, mostly with words of encouragement, but only one sharp comment in the middle, from another classmate of mine, Xiaoa. -The company's main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to its customers.

　　I don't know how Linzi felt when she saw this comment, but I remember that she enrolled in a Mandarin class and went to the top floor of the school building every morning to practice her pronunciation and speech when she was close to the exam. The department only requires you to pass the second grade."

　　Linzi ignored Xiaoa and continued to take the Mandarin exam. In her junior year, Linzi got her Mandarin Level 1B certificate as she wished, and became the first person in our class to pass Level 1B.

　　This time, Xiaoa didn't say anything else, but just gave Linzi a quiet blessing. The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.

　　We need friends who tell the truth, but that doesn't mean the kind of friends who are tongue-in-cheek and only spread negative energy to you. The people who really think about you will not deny you, and when you have a problem, he will give you a list of advantages and disadvantages, weighing the pros and cons, and finally let you make your own decision.

　　For those who will only painlessly say you can't friends, I just want to say, please don't kidnap others in the name of friends' freedom.

　　Things come together as a group, and people come together as a group. The environment you are in largely determines your mood and pattern. You and cheerful and confident people together, you harvest is full of positive energy, you and gloomy and depressed people together, you will also be affected by his bad mood mood.

　　Do not thank those who play the slogan of good for you but will only throw cold water on you, they are not close friends, but arsenic. If you meet such people, try to stay away from them.