coping
Life presents variables; learning how to cope in order to master, minimize, or tolerate what has come to pass.
The Ferocity of a Father's Love: Protection From Above
As I pen this piece, I am in Perth, Western Australia. This city was my home for ten incredible years but I have been gone for seven now. I had to return to get what was left of my belongings out of storage — a friend’s shed in Perth’s Hills.
By Vanessa Brown12 months ago in Psyche
makers of misery
i haven't done much writing lately. at least, not as much as i'd like to. i wish to write about black history month, or executive dysfunction, or the struggles of being neurodivergent in a society that doesn't cater to me. i wish to write about so many things, and yet i cannot connect the thoughts in my head to the tips of my fingers.
By choreomania12 months ago in Psyche
55. Top Story - February 2025.
I turned 55 on Sunday, Feb. 2, the Groundhog Day. And it hit me hard. I do occasionally suffer from the Birthday Blues. You know, no one's getting younger and every year is another wrinkle on your face and in other places. I know, I know, there are a lot of people even in this community who might think, "55! I wish I were that young again!" and I do understand them. I really do. We all have different perspectives on our own age.
By Lana V Lynx12 months ago in Psyche
Journey of a Mad Man
Through moments of self-reflection, self-analysis, reading, and other observation methods I have re-imagined pre-existing theories and how they may be relatable to ones life (so far my own). My intention is merely to provide the reader (you) with what I’ve learned on my own journey. Should you find anything of use, then I am grateful. However, your path is yours and requires self-reflection & self-discovery.
By Jerome Henderson12 months ago in Psyche
Narcissists Leave When You No Longer Play Their Game
It is not necessary for the self-centered narcissist to have a reason for leaving, but their departure is often due to the fact that they have discovered someone else who they enjoy more than you. Someone who is considered by him or her to be a “safe heaven and a better catch.” Due to the fact that this situation might alter rapidly, the narc will often want your rear door to remain open.
By Waleed Ahmed12 months ago in Psyche
The Insidious Trauma Bond: Why Empaths Fall for Narcissists (and How to Break Free)
The possibility of developing a trauma link with a narcissist is a consequence of untreated childhood trauma injuries. The personalities and experiences of the narcissist and the empath are quite similar due to their upbringing. The weakest link in the chain, the narcissist, developed narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) as a self-defense mechanism. Because you are more resilient, you are also attention-seeking, have a personality that is addictive, are people-pleasing, and needy, among other characteristics. The distinction lies, of course, in the fact that you are able to experience genuine affection for other individuals while also managing the unpleasant emotions of shame and guilt in a typical manner. You are able to develop as a person during the course of your lifetime. When you connect with individuals that you respect and love, you are attentive to the feedback that you get about those interactions. As a human, you develop in a natural way. In addition, you get knowledge from the triumphs and failures of other individuals. It gives you a more comprehensive perspective, one in which the world, and not just oneself, is intriguing. This is not the case for the individual who suffers from NPD.
By Waleed Ahmed12 months ago in Psyche
Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder: Therapy and Challenges
The majority of mental health disorders are addressed with a mix of psychotherapy and pharmacotherapy. However, personality disorders, such as Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD), are unresponsive to pharmacological treatment. If medications are provided, they will be used to address the symptoms of any concurrent conditions that may exist. Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder may achieve optimal rehabilitation via a program that provides individual, group, and family treatment. Continuous and rigorous long-term treatment may assist individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder in understanding the detrimental effects of their illness on their lives and hindering their potential, while the contributions of peers and loved ones can provide context, depth, and reinforcement to these insights. Narcissism serves as a fundamental organizing component of personality for individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD); hence, mental health professionals will not confront the disease overtly or forcefully. The therapeutic procedure should be undertaken with intentionality and prudence to prevent the patient from becoming overwhelmed prematurely. Therapists and narcissistic patients will collaboratively identify the attitudes and behaviors that generate stress, conflict, and unhappiness in the patient’s life. During rehabilitation, therapists will motivate individuals with NPD to engage in constructive behaviors to mitigate the adverse effects of their narcissistic traits, offering practical guidance and training to facilitate this process. Therapists treating narcissistic individuals must endeavor to establish an environment devoid of judgmental attitudes, concentrating only on solutions. A positive therapeutic approach is crucial, as it fosters trust and enhances the efficacy of communication between physician and patient. Therapeutic approaches based on empirical evidence for individuals diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder often encompass:
By Waleed Ahmed12 months ago in Psyche
The Dark Side of Malignant Narcissists
It is common practice to make similarities between the malignant narcissist and sociopaths and psychopaths when one is seeking to get an understanding of the narcissist. What differentiates them from other types of narcissists is the fact that they often exhibit a nasty streak. This is one of the characteristics that sets them apart from the average narcissist. One theory is that they get pleasure from the misery of other people because it gives them a sense of control and accomplishment over themselves. This is because it gives them a sense of accomplishment. The sight of other individuals going through emotional pain or suffering, as well as being irritated, confused, or experiencing other unpleasant sentiments, is what arouses them. They are notorious for saying or doing things that are cruel, wicked, or nasty, and they gain their energy from seeing other people in similar states. They are also known for their horrible behavior. When it comes to the abusive psychological features that they exhibit, the degree of conduct and intensity that they exhibit is one that is high, somewhat callous, and rather cold. This is shown by the fact that they exhibit these characteristics.
By Waleed Ahmed12 months ago in Psyche
