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How to Overcome Difficult Times
To be successful in your business, you need so much mental strength that, as you can see, only Hercules himself is capable of it.
By Maisey North4 years ago in Humans
3 Mechanisms by Which Memory Prevents Us from Forgetting the Past
Over time, our brain can distort the memories stored in it. That's why we remember things that didn't happen and we forget things that happened at one point.
By Esther Felix4 years ago in Humans
Reducing unhealthy conflict
I talk with people about conflict a lot. Often, couples come to speak to me about their cycle of conflict, or negative cycle, because the way that they are in conflict is causing problems in their lives. Sometimes family members come for similar reasons. I find that people often want to banish conflict from their lives entirely, but the avoidance of conflict causes difficulties too — mostly a lack of connection and understanding and this is a huge sacrifice to make for a peaceful life. So I talk to people about the difference between healthy conflict and unhealthy conflict, or ways that people can disagree without getting into arguments. Healthy conflict causes the energy that we need for change. Put another way, you can’t polish a gem without a little friction!
By Gemma Parker4 years ago in Humans
Time Puts Them Everything in The Proper Place
Every step you take, every word, every deed - everything has its consequences. Even if you don't think so, time will tell. He is the wisest and most impartial judge.
By Catrina Elison4 years ago in Humans
How Not to Hurt the Feelings of Others
We are all human, and we all have to hurt the feelings of others at least once in our lives. For the most part, of course, we all try not to do that. Usually, we try so hard not to hurt someone, even by accident, that we are ready to make considerable sacrifices, just so as not to put a person in an awkward position.
By Kaila Sellers4 years ago in Humans
An Article about the Friendships We Distance Ourselves from throughout Our Lives
Each of us has a moment when we understand that not all people in our lives will be in it forever. The friends you made in your youth don't always stay close to old age, and that's pretty normal.
By Kaila Sellers4 years ago in Humans
What to Do and What Not to Do During an Important Discussion
Some conversations do not go as expected, even if you have been intensely prepared for them and have tried to discover all the viable options.
By Kaila Sellers4 years ago in Humans
Healing my Zombie Self
Tara Brach, one of the teachers in my Mindfulness Meditation Teacher Certification Program, talks often about how we all fall into trance and forget the true nature of our being. Truly, I have lived in this trance for years at a time in the past and still struggle with falling into and out of these zombie states of mind. I believe there are some who never know anything but the trance this temporal existence provides us with. Or maybe it's not the temporal existence giving us anything but the interpretation of such an existence. We are taught that we are separate beings from the time we are very small children and into the rest of our lives.
By Becca Willson4 years ago in Humans
Dear Julia,
I’ve been reading a lot of your books and constantly revising your material - your work, your lessons. I'm realizing that as I read your books, especially “Floor Sample”, it makes me want to write and publish my work constantly. As well as, work on art and publish it constantly, and do the same with my dance work. You make it seem so easy despite feeling “low” at times, or wanting to consume alcohol or cigarettes, or in my day and age, cannabis. You did tamper with certain substances when you were in your 20’s, in Hollywood, a famous director’s wife. You soon realized that being drunk and having blackouts, wasn’t the best idea for you, nor was it good for your writing in the long run. Your support system around you emphasized that fact too.
By Priya G4 years ago in Humans
How to Set Boundaries in Relationships with Narcissistic People
Lack of compassion and responsibility for actions that can influence other people gives narcissists the feeling that they have the right to use other people for their benefit.
By Mohammed Bonilla4 years ago in Humans
This Could Be Why You're Experiencing a Mid-Life Crisis
The typical "middle-age crisis" has never been out of fashion. In fact, it now has a companion – the quarter-life crisis. And, after two years of a global epidemic, many people believe that life is nothing but a series of crises.
By Lora Lime4 years ago in Humans
Love Matters Session Number 2
Hello there! I promised to come back and revisit Rules 2 and 9 from my Ten Online Dating Rules and I will do that in a second. But first, I have to visit that statement and explore what exactly are we doing in this dating world. Are we done with trying? I certainly hope that all hope is not lost! There has to be someone else out that with an ounce of romantism left in them. Has waiting for better, left us all bitter?
By Jay LeTron Dobbins4 years ago in Humans