Time Puts Them Everything in The Proper Place

Every step you take, every word, every deed - everything has its consequences. Even if you don't think so, time will tell. He is the wisest and most impartial judge.

This will not happen immediately and not when you want it to, but in one day everything will open, as if in the palm of your hand. You will see in the mirror of time a reflection of all your actions, of all your deeds.

Howard Gardner, a well-known American psychologist, and neuropsychologist, once said something quite unexpected: that bad people can never surprise the world with something incredible and unusual. The scientist argues that a person who is guided only by his interests, in principle, can not achieve perfection in any way. In the mirror of time, too, is manifested the negativity with which all his thoughts and aspirations are filled.

You reap what you sow and even if you think you are free to do as you wish, the consequences are not to run away and not to hide. Sooner or later, the most honest judge in the world is time, everything will be judged and you will get what you deserve. No more, no less.

It is important to remember that even the most innocent joke or ironic remark can seriously hurt another person. Destroying his world, killing a dream, leaving a wound in his heart unhealed.

If people are not able to take responsibility for every word, observation, deed, it only indicates that they are simply not mature enough and do not understand what sooner or later they will have to deal with the consequences.

Time - the wisest judge

For example, a man raises his children severely, he does not pamper them with love and attention. He sincerely hopes and expects them to grow strong, decisive, and persistent. But everything is exactly the opposite: they turn into miserable and insecure adults.

These parents will reap what they sow. Their children simply distance themselves or start completely avoiding communication with their father and mother. Such behavior will provoke a storm of emotions: "How come I just did so much for them ?! Ungrateful! "

But such a course of events is logical: each of your actions has its consequences. It is easiest to blame children for ingratitude and quality, but if you think about it, a person simply reaps the fruits of what he sowed many years ago.

Therefore, it is so important to remember that for every action, every word, every deed, no matter how insignificant and small, you have to take responsibility. This does not involve guilt, but a deep understanding of the fact that a mature person should be very responsible in what he does, says, and thinks. Because you came to this earth to make the world a better place and not to fit your beliefs and ideas.

Responsibility requires courage

Loneliness - is just one of the consequences of making bad decisions in the past. And this confirms once again how everything in this world is connected by thin wires. Enough for one to show up - and she's already torn apart.

Try to live so that your actions speak for you, not the words so that the responsibility becomes a reflection of the soul. Make sure your thoughts are positive and your thoughts are pure. Believe me, those around you and your world will answer you the same way.

Remember that each person has their own experience and their way. Many times you can't imagine what someone has to go through. Therefore, the only way to make your life better and brighter is to take responsibility for your actions. It will not be difficult at all if you follow the rules below.

How to take responsibility

The first step in this direction is not to focus only on yourself, blaming everyone and everything for every failure or problem. Because you do it based on your needs and ideas "as it should be!" it is important to understand how you are, as well as to explain to your children. They must be aware that all their actions always have consequences. Not today - so tomorrow. Not tomorrow - so years later. That's how it works.

Follow your thoughts, your words, what you didn't say, what you didn't do or did. You are the creator of your unique language, with the help of which you influence other people and their emotions. Therefore, it is so important to always be in touch with others: to feel how they feel, to show empathy and compassion.

You must anticipate the consequences of all your actions and be your judge. This is not "self-control" at all, in which even one word is scary to say. Not at all! Live calmly and easily, just try to prevent how what is said or done can affect other people.

Being responsible means that you cannot be completely free from anything. If a person does not impose any restrictions on his actions, desires, or needs, sooner or later he will face consequences. Hence the proverb: "my freedom ends where yours begins." It is impossible to live in this world among people and be free of people. Therefore, there is only one way out: treat others the way you would like them to treat you.

The truth is that a violation of this rule never goes unnoticed: we are all responsible for our actions. And time, the wisest judge in the world, will surely put everything in its place - sooner or later.