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Sometimes a good divorce is better than a bad marriage.
The Ripple Effect on Families: What Happens When Women Suffer?
When my cousin's wife Achol's phone number flashed up on my screen at 7:28 a.m., I knew something was wrong. She never called before 9am, she is a mother of five under 10, and mornings in her house are an Olympic event. I braced myself, and sure enough, the line opened to a staccato lullaby of children shrieking, the toaster popping, and Achol's breathless voice:
By Majok Wutchok9 months ago in Families
A Farmer is a real person
A farmer is the nation's foundation, working tirelessly from dawn to dusk to ensure that everyone has access to food. In the heart of a rural village, nestled between gentle hills and wide-open fields, lives Ramesh, a dedicated farmer whose life is deeply intertwined with the rhythms of the earth. Each day, he rises before the sun paints the sky with shades of gold, stepping into the morning mist with hope in his heart and determination in his stride. His hands, weathered and calloused from years of labor, are the true tools of his trade—more reliable than any modern machine. As he walks across his fields, the soil greets him like an old friend. He bends down to touch it, feeling its warmth, its readiness to receive life seeds, and its moisture. He begins his work with practiced skill, nurturing the seeds like a father would his children, knowing that each grain holds the promise of a better day. His crops—wheat, rice, vegetables—depend not only on his efforts but also on nature’s cooperation. Ramesh watches the sky constantly, his eyes trained to read the clouds, to sense when rain is near or when drought might loom. The weather, unpredictable and often harsh, is both a friend and foe, capable of blessing him with a bountiful harvest or leaving him staring at withered plants and empty granaries. Life on the farm is not easy. Ramesh faces challenges at every step, from fluctuating market prices and rising costs of seeds and fertilizers to pests and diseases that can destroy months of effort in a matter of days. Yet, he endures it all with quiet strength. His fields come to life with activity during harvest. Under the scorching sun, Ramesh tirelessly cuts, gathers, and stacks the produce with his family and a few hired laborers. The sight of golden grains piled high fills him with pride—a tangible reward for his months of perseverance. However, the struggle does not end there. Another struggle is getting the harvest to the market. Roads are often in poor condition, and middlemen take a large share of the profits. Still, Ramesh remains hopeful. He recognizes the significance of feeding the nation and the dignity of his work. Despite the hardships, he finds moments of joy—listening to the birds as he plows, watching his children play by the fields, and sharing meals with his family under the shade of a tree. These simple pleasures are the treasures of a farmer’s life. Education is important to Ramesh, though he himself had to leave school early to help his father. He wants his children to live a different life—not necessarily one without farming, but one with more options, knowledge, and support. He encourages them to study hard, often sacrificing his own comforts to buy them books or pay their fees. Technology has started to make its way into his village—mobile phones, government apps, and improved irrigation techniques. Ramesh is keen to learn, attending workshops and speaking with agricultural officers who visit the village. He adopts new methods slowly but surely, balancing tradition with innovation. Organic farming, crop rotation, and water conservation are practices he now embraces, not just to improve yield, but to protect the land he loves so dearly. The community around Ramesh plays a vital role in his life. Farmers in his village support one another, sharing tools, advice, and sometimes even seeds during tough times. Festivals are a time of joy and bonding, where they celebrate the fruits of their labor with music, dance, and food. These gatherings are more than just a place to have fun; they also serve as a place of strength and cooperation. However, the modern world is undergoing rapid change. Urban migration is pulling young people away from the land, and Ramesh often wonders what the future holds for farming. Yet, he remains steadfast in his commitment. To him, farming is not just a job; it is a way of life, a sacred duty, and a source of identity. His fields are not just land; they are a legacy passed down through generations, and he feels honored to be their caretaker. Ramesh sits on his porch and looks out over his land as the sun sets behind the hills and the sky turns orange and purple. He is tired, but there is a calm satisfaction in his heart. He has faced the day’s challenges with courage, just as he will tomorrow. His story is one of millions—unsung yet essential, humble yet heroic. A farmer like Ramesh may not wear a suit or sit in an office, but his contribution to the world is immeasurable. He grows not just crops but hope, not just food but the future.
By sami ahmed9 months ago in Families
WHAT HE REALLY NEEDS
Introduction Behind every strong man is a little boy who once craved love, connection, and affirmation. But somewhere along the journey, that boy was told to "man up," "toughen up," and "never cry." And so, he buried himself under layers of silence, strength, and shame — until one day, he could no longer recognize who he truly was.
By Kreative William 2549 months ago in Families
HOW TO MAKE STRESS YOUR FRIEND
Introduction: A Confession About Stress How often have you heard that stress is bad for your health? That it causes heart disease, depression, and even premature death? For years, health psychologist Kelly McGonigal stood behind this message—until one research study completely changed her perspective.
By Kreative William 2549 months ago in Families
Marriage Counseling: What to Expect
Relationships, though rewarding, can sometimes encounter rough patches that seem hard to navigate. While DIY solutions may seem easy, they may not be forthcoming. Seeking guidance can be pivotal in gaining clarity, improving communication, and rebuilding connections. It offers an opportunity to explore deeper aspects of your relationship and lay the groundwork for a stronger, more resilient bond.
By Jonathan Riedel9 months ago in Families
My Comfort, My Zone
We had a tough time. I was at the lowest of my lows when we met. He was old. He was not shiny. Or loud. He was just there in the corner, waiting for somebody to take notice of him. And I did. I’m not really sure if he would like me. I was a mess. I needed somebody to depend on.
By Raquel Panganiban9 months ago in Families
The Power of Apology: Healing the Wounds Words Can’t See
Every relationship—no matter how strong—experiences moments of tension, misunderstanding, or hurt. Whether it’s a harsh word said in anger, forgetting something important, or emotional withdrawal, the pain we cause each other isn’t always visible. But the one thing that has the power to begin the healing process? A genuine apology.
By Zakir Khan9 months ago in Families
Silence and Stigma: The Perfect Storm
The sun sets over Juba, South Sudan’s bustling capital, casting a golden hue over the patchwork of urban and rural lives now intertwined. In a nation where traditions and modernity converge, where rural customs meet urban realities, the dynamics of relationships, particularly polygamous ones, take centre stage. Beneath the surface of these relationships, however, lies a less discussed but critical issue: the prevalence and management of sexually transmitted diseases (STDs). What happens when trust, silence, and cultural norms collide with the stark realities of public health?
By Majok Wutchok9 months ago in Families
10 Real Signs Someone Loves You Silently
Love doesn’t always come with grand gestures or loud declarations. Sometimes, the deepest love is quiet — tucked in actions, hidden in glances, and whispered through consistency. Here’s how to know if someone loves you in silence.
By Abdushakur Mrisho9 months ago in Families
