Abdushakur Mrisho
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Growing Up African Taught Me Things Western Schools Never Could
They taught us how to write essays, solve equations, and analyze Shakespeare. But they didn’t teach us how to greet elders with both hands, how to read a room without words, or how to carry resilience like a second skin.
By Abdushakur Mrisho6 months ago in Humans
He Was My Therapist, But I Fell in Love With Him Anyway
I know how this sounds. Believe me, I’ve judged myself harder than you ever could. Falling in love with your therapist isn’t just cliché — it’s ethically complicated, emotionally messy, and, well, a little bit tragic.
By Abdushakur Mrisho6 months ago in Confessions
Why I Blocked My Crush Without Saying a Word — And Slept Better That Night
I didn’t say goodbye. I didn’t offer an explanation. I didn’t leave a dramatic paragraph for closure. I just hit “block” — and then, for the first time in weeks, I slept through the night.
By Abdushakur Mrisho6 months ago in Confessions
Why African Parents Say ‘No’ When They Mean ‘Yes’ — A Cultural Decode
If you grew up in an African household, you’ve probably experienced this confusing moment: you ask your parent for permission or a favor, and their immediate answer is “No.” But if you listen closely, read the tone, or wait a moment, you realize that “No” often means “Maybe,” or even “Yes.”
By Abdushakur Mrisho6 months ago in Families
I Lived Without Social Media for 30 Days — The Results Shocked Me
For the longest time, I was glued to my phone. Like many people, social media was a constant companion — a place to catch up with friends, scroll through news, share moments, and yes, sometimes procrastinate. But one day, I asked myself a simple question:
By Abdushakur Mrisho6 months ago in Journal
My First Time in Therapy: What I Expected vs. What Actually Happened
I didn’t walk into therapy. I dragged myself there—mentally, emotionally, and with a good chunk of skepticism. You see, I grew up in a culture where therapy wasn’t a thing. You prayed. You pushed through. You swallowed pain like pills and kept moving. Talking to a stranger about your feelings? That sounded like weakness… or worse, privilege.
By Abdushakur Mrisho6 months ago in Longevity
5 African Superstitions I Grew Up Believing — And What They Really Mean
Growing up in an African household means you don’t just inherit your family name—you inherit their beliefs, taboos, myths, and stories. Some of them are heartwarming. Others are downright terrifying. But one thing is for sure: they shape the way you see the world.
By Abdushakur Mrisho6 months ago in Viva
I Dated Someone I Met in the Comment Section — Here's How It Changed My Life
It was a random Tuesday night. I was deep into one of those social media scroll holes—bouncing from video to video, until I landed on a hilarious post about long-distance relationships. I laughed, hit the like button, and absentmindedly typed a witty comment.
By Abdushakur Mrisho6 months ago in Confessions
