Advice
My Expectations And Responsibilities As A Writer
A while back, I wrote an article about my expectations as a writer of my readers. Today, I got the idea that it might be smart, to let my readers know that I'm not just holding them accountable. Out of everyone I hold the most responsibility for my success as a writer.
By Hope Martin2 years ago in Writers
5 Unconventional Daily Habits to Skyrocket Your Confidence as a New Author
Want to build unshakable confidence as a new author? Here's how. Most advice is stale and overused. You need something different to overcome imposter syndrome and build the confidence you need to tell your story.
By Rick Martinez2 years ago in Writers
THE UNTOLD EMOTION
In a small, quaint town nestled between rolling hills and lush forests, there lived a young woman named Elara. Elara was known for her kindness, always offering a helping hand to anyone in need. She had a smile that could brighten the darkest of days and eyes that sparkled with warmth. Yet, behind this cheerful facade, Elara harbored an emotion so deep and untold that not even her closest friends knew of its existence.
By Galaxiesbuzz2 years ago in Writers
The Benefits Of Investing In A One-Car Metal Carport For Your Vehicle
Making a decision to install car parking may seem easy at first glance, but one has to go through a lot of processes, from filing for permits, learning building codes, knowing setback rules, and choosing material. Some of these things are out of your control, but you can always select a material that serves the purpose, can be reused, requires less upkeep, and provides long-lasting durability. Here are some benefits of investing in a single car metal carport.
By Viking Metal Garages2 years ago in Writers
Why keeping your goals secret can help you succeed more easily?
Individuals often have their own aspirations and objectives, with common themes including fitness, career fulfillment, or acquiring new skills. As inherently social beings, we frequently discuss our goals with others. However, have you noticed the effects of sharing these aspirations? Sometimes, it can feel easier to fail than to succeed. This piece will explore three scenarios that arise when you divulge your goals and the importance of shaping your mindset. The first scenario is one that many seek when sharing their ambitions: receiving supportive, affirming, and motivating responses like “I believe in you,” “You’re amazing, go for it,” or “You can achieve this.” Reaching a goal often requires numerous steps, and failing to move forward can lead to disappointment. Even before taking a single action, sharing your aspirations and garnering positive feedback triggers the release of dopamine in the brain, creating a sense of excitement as if the goal has already been accomplished. This phenomenon, known as early gratification, can, however, diminish your motivation and resolve to take real action. What can be done about this? Another issue is that the enjoyment of discussing your plans and receiving encouragement may lead to excessive sharing with others. If you continuously talk about your goals without making progress, those around you, including your boss, may begin to lose faith in your words, which can shift their support to skepticism about your abilities. Consider a friend who enjoys socializing without any worries, yet every time you meet, he elaborates on a job opportunity as if he has secured it. Although the position offers a low salary and requires overtime, he remains in the same role month after month, repeating the same narrative. By the fifth time he mentions it, everyone in the group doubts his intentions. While it’s fine to talk about the job, if he claims he will leave, he should follow through. After multiple assurances, faith in his promise wanes. I have personally faced similar challenges when it comes to weight loss, job changes, or learning new skills. This situation often escalates when one becomes more popular. Generally, sharing your goals appears to be a positive endeavor, resulting in support and constructive feedback. However, the downside is that you might receive advice that is unnecessary or unrelated to your objectives, which can lead to confusion and steer you further away from your goals.
By Diligent Person2 years ago in Writers
7 Ways to Get More Readers on the Article
As a writer, one of the most rewarding experiences is knowing that your work is being read and appreciated. However, in a sea of online content, getting more readers to your articles can be challenging. Here are seven effective strategies to help you attract more readers to your articles on platforms like Vocal.media.
By Rabbi Islam2 years ago in Writers
For all those who are fighting alone
A journey that everyone must undertake on the path to success is often a solitary one. This is the time when you must confront challenges alone. The painful mistakes encountered along the way can overshadow the joy of solitude, yet this story has been on my mind for a long time, and I wish to share it with those who have experienced similar struggles. My ascent to success was marked by long periods without companionship or support, and I hope my story can inspire others facing loneliness on their journeys. It can offer motivation to persist in their endeavors. While having many friends and strong relationships can be beneficial, it's important to recognize that this is not always the case. Life is not easy, and friends, family, or relatives may not always be present to offer encouragement, especially when you commit fully to your goals. If you decide to dedicate time solely to your ambitions, socializing will take a backseat. Consider this: if you were to turn off your phone for a week, how many messages or missed calls would you receive? This illustrates what you truly value. Often, the reality is that you may not receive any messages or calls, highlighting the need to prepare for solitude during challenging times. You will find that no one will be there to wake you up at 5 a.m. or push you to go to the gym. When it comes to your studies, there will be no one to create a success plan for you. You must confront all challenges independently. There will be times when you have to tackle tasks that others avoid, go to the gym alone, eat by yourself, and face fears that few dare to confront. However, if you don’t take on these challenges, who will? In the early days of my career, I often recalled the advice of my predecessors: relationships are paramount, and money is secondary. This implied that to advance in my career and navigate life's challenges, I needed to cultivate connections with many people. This led me to question whether I truly needed a vast network of friends to succeed. I came to realize that I often struggled with communication and connection, rarely initiating conversations. Many perceive me as closed off, but my role has compelled me to adapt. Over time, I found myself attending conferences and seminars, striving to connect with individuals from various fields. As I progressed professionally, I had to develop new skills, such as effective communication and relationship building. I often thought that increasing my value would naturally draw more people to collaborate with me. I engaged in the networking game, where introductions are frequent, and offers of assistance are common. However, I sensed a certain insincerity in these interactions. Everyone has their motives, and while some may genuinely want to help, it often feels like a facade. This led me to question why I had to invest time with people in such contexts. I pondered whether my energy would be better spent on pursuits I love or with those who genuinely listen to me, or simply in self-reflection. About a year ago, I made the decision to halt all offline engagements and sever most of my connections to relocate to a new city, where I had no friends or acquaintances. For me, this change represented an escape. I longed to break free from my environment, to restart my narrative and realign my life. In that solitude, I discovered true liberation. I was free to be myself and embrace my identity fully, dedicating my life entirely to my own journey.
By Diligent Person2 years ago in Writers
