For all those who are fighting alone

A journey that everyone must undertake on the path to success is often a solitary one. This is the time when you must confront challenges alone. The painful mistakes encountered along the way can overshadow the joy of solitude, yet this story has been on my mind for a long time, and I wish to share it with those who have experienced similar struggles. My ascent to success was marked by long periods without companionship or support, and I hope my story can inspire others facing loneliness on their journeys. It can offer motivation to persist in their endeavors. While having many friends and strong relationships can be beneficial, it's important to recognize that this is not always the case. Life is not easy, and friends, family, or relatives may not always be present to offer encouragement, especially when you commit fully to your goals. If you decide to dedicate time solely to your ambitions, socializing will take a backseat. Consider this: if you were to turn off your phone for a week, how many messages or missed calls would you receive? This illustrates what you truly value. Often, the reality is that you may not receive any messages or calls, highlighting the need to prepare for solitude during challenging times. You will find that no one will be there to wake you up at 5 a.m. or push you to go to the gym. When it comes to your studies, there will be no one to create a success plan for you. You must confront all challenges independently. There will be times when you have to tackle tasks that others avoid, go to the gym alone, eat by yourself, and face fears that few dare to confront. However, if you don’t take on these challenges, who will? In the early days of my career, I often recalled the advice of my predecessors: relationships are paramount, and money is secondary. This implied that to advance in my career and navigate life's challenges, I needed to cultivate connections with many people. This led me to question whether I truly needed a vast network of friends to succeed. I came to realize that I often struggled with communication and connection, rarely initiating conversations. Many perceive me as closed off, but my role has compelled me to adapt. Over time, I found myself attending conferences and seminars, striving to connect with individuals from various fields. As I progressed professionally, I had to develop new skills, such as effective communication and relationship building. I often thought that increasing my value would naturally draw more people to collaborate with me. I engaged in the networking game, where introductions are frequent, and offers of assistance are common. However, I sensed a certain insincerity in these interactions. Everyone has their motives, and while some may genuinely want to help, it often feels like a facade. This led me to question why I had to invest time with people in such contexts. I pondered whether my energy would be better spent on pursuits I love or with those who genuinely listen to me, or simply in self-reflection. About a year ago, I made the decision to halt all offline engagements and sever most of my connections to relocate to a new city, where I had no friends or acquaintances. For me, this change represented an escape. I longed to break free from my environment, to restart my narrative and realign my life. In that solitude, I discovered true liberation. I was free to be myself and embrace my identity fully, dedicating my life entirely to my own journey.

The time I spend working online allows me to limit my interactions with others. Outside of work, I focus on exercising and self-reflection. It's important to consider the choices we make and what we truly desire. If you were to ask me if I ever feel lonely, I would say that at times, I do. I long for deeper conversations with someone. When I stumble upon something intriguing, I want to share it with my siblings or friends, but I've learned that sometimes this desire fades. It's frustrating to share something you find fascinating only to have the listener find it dull. When there's no one to share with, I find it easier to keep those thoughts to myself, turning them into personal memories. This practice has helped me cope with loneliness. You might find it hard to believe, but I truly dislike running. Most gym-goers would rather build muscle than run, as running can hinder muscle growth. However, I started running because it sparks a flurry of thoughts in my mind. These thoughts mirror the choices I face in daily life. David Kokin, a military comedian who participates in numerous running events, once mentioned that he also despises running, despite the misconception that he's doing it to lose weight. He emphasized that running is more about overcoming mental challenges than mere physical exercise. The goal might be to run 30 kilometers, but by the third kilometer, I might tell myself that I can only manage 20 kilometers. By the seventh kilometer, I could find excuses to stop, like having overexerted myself the day before. I might think I have plenty of time to achieve my goal and convince myself to postpone it. As I push toward the 15th kilometer, thoughts like "Why am I doing this?" or "Why not stay home and relax?" creep in. When you're alone, the chance of giving up increases significantly. Without someone there to support you, it’s easy to succumb to the urge to stop running. Many push through not for external validation but to conquer the thoughts that plague them. They know that overcoming these challenges individually is what leads to true achievement. The higher we aim, the more isolated we may feel, as fewer people are willing to endure the struggle. This solitude can lead to giving up if one lacks companionship or acknowledgment. However, those who persist must accept the loneliness that often accompanies the journey. In that solitude, we discover our inner strength and motivation, realizing that nothing can truly hold us back. Sometimes, the path we travel is not our choice, but reality shows that there are moments when we must rely on ourselves until we find the right company. Is this journey lonely? While it may be, there’s no need for fear—loneliness can fuel our ambition and help us exceed societal standards. If you're experiencing isolation, remember that it’s a phase filled with lessons that will make you stronger. The longer you walk alone, the more resilient you become, helping you uncover your true self. I believe in the notion that we are not alone on this journey; there are others who share similar thoughts and experiences around us.

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