self help
Self help, because you are your greatest asset.
What If Your “Overthinking” Is Actually Good for You?
"The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts." ~ Marcus Aurelius Too much thinking for me is beginning to question the validity of all these well-meaning advice. If it were so easy to quit, there would not be so much right now.
By Samyog kandel5 years ago in Motivation
Bouncing Back from Failure
In life, we are bound to face setbacks, failures, and complications. It is an inevitable fact of life. Success, in most cases; is only achieved when a person faces failure and has the self-confidence and courage to bounce back from it.
By The Breatharian Blogger5 years ago in Motivation
How to Increase Productivity by Investing in Yourself With The Happiness Loop
In late 2020, I realized that I was exhausted. Why? Too many working hours per day. I started my content-creating hustle and I worked for more hours than I should. I had the feeling that I needed to change how I take care of myself, so I took a break. A break to readjust my priorities and set things right. I realized that the freedom of self-employment has a problem.
By Giorgos Pantsios5 years ago in Motivation
6 Habits of Highly Self-Aware People
“Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love.” — Brené Brown While looking around, we observe that most people are moving fast in their lives, trying to achieve genuine happiness and peace of mind but fail to get.
By Rajesh Vairapandian5 years ago in Motivation
One should have a Self-Discipline
It is found that 99% of people are not willing to do, what it takes make their dreams come true. The Marines have a saying: "Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die" The center of bringing any dream into fruition is self discipline You know, something as simple as food and eating... it's not about your body as much as it is about your mind. It's getting command of your mind to be able to choose actions that are in your own best interest. Every day we are choosing stuff that's not in our own best interest. So if the world is attacking you and the world wants to fight you and the world's trying to hold you down. So you're gonna kick yourself in the balls. So you will stop yourself from getting what you dream. And I think the word "discipline" has kind of gotten a bad name. We think about it in terms of punishment. I'm not talking about discipline in that way. I'm talking about discipline in the sense that you you forego immediate pleasure for the exchange of long-term self-respect. I believe that self-discipline is the definition of self-love that when you say that you love yourself that means that you have behavior towards yourself. That is loving Self-discipline is the center of all material success. You cannot win the war against the world if you can't win the war against your own mind. Self-love is when you say to yourself Man, look I know you and that girl got a real connection I know y'all vibe, but that's your girl's cousin. So I love you too much to let you do that It's like you say to yourself hey man look I know you want to eat that pizza and it'll be really good, you know, but I can't let you eat that man cuz if you eat that pizza, you're gonna feel like crap You know, and I I just I love you too much to let you eat that Self-love is a look. I know you got a a test on Monday, you know and I know you really want to go out with your friends and Saturday night you want to go out but If you fail that test, you're not gonna feel good about yourself You know, I just I love you too much to let you go out tonight Self-discipline is Self-love. If you wanna be happy you have to love yourself Which means you have to discipline your behavior The road to Sustained happiness is through Disciplining your behavior. We tend to base our self-esteem on what other people think and That's not really self-esteem. self-esteem is supposed to be how we feel about ourselves and I was just saying how dangerous it is to allow other people to determine how you're going to feel about you and it's kind of like looking into a broken mirror. You're gonna look in a broken mirror and then change your face to try to look good in this defiled, busted broken mirror and it just other people's opinions. There's a really crappy way to determine how we feel about ourselves. It don't matter whose fault it is that something is broken if it's your responsibility to fix it For example, it's not somebody's fault if their father was an abusive alcoholic. But it's for damn sure their responsibility to figure out how they're gonna do with those traumas and try to make a life out of it It's not your fault if your partner cheated and ruined your marriage But it is for damn sure your responsibility to figure out how to take that pain and how to overcome that and build a happy life for yourself. Fault and responsibility do not go together. It sucks, but they don't. When something is somebody's fault we want them to suffer. We want them punished. We want them to pay. We want it to be their responsibility to fix it but that's not how it works, especially when it's your heart. Your heart, your life, your happiness is your responsibility and your responsibility alone As long as we're pointing the finger and stuck in whose fault Something is, we're jammed and trapped into victim mode when you're in victim mode You're stuck in suffering. The road to power is in taking responsibility Your heart, your life, your happiness is your responsibility and your responsibility alone. You can make a person smile, you can make a person feel good, you can make a person laugh but whether or not a person is happy is Deeply and totally and utterly out of your control the prerequisite for spending time with any person is that they nourish and inspire you. They feed your flame. Look at your last five text messages. Are those people feeding your flames or dousing your fire? Put your phone down for just a second and look around Look to the people around you Are those people throwing logs on your fire or they pissing on it? I want my life, I want my work, my family. I want it to mean something and it's like it has- if you are not making someone else's life better than you're wasting your time.
By Sumesh Bhaila5 years ago in Motivation
A Course in Building Confidence and Self esteem
Optimism! It all lies in our positive perception of our personality, the events occurring around us and life itself. So long as we believe in the goodness that we may have in life, we are bound to enjoy it the way every man should.
By Caliope Friné5 years ago in Motivation
23 Ways to be Unproductive — and Why
Productivity has become a religion. There are enough articles online hyping up the powers and perils of productivity to comprise its very own Bible. Followed swiftly by a sequel, several digital platforms with bi-monthly updates and a newsletter. “Be productive” is the new “be kind to thy neighbour” (because there is no greater act of kindness than your neighbour knowing they live next door to one of the top ten app developers). In fact, productivity has been so overtly emphasised that it’s no longer just a concept, nor even a religion. It has become a cult.
By em5 years ago in Motivation
the power of discipline
The power of discipline Introduction self-help is the art of action or process of bettering oneself or overcoming one's problems without the aid of others. over the years many books have been written about this topic one such book is the power of disciple Plr by yu Shaun Cally lee I was reading this book recently 1st what is self Discipline
By neway5 years ago in Motivation
The Only Six Self-Help Books That Actually Changed My Life
Most self-help books are BS and I think you wouldn’t disagree. They say the same thing over and over again, just in different words. And with the rise of self-proclaimed gurus, the number of self-help books out there has skyrocketed. With so much clutter out there, most of us are literally choking our brains with self-help advice with little to no results.
By Anuj Sharan Verma5 years ago in Motivation
7 Reasons Meditation Helps You To Find True Self-Love
From my many years working as a life coach, healer and meditation teacher I know for sure there is one thing we all need more of. And it’s not so surprisingly self-love! Sometimes I wish self-love would be one of the main subjects taught in primary school. A subject you couldn’t just skip. No! One of the major subjects the teachers would put as their utmost priority, so that we would all know how to truly love ourselves. Self-love is simply good for everyone!
By Jana Krychtalkova5 years ago in Motivation
