breakups

When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.

I was Dumped Twice
Have you ever taken back an ex who broke your heart? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. I did the exact same thing. I was first dumped by the ‘love of my life’ in May of 2017 and then six months later he wanted me back. I took him back like a fool in love and a year and a half later I was dumped again in May of 2019. Is May a cursed month or is it me?
By Test6 years ago in Humans
the message I sent to my ex
... Please give me the respect to read this entire message when u have enough free time to take it in. Don’t skip over parts and don’t be reading it like you think like your better than me, or have done little wrong and that I’m the one exaggerating. Please know that I am beyond serious with everything I say and that I have never been this emotionally unstable before in my life. I want to let you know the way I’m feeling because you are the only person I still ever care about. Even though I know I shouldn’t be sending you this because it’s not really your issue anymore, but I need to.
By anonymous 6 years ago in Humans
5 Years
Everyone says that love is blind and that once you enter a relationship then you enter the honeymoon phase which doesn't last long! It took me five years to figure that out. Five long drawn out years to figure out I deserve better, I deserve to be happy!
By Ashley Reynolds6 years ago in Humans
Life After Gaslighting: What Healthy Relationships Are Supposed To Look Like
When you have been in a toxic relationship for a long time, it's hard to remember how a healthy relationship is supposed to function. Perhaps due to your upbringing, you never saw healthy relationships in action.
By Jessie Labrie6 years ago in Humans
I finally moved on from my ex
We were over long before we broke up, but when we officially broke up it hurt like hell. It took me 6 long months to get over him but I finally did it.
By Anna B6 years ago in Humans
This Harming Man
He left me via text message - your bog-standard "I don't want a relationship/It's not you it's me/insert lame excuse here". Then he proceeded to block me on social media. The nerve. The affrontery. The sheer assholery of the man.
By Becky d'Ugo6 years ago in Humans
A Bottle in Between
You don’t really know All the pain that you caused I forgave you A thousand times over again I can’t act as if Those moments never existed
By M. Nicole6 years ago in Humans
Beautiful Man Part2
Beautiful Man Part 2 We hadn’t seen each other since we broke up. It had been four months, which had flown past, and I had spent the first two of them bouncing off my new-found singledom, and the last two of them crying my heart out and missing him.
By Nila Dear6 years ago in Humans
Letting Go After a Breakup
Let go of the dreams, let go of the life you envisioned together, let it all go and start building a new future that involves only what you want.
By Test6 years ago in Humans
I moved on
Hold on this is going to be a long one. A couple years ago I was dating someone who I thought could have been the one I was going to live the rest of my life with. WRONG. I was with him for 4 in a half years. We had literally been through a lot.
By Chels6 years ago in Humans
Friends With an Ex?
Your love for someone can transform but it takes time Breakups cause disruptions in plans, in life and in all the dreams you had with that person, so when a relationship ends it usually feels like your world is coming to an end. The thought of cutting your ex out of your life feels wrong because they were such a huge part of it. And if you both understand that you didn’t work as a couple, yet you had a great friendship you wonder if it would be so bad to stay in touch and be friends?
By Test6 years ago in Humans
THE NARCISSIST AND ME
I have wanted to write for a very long time, but I struggled between my need to be private and the need to tell my story. In case anyone has not heard of the word narcissist here it is:
By Coral Reid6 years ago in Humans