breakups
When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.
Finding Love After Being Hurt
Do you know what hurt’s the Most ? Finding out the one who you gave your all, your heart, your trust, your soul, your compassion, your comfort, Basically your everything and they turn around and do the unthinkable and hurt you like you never existed like you was nothing/you meant nothing to them. Every night when my mind starts to wonder I always ask myself where did I go wrong ? Why me? Did I put it enough effort? Why do I have a good heart ? Did I love him more than me ? Why am I so forgiving? Why can’t I forget the hurt ? I ask myself this every night and I still can’t figure out why, where and how did I go wrong.
By Vaneisha weaver 6 years ago in Humans
A Bittersweet Breakup Playlist. Top Story - February 2020.
Break-ups are awful. They’re full of immense pain and hurt for both parties involved. You might think it’s easier for one person, but it just looks like it because they’ve had more time to mentally and emotionally prepare for this moment. And it’s okay to not be okay, just like it’s okay for you ‘not being okay’ to be your new okay for a while. I’m told that it gets better, and whilst I’m still waiting for it to get better, I have my positive pants on that things will get better. But I’m also giving myself as much time as I need to heal. I’m not going to lie to you, I thought it would be quicker; but I’ve learnt over this past month that it’s a long and enduring process and I think I’ve finally embraced that. I don’t know if I’m allowed to plug my previous articles on here, but I wrote a very intimate blog post two weeks ago called ‘Grief’, if you would like to get more an insight into my thought processes and my experiences with grief .
By Virag Dombay6 years ago in Humans
Knowing When To Let It Go
Easier sang than done, learning to “let it go” is something that many people never completely figure out. The burden of holding on is almost as painful as the emotions that undoubtedly come with the release; and even if you end up liberated, the freedom is bittersweet. The truth is this: the more you invest of yourself into something that doesn’t serve you, whether that is a friendship, a partnership, relationship, or occupation, the more you weigh yourself down. You worry about the impact letting go will have on your life and theirs, along with the influence the decision will have on everyone and everything around you.
By Valerie Taylor6 years ago in Humans
a series of journal entries
july tenth: Day two with some of the greatest family members that I could ask for, without them I don’t know what I would do. Been feeling so beyond alone lately, that this trip couldn’t have come soon enough. Perfect timing. Just being around the family feels so great. Just relaxing and no planning going on, when you have no one else, whoever might be your “family” is always there when you need them. If someone really cares about you they will be there no matter what is going on.
By for my mental health6 years ago in Humans
Strong
Hey, have you ever thought about dying? There he goes spouting all of the nonsense shit that, through a miraculous gate, always gets from his brain to his mouth in the most inconvenient moment to me. I lie on top of him, look down on his face, and the lips that know far too well how to kindle a fire of desire and anger within a man’s heart at the same time.
By Thanh Dinh6 years ago in Humans
Grief
Grief. A five-letter word that brings with it an avalanche of emotions, feelings and thoughts. It feels like someone is constantly pushing down on your chest; like the walls are closing in on you and there’s no fresh air in sight. It feels like time, just like your body, heart and soul is frozen and you’re stuck in that one state. You’re stuck in that moment when your heart was broken.
By Virag Dombay6 years ago in Humans
