breakups

When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.

If You're Going To Dump Someone, Blindside Them
He dumped me. Right then and there. Paralysed with shock. One minute we were together, the next minute we weren't. My first boyfriend was an ass like that. He dumped on our two-year anniversary. I seriously thought we were about to celebrate the day, our love, and how far we had come together.
By Ellen Frances3 years ago in Humans
No matter how deeply in love, do not be in love with the compromise
Some people say that to love someone is to accept all of them and tolerate their flaws. In this world, there is no perfect person, when we choose to spend the rest of our lives with this person, it also means that you will fall in love with our strengths and weaknesses together.
By Lonetoft3 years ago in Humans
How To Get A Second Chance With Your Ex Girlfriend (How To Convince Her To Give You Another Chance)
A while ago I wrote an article for women, which contained some practical (yet counter-intuitive) ideas on how to get back and ex boyfriend after being dumped.
By Ivy Jade3 years ago in Humans
You've Been Ghosted. Now What? (The Psychology Behind Ghosting)
When you're dating, you expect certain things from your partner. For example, you expect them to be faithful, to communicate with you, and not just disappear without a trace. But what do you do when they suddenly vanish into thin air?
By Edy Zoo 3 years ago in Humans
Don't Lie About Your Heartbreak To Me
No one is going to tell you how to get over your breakup. Sure, they're going to pile on the unsolicited advice. And if you have Twitter or go onto Reddit or spend any time here, someone has a surefire way of getting over your breakup.
By Ellen Frances3 years ago in Humans
When a man does not call you
New relationships can promise so much but they don't always deliver. It all starts out nicely. He texts you and calls you and you have a couple of dates. He seems really into you. This must be "the one". Then somehow, just as you're getting hooked on all that attention, it stops. You haven't got a clue what's going on. Why has he stopped calling? Men obviously don't want relationships. And why does this always happen to you? So, should you call him to find out what is going on? Before you do, read this article to find out why calling or texting him is not a good idea and will not make you feel better.
By Phoenix3 years ago in Humans
Relationship Maintenance
There is no such thing as a perfect relationship for there will always come a time when things change, fights and conflicts take place, and people end up parting ways.
By SATPOWER3 years ago in Humans
5 Smart Exit Strategies For When Can't Afford To Leave Your Partner
Wouldn't it be easy if we could walk out of a relationship, just like that, when everything became desperate? That's life, though. Things aren't that easy.
By Ellen Frances3 years ago in Humans
DITTY
Chichi has many names. It means many things. Some say stunning. Some say Vulgar. Some say Pretentious. Some say Perfect.
By Lazywriter413 years ago in Humans
7 Gutless Excuses Why You're Avoiding A Break-up
Some days I wonder why I stayed with my ex two years after I first thought about ending it. What an idiot I was. Selfish idiot, at that.
By Ellen Frances3 years ago in Humans
7 Magical Ways To Bounce Back From Your Mistakes.
Mistakes are an inevitable part of life. No one is perfect, and everyone makes mistakes at some point. While making a mistake can be frustrating, it can also be a learning opportunity. By understanding what went wrong and taking steps to prevent future mistakes, we can often come out of the experience stronger and wiser.
By Charles Mazaba3 years ago in Humans
What is it to find yourself in the void?
Once you make that decision of putting a self first and really making a hard decision, may be leaving a job may be leaving a long term partner, it’s that life-changing decision and then you’re really stepping into the self-love. Knowing your boundaries, knowing yourself and yes the notion of who are you once you’ve stepped into the void.
By Samantha-Jayne Love 3 years ago in Humans