No matter how deeply in love, do not be in love with the compromise

Some people say that to love someone is to accept all of them and tolerate their flaws. In this world, there is no perfect person, when we choose to spend the rest of our lives with this person, it also means that you will fall in love with our strengths and weaknesses together.

At the same time, when two people have conflicts, but also more to tolerate and tolerate each other. The two people inside the relationship more or less will happen some friction, which can not be ready because of the quarrel to choose to break up, so your feelings are not considered true love, for two people, is also great harm.

Shen Arjun is an actress that many people are familiar with, and she has appeared in many TV series, although in recent years has not been as active as before on the screen, she shaped the image of one after another costume beauty has long been deeply rooted in the hearts of people.

Shen Arjun once talked about her ex on a talk show, she said frankly and straightforwardly that she had a ten-year-long relationship with her then-boyfriend, who was engaged to get married, and even notified her friends and relatives and prepared the wedding supplies, but at this time, she accidentally learned that her boyfriend had betrayed her.

When Shen Arjun learned this truth, her boyfriend had been secretly dating someone else for more than a year. Even though they were ready to get married, Shen Arjun decided to cancel the wedding and break up with her boyfriend.

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I think that every girl in love should have a courage like Shen Arjun, no matter how much you love the person in front of you, you should never go to the trouble of sacrificing all you have for him.

We must have our bottom line, is that even love can not shake the principle, if because of love to go bottomless concessions, then one day he will not put you in the eyes, will no longer be on your every word you say, your love is no longer pure.

The company's friend, Xiao Lin, is a very good-tempered and good-talking kind of person. After marriage, her character naturally can not take the lead, in the family has always been the husband said one or two.

Xiao Lin also retired to the background, doing a full-time housewife, at first her husband was good to her, but over time slowly changed.

The man who once said he loved her, began to pick more and more thorns in her body, suspected her cooking is not good, suspected her laundry is not clean, suspected that she does not leave the door all day, but also do not know how to dress.

Then Xiao Lin because they do not work and do not earn money, almost equal no status in the family, every time her husband disliked her, she never fought back, just silently do as he asked, but no matter how she changed herself, can not make this man truly satisfied.

Later she saw a photo of him with another woman on his phone, and when her husband got off work, she trembled and asked him what was going on, but he acted calmly, he said that's what you see

That night, Xiaolin did not sleep all night, but also thought all night, the next morning as busy as nothing in the kitchen, to make breakfast for her husband.

Xiaolin said to me, what else can I do? He is the one who earns the money, and he is the one who is in charge of the family. If I divorce him, I don't even have a place to go.

The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. But finally, see, he brought her only ever hurt, and because of their concessions, her husband became more and more aggressive up.

In the end, he even dared to talk to the woman on the phone in front of Xiao Lin as if no one was there, sweetly calling another woman baby. And she can only pretend not to hear anything, as silently do their own thing.

We are very sorry for Xiaolin because once she was also a spirited, daring girl, but unfortunately finally fell into such a look. If at the beginning of the face of her husband's prick and dislike, she dared to fight back, to find their position in the marriage, not humble to love, the result will not be different

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When we fall in love with this person, will always go from the heart to care for him, cherish him, hate to send the best in the world everything to his eyes. In the life of two people, often unconditionally make concessions, as long as he wants, we will try to give.

But has it ever occurred to you that this kind of giving, in the end, you in his heart will be what status? No one will cherish what is easily obtained, and the same goes for love.

If you want your significant other to respect you in the relationship, put you on an equal footing with him. The first thing we need to do is to straighten our backs, not to hold back again and again inside the relationship, to be subservient.

Shen Aogun and her ex-boyfriend have been in love for many years, and the two of them are very affectionate, and marriage is on the cards, but on the eve of the wedding, she learned the cruel and devastating truth. What hurts her, even more, is that many of her friends around her already know this fact, but are still hiding it from her.

When she found out, she also had friends who advised her that it was not easy for you two to be together for ten years. He just went astray and didn't really want to separate from you. Besides, you're getting married soon, so don't bother so much and forget about it.

But in the end Shen Arjun still firmly cut off the feelings of the two people, withdrawing from the marriage breakup, in one fell swoop. I think, when deciding to break up, she must also be heartbroken, reluctant, ten years of feelings is not overnight can be abandoned.

But she knows better, she is in love with the bottom line and is not allowed to cross. This kind of thing has the first time there will be a second time, we choose to forgive the first time, choose to give in, the second third time, and how?

No matter how deeply you love the person in front of you, don't lose your dignity in front of him. Love proudly and love freely. If one day you have no way to go on, there is no need to beg and plead and sacrifice unconditionally. It is only when you say goodbye frankly that you are left with the last decency of this love.