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The Psychology of Love and Letting Go. Content Warning.
Letting Go and Love: A Psychology One of the most profound feelings we can experience is love. It is intoxicating, powerful, and very human. Poetry has written about it, science has studied it, and the heart has lived it. Letting go, on the other hand, is the equivalent of love but is far less romanticized. Psychologically, the process of loving and letting go are inextricably linked, revealing profound truths about attachment, identity, and emotional development. The Art of Attachment Research Attachment is the core of love. Humans are wired to form emotional bonds from birth. According to the attachment theory of psychologist John Bowlby, our relationships with caregivers in our early years influence how we interact with others throughout our lives. While insecure attachments can lead to anxious or avoidant behaviors, secure attachments lead to healthier adult relationships. Dopamine, oxytocin, and serotonin are among the chemicals that our brains release when we fall in love, resulting in feelings of pleasure, security, and trust. Even when these neurochemical bonds are no longer serving us, love can be so difficult to let go of that it feels addictive. Why it hurts to let go Letting go, especially of someone we’ve loved deeply, triggers a form of grief. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, a psychiatrist, says that we can go through cycles of denial, rage, bargaining, depression, and finally acceptance. But unlike bereavement caused by death, the end of a romantic relationship often comes with ambiguity—questions of “what if,” “why,” and “what now?”
By Sahajamal Rume10 months ago in History
Russia Creating ‘General Impression’ of Ceasefire While Continuing to Shell, Zelensky Says. AI-Generated.
Volodymyr Zelensky, the president of Ukraine, has accused Russia of deliberately deceiving the international community by creating the appearance of a ceasefire while continuing its military aggression against Ukrainian territory. Despite Moscow's public overtures suggesting a willingness to pursue peace or humanitarian pauses, Zelensky highlighted Russian forces' intensified shelling activities in several frontline regions in his recent national address and subsequent press statements. Zelensky stated, "They are trying to give the impression that they are ready for a ceasefire or some form of de-escalation." However, the fact of the matter is that the shelling has not ended. Attacks continue on our cities. Civilians continue to perish." According to reports, Russian diplomatic statements and media campaigns have portrayed Russia as open to peace talks and localized ceasefires, particularly around Orthodox Easter and other international diplomatic milestones. The Ukrainian president's remarks follow these statements. Ukrainian and international observers assert that Russian officials' statements hinting at humanitarian concerns and a potential desire to de-escalate tensions are part of a broader propaganda strategy aimed at manipulating global opinion. Ground Reality Contradictions The reality, according to local administrations and the Ukrainian armed forces, starkly contradicts Russian propaganda. Over 200 separate artillery and missile attacks on Ukraine's eastern and southern regions, including Kharkiv, Zaporizhzhia, Donetsk, and Kherson, have been reported in the past week alone. Numerous civilians have been killed in these attacks, which have also caused extensive damage to infrastructure. Russia's intentions have been seriously questioned as a result of the ongoing aggression. Ukrainian officials contend that the Kremlin's strategy is to maintain unwavering military pressure on Ukraine while presenting itself as diplomatic and cooperative on the international stage. They assert that the purpose of this dual strategy is to weaken Ukraine's alliances and polarize international opinion. Dmytro Kuleba, Ukraine's Foreign Minister, stated, "Russia wants to appear as a reasonable actor in front of the world, all while pursuing a war of attrition on the battlefield." "This goes beyond mere hypocrisy. By implying that Kiev is the one refusing to talk, it is a calculated attempt to undermine support for Ukraine." Strategic Use of Stop-and-Go Language According to experts in international relations and conflict resolution, Russia's strategy is not novel; rather, it is a continuation of similar tactics utilized in previous conflicts, such as those in Georgia and Syria. In order to reorganize military forces, reorganize logistics, and gain breathing room while maintaining initiative on the battlefield, temporary or proposed ceasefires have frequently been utilized. Dr. said, "We see a classic case of strategic messaging in which a state actor attempts to manipulate perceptions." Conflict analyst Elena Mykhailova works at the Ukrainian Institute for Strategic Studies. "The Kremlin recognizes that Western publics are becoming increasingly war-weary, and any sign of Ukrainian intransigence could be politically damaging to Kyiv's international partners," In light of this, any talk of a ceasefire coming from Moscow is met with extreme suspicion in Kyiv. Officials in Ukraine say that while Russian missiles keep hitting Ukrainian cities, there can't be meaningful negotiations or a truce. The Brunt is borne by civilians. The ongoing conflict's human cost continues to rise. A school, a hospital, and a number of residential buildings were destroyed by recent shelling in the town of Avdiivka, which has seen some of the bloodiest fighting. Humanitarian organizations and emergency services are struggling to get aid to the most affected areas. Mayor Vitalii Barabash of Avdiivka stated, "We can't talk about peace when our children are being pulled from rubble." "Because we've seen this pattern before, we brace ourselves for more shelling every time we hear talk from Russia about ceasefires." These sentiments are echoed by local volunteers and international NGOs operating in the region. Due to ongoing military activity, access to safe corridors for evacuation or aid delivery remains highly unpredictable and frequently risky, according to the International Committee of the Red Cross. Diplomatic Tensions and International Reaction There has been a mixed response from around the world to the most recent events. Jens Stoltenberg, Secretary General of NATO, expressed support for Ukraine and stated that any claims of a ceasefire must be supported by evidence that can be verified on the ground. Stoltenberg stated at a press conference, "Talk is cheap." "What we need to see are concrete actions, such as the cessation of hostilities, the withdrawal of troops, and respect for the sovereignty of Ukraine," Ukraine will continue to receive both military and humanitarian aid from the European Union. In the meantime, the United States of America has announced an additional aid package that includes support for humanitarian causes, ammunition, and air defense systems. However, due to the long-term dangers of a prolonged war, some political voices in Europe and elsewhere have called for renewed diplomatic engagement. Such calls may contribute to Moscow's strategy if there isn't a unified position and careful verification mechanisms, analysts warn. The World's Warning from Zelensky President Zelensky has repeatedly urged world leaders to keep an eye on things and avoid falling for what he calls "Russia's theatrical performances." He emphasized that genuine efforts to achieve peace must be based on openness, accountability, and a clear end to violence. Zelensky stated, "Russia speaks of peace with one hand while pulling the trigger with the other." "A genuine ceasefire indicates the end of hostilities. not merely empty phrases or obtrusive gestures." In addition, he made a direct appeal to the general public all over the world, urging citizens living in democratic nations to exert pressure on their governments to continue supporting Ukraine. He stated, "This is not just our war." "It is a war for the values we all hold dear: human dignity, freedom, and justice." The Way Forward Ukraine faces enormous challenges on the military and diplomatic fronts as the war enters its third year. Maintaining international unity and focus will be increasingly challenging in light of shifting geopolitical priorities and domestic pressures in other nations, despite the importance of allies' support. However, for Ukrainians living in the area, clarity is crucial. The Russian message's dual nature—talking peace while waging war—increases the complexity of a conflict that is already devastating. We do not desire illusions. Zelensky stated, "We want peace, but not peace built on lies." "No matter how many smokescreens Russia tries to throw up, we will defend our land, our people, and our future."
By Shamimahmed 10 months ago in History
The Lion of the Desert: Omar Mukhtar’s Fight for Freedom
The Lion of the Desert: Omar Mukhtar’s Fight for Freedom As the whistling winds herald the ancient empires of yore, one man stood firm against the perpetual tide of colonial subjugation: With Omar Mukhtar, the faith and gritty resolve touched the sea of golden sands in Libya. Dubbed a freedom fighter and self-taught scholar of the holy book, Mukhtar became the symbol of defiance against Italian colonialism in Libya. Even in death, his unfiltered courage serves as an inspiration and lends life to his unmatched militaristic heroism. Mukhtar's legacy is etched onto the face of warfare, and is glowing brighter than any weapon of war; testament to the clarity of principles that has held defiant even today, unmatched dignity, and unwavering resolve to justice.
By Md Ajmol Hossain10 months ago in History
Pious goldsmith
There lived a goldsmith in a city. The man was very pious and honest. Every day before the sun rose, he would go to work. His shop was in front of the ruler's palace. Every day before opening the shop, the goldsmith would raise his hands to the sky and pray: "O All-Wise, All-Sufficient! O All-Forgiving! You are the Infinite Owner! You are Almighty over everything. Even if something falls to the bottom of the sea, You have the power to return it to a dry state!" He would open the shop door with this prayer.
By Md Ariful Islam10 months ago in History
Frankenstein Reborn The Untold Story That Changes Everything [2025 Analysis]
Frankenstein Reborn: The Untold Story That Changes Everything [2025 Analysis] Mary Shelley's Frankenstein made history as the first science fiction novel in 1818. The story introduced readers to an 8-foot-tall emotional creature that would fascinate audiences for centuries. The original story delved into themes of ambition and playing God, and now Frankenstein Reborn brings this classic tale into the modern era with a bold technological twist.
By Goutam Budh 10 months ago in History
Mideast mediator Oman at the center of a key first Iran-US meeting over Tehran’s nuclear program
The Sultanate of Oman is one of the few nations in the intricate web of Middle Eastern diplomacy to have earned a reputation for quiet but effective mediation. Oman, which is located on the Arabian Peninsula's southeast coast, has once again attracted international attention because it hosted the first significant Iran-US meeting in recent years regarding Tehran's nuclear program. This latest diplomatic engagement, held discreetly in Muscat, marked a cautious but potentially consequential step in efforts to revive dialogue between Washington and Tehran. Oman's involvement is both a strategic maneuver that demonstrates its growing role as a regional peace broker and a testament to its long-standing neutrality in light of Iran's nuclear ambitions.
By articelmunaf10 months ago in History
The History of History as a School Subject. AI-Generated.
The History of History as a School Subject History, the study of past events, has been a cornerstone of education for centuries. As a school subject, it helps students understand the world around them, learn about the struggles and achievements of previous generations, and build a sense of identity and citizenship. The inclusion of history in formal education systems has evolved over time, influenced by political, cultural, and social factors. From ancient civilizations to modern classrooms, the teaching of history has played a key role in shaping individuals and societies.
By articelmunaf10 months ago in History
Experiments in Gender . AI-Generated.
Experiments in Gender: Women and Masculine Dress Fashion has been both a reflection of society's views on gender throughout history and a means by which individuals can express themselves. The adoption of masculine attire by women is one of this aspect's most striking and transformative trends. Women's experiments with masculine clothing have often challenged cultural norms, questioned gender binaries, and redefined femininity itself, far more than a sartorial choice. In the 19th century, the idea of women donning trousers or suits was radical, even scandalous. Women were expected to adhere to strict codes of dress that emphasized modesty and delicacy. However, figures like Amelia Bloomer—an early advocate for women’s rights—began to experiment with reform dress, which included loose trousers known as "bloomers" worn under a shorter skirt. Though heavily criticized, Bloomers represented one of the first visible challenges to the rigid fashion expectations placed on women, linking clothing reform to wider calls for social and political equality.
By articelmunaf10 months ago in History
WHAT IS NEXT WITH BITCOIN
What is Next with Bitcoin New Geneva pulsated with digital life in the neonlit skyline. People stopped pulling out their wallets and instead scanned their wrists where crypto wallet chips pulsed beneath the skin. Augmented reality advertisements filled every street corner and drones zipped overhead to deliver everything from coffee to contact lenses.
By Shihab Shaharia10 months ago in History
