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4 Good Reasons to Have Sex on the First Date
This may surprise you, but I have never had sex on the first date. Why then, do I feel qualified to write this piece? Well, in many cases I really wish that I had. I’ve never really had a "one night stand," I’ve had "one time sexual partners," but usually because they were mates of mine or we realised after the act that we weren’t going anywhere.
By Samantha Bentley8 years ago in Filthy
Test Your Sexual Limits
I just ended a 3 year relationship. It was my very first LTR, (Long Term Relationship). Being 27 years-old, I feel like most of my peers have had multiple LTR's already. But I was a late bloomer. Lost my virginity when I was 23. And all of that is just a little background for the real topic:
By Lauren Watkins8 years ago in Filthy
To Give or Recieve
The question doesn’t refer to any sexual practices between same sex couples; it refers in this case to giving each other sexual pleasure. In the cases where straight sex either doesn’t bring simultaneous orgasms or where only one person is receiving the sexual pleasures, this could be due to a couple’s choice or for another reason, such as wrong time of the month for the female. This is how it works for my girlfriend and I; Sometimes full sex, sometimes join foreplay, and sometimes just pleasure for one.
By ASHLEY SMITH8 years ago in Filthy
Blow Jobs: Yes or No?
So I know several women that dislike giving their partners, husbands, boyfriends, bit on the side, whatever oral sex and honestly it baffles me. They say it's dirty, he pee's from there, what if he doesn't wash? It doesn't do it for me. All stupid reasons if you ask me. Firstly let me answer these reasons.
By Rainbows Have Nothing To Hide8 years ago in Filthy
Being Naked
This will be a piece that sounded in my head like a good idea but I have no idea where its leading and what I will write, so please bear with me. So, after being inspired to write part 2 of a story about mine and my girlfriends privates, I thought would use the inspiration for more. The inspiration was us both ending up naked in the shower, so here’s my list of things to do naked. Some can be done alone but some are better with another person.
By ASHLEY SMITH8 years ago in Filthy
Women and Anal Intercourse
Plenty of women are asked by men to try anal. The problem is that if it is a first time for both parties (or just one), it is not going to be enjoyable. This is just a basic how-to guide in case you ever decide to try something new with your lover so you don't have to be overloaded with research on this scary subject. Ready?
By Chandra Harrison8 years ago in Filthy
How To Give A Tit Job
When it comes to sexual acts, tit jobs are often one of the things I’m asked about on a regular basis. In practice, it’s a relatively easy thing to pull off, though it can admittedly be a little uncomfortable, awkward, distracting, oddly funny, and weird at first… especially if you’ve never done it before or aren’t that comfortable with trying new things.
By Kara Sutra8 years ago in Filthy
Minors In Kink
I am not sure if I will lose or gain readers by saying this, but I will never support minors in the BDSM or kink world. Hell, a lot of the times I don't think that anyone under 20 should be in the lifestyle. Most teenagers only think of themselves and in reality, when you are a Dom or sub you can't do that. There are also times when people who are 18+ can't think of anything but themselves. Plus, in most states in America, all sex related activities you have to be at least 18 to be involved in the act. So, do you know what that means? If you are 17 or younger people can go to jail for doing sex acts to you or with you, and a lot of kink acts are sexual in nature. BDSM on some formats have been described as a relationship between two people who are emotionally, mentally and sexually mature, so adults basically. Sorry y'all, kink is not for kids.
By Lena Bailey8 years ago in Filthy
