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Does Size Matter?
Does size matter? It’s a question that I am asked more often by straight guys than anything else. After they ask, they always want to show off what they’re packing, either via picture or in real life. If they are told that they don’t have the biggest one around, they freak out and ask how they compensate for their shortcomings. The answer is as simple as it is complex for them; most of the time the girls that they are dating will confide that the advice given fell on deaf ears.
By Edward Anderson7 years ago in Filthy
Eat It Like You Mean It
Make it sexy. Make it exhilarating. Make it nasty. If you’re familiar with my recent writing on how to perform the best blowjob, you understand the emphasis I place on nastiness. It doesn’t mean you have to engage in anything you’re uncomfortable with; remain true to your sexual interests. However, showing your partner the lengths you’re willing to go to please them can be extremely arousing. It’s intimate and can intensify the experience for the both of you. In regards to eating pussy, it can be a downright game changer.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Filthy
Tips on Giving the Best Blowjob. Top Story - July 2018.
I don’t like receiving oral sex. I derive no pleasure from it. I’ve had a number of enthusiastic individuals volunteer to change my attitude but I politely turned them down. I’m content with my preference because I know my body. I know what I like.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Filthy
Things You Should Know About Sex After Pregnancy
Well, I have recently returned to work after giving birth to my third baby, I wrote an article sex and pregnancy a while back, before I gave birth about having sex during pregnancy. I thought I would do a follow up on sex 'after' having a baby. Now I know some of you boys out there might want to switch off, put your fingers in your ears and sing "la la la" really loudly! Some of you girls may even want to switch off now! It isn't something that gets talked about often. I can honestly say in all the baby groups and library sing-song sessions I attended over the last ten months, not one lady has come up to me and said
By Rick Vermunt8 years ago in Filthy
Body Language
Hello people. Do you know how to read body language? Like really know? When having sex, understanding body language is key... If you want to be any good at it, that is. I’m not a medical professional. The only thing I’m kind of professional at is cooking. But, I do consider myself to know how to please a woman, and how to make it so she knows how to please me.
By Fisher King8 years ago in Filthy
What to Do When Your Partner Suddenly Can’t Get It Up
If you’re having regular sex you’ll know only too well that it doesn’t always go to plan. Accidental injuries, furniture malfunctions, broken condoms and unexpected guests…everyone will have a story of sexual mishap. When sex hits a road-block it can break the flow and sometimes it’s difficult to get back on track. When a guy loses his erection it can create an awkward situation where neither partner is quite sure of how to proceed. He may become frustrated or embarrassed, whilst you wonder if this is down to you or if there’s anything you can do to help. There can be many reasons why someone might have difficulty staying hard, ranging from medication side-effects and alcohol use to issues related to performance anxiety and body-image. Regardless of the cause, a one-off difficulty can start to turn into a regular problem. Both partners come to expect that there will be issues with sex, making it hard to relax and go with the moment. Sex therapists suggest that the way a partner responds when this happens can make a huge impact on whether this becomes an on-going problem and the quality of your sex life going forward.
By Dr. Alexandra Richards8 years ago in Filthy
Weirdest Sex Positions Everyone Should Try At Least Once
Most people tend to have a handful of sex positions that they stick to when they're looking for a roll in the hay. It's just human nature to want "tried and true" positions like Doggy Style, Missionary, and (for foreplay) 69. Everyone's done them, and we all know they're pretty decent.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart8 years ago in Filthy
Best Sex Positions for Curvy Women
Almost everyone can enjoy sex, no matter your height or weight. What makes intercourse a steamier experience is figuring out which positions are best for you and your partner. Whether it’s doggy or cowgirl, everyone sticks to certain positions that they can get off to — even if it’s constantly one specific position, hey, it’s working for the two of you.
By Lizzie Boudoir8 years ago in Filthy
Best Female Masturbation Techniques
As Cyndi Lauper once said, "Girls just wanna have fun." And while it is fun to have a playmate, it's also fun to do our own thing. No offense, guys or girls—sometimes it's nice to shut the curtains (or not), lie back (or not), and indulge in oneself. There are two types of women in this world: those who masturbate and those who lie. We all do it. Go on, admit it! Nobody’s going to point the finger at you (not before they’ve washed it, anyway).
By Ailish Delaney8 years ago in Filthy
Loud Sex is the Best Sex
When my husband and I lived in our first apartment, I was forever in fear of disturbing the neighbors when we had sex. Our walls were incredibly thin, and we often heard conversations and TV's as we walked the halls of our complex, so I assumed people could hear us have sex. While we lived there sex became kind of "blah", which is a cardinal sin in our marriage, so we would often go have sex in our car to spice things up and make as much noise as we wanted. Being loud just makes it more exciting somehow! Now I'm not saying gurgle and scream like a porn actor, but I would suggest just letting loose a little bit and allowing yourself to really express what you feel. My husband LOVES it when I am loud. It is one of the things that 'gets him there'.
By Kathryn C. 8 years ago in Filthy
