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Everything You Need to Know About Eating Her Out
For many women and men, cunnilingus is a bit intimidating. Men tend to wuss out, because they think it's not masculine. Women often wonder if they really know what they're doing, despite being proud vagina owners.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart8 years ago in Filthy
Best Sex Positions You Need to Know If You Want to Have Sex in a Car
If you were like many teenagers, you broke your virginity in the backseat of a car. Cars, for many of us, have a little bit of history as being a sex venue that we've used before we could afford a hotel room.
By Skunk Uzeki8 years ago in Filthy
Let's Talk About Sex
Sexual expression is an extremely personal thing. For example, I don’t mind people knowing I watch porn at all, but I would have to be extremely close to someone for them to know the type of porn I watch, you know? Personally, I think it would be beneficially for the next generation of women if we were all a little more outspoken about our interests and turn-ons, even just with our close friends. I have a good friend who does not masturbate at all and when she first told me I found myself automatically assuming it is because she is in some way repressed. Maybe her female influences in her life should of spoke to her more, or maybe she was taught to repress her desires through her religion. Then I realised how utterly judgmental I was being, it is more than possible that she just does not have the same sex drive as me or the same attitude toward expression. But it did make me wonder, how much of my sensuality has been shaped by my experiences?
By Jessie Ray8 years ago in Filthy
Sexual Displeasure
Most people are obsessed with sex these days, whether that’s having sex with other people, having sex toys, being a Dominant or a Submissive. Most people have had the experience of sex in some kind of way, some people enjoy the feeling of sex, some people enjoy the feeling of just someone else but some people hate everything about sex.
By Tanisha Dagger8 years ago in Filthy
Sex Rules for People in Long-Term Relationships
Having a long-term relationship isn't easy. You will see your partner in ugly positions, and have to deal with lots of drama involving daily life. As bad as the drama and occasionally unflattering aspect of love can be, the truth is that most of those things can be overcome as long as you're both willing to work on it.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart8 years ago in Filthy
My First Threesome
Now threesomes might not be at the top of the list of things you want to experience before you eventually decide to settle down and pop that big ole finger prison on, but it's certainly always been on mine. Since the day I first heard about the absolute faecal cyclone that was my ex girlfriend's first threesome I knew I too wanted to experience this particular turdicane for myself.
By Ramona Hargrove8 years ago in Filthy
5 Reasons Why You Should Write Erotica
Why you should be writing erotica... 1. Personal Health Writing down your desires and allowing your thoughts to run wild may wake you up to desires you didn’t know you had. It also gives you a better sense of how to express yourself so you can tell partners about your own fantasies. Giving yourself a chance to go crazy in a totally safe space is good for your sexual and mental health.
By Kyrie Morrighan8 years ago in Filthy
Parents Can't Do That!
Let's face it, sex after kids can be described as a series of hit and miss moments. Many parents, whether they engage in vanilla or kinky sex, tend to find that their sex life after kids has altered, whether you engage in a little kink or not. Parenting is tough enough without your sex life being sacrificed.
By Tara Roberts8 years ago in Filthy
How To Talk About Anal Sex With Your Partner
Talking about sex isn't always comfortable, particularly if you are worried about how your partner will take it. Anal sex, as well as other anal-related kinks, tends to be one of those topics that can either bring you closer together or push you two apart.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart8 years ago in Filthy
You Want to Put What Where?!
Anal sex is way more scary than it sounds. I know, thinking about something up your asshole is kinda unsettling. It can also be one of the most pleasurable experiences you could ever have. If you are an anal virgin and are really to give it a go, or you just want some pointers on making the experience better, try out the following tips. These pointers will help ease and allow you to enjoy what could be one of the most pleasurable experiences you'll have.
By Ash astrid8 years ago in Filthy
