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What Are the Best Excuses To Avoid Having Sex?
Having sex is one of the best things to show love and affection to your partner. Sex comes with so many great benefits like gaining pure pleasure and satisfaction. Sex… is sometimes something that we don’t want at the moment. Yes, many of us can agree that sex is amazing, but there are times when we just want to sleep that night. There are even times when there isn't a specific reason for not wanting to put out tonight—we just don't want to have sex tonight, even if it's casual sex.
By Lilliana Backman8 years ago in Filthy
Car Sex: The Where's and How's. Top Story - February 2018.
If you and your partner have gotten a little bored in the bedroom, but don't really want to break out the fuzzy handcuffs and paddle, I have a solution for you! Car sex. I know what you're thinking: I am a grown man/woman. I have a perfectly good bedroom, with a door that locks, and plenty of space to move around. Why would I try to get it on in the back seat of my cramped car? I say don't knock it until you try it. Plenty of couples get bored of sex because they sort of fall into a routine with it. Lock the door, get naked, bang one out using the same three positions you like, then go to bed. If that is how you guys want to have a relationship, I think that's great, and honestly, if you have kids as well as a demanding job, sometimes a routine is all you can manage. But if I've said it before I'll say it a million times: try new things with your partner! Doing it in the car can be fun and I guarantee you will feel young again!
By Kathryn C. 8 years ago in Filthy
Shower Sex Is A LIE—Opinion
Younger readers- Go away. 18+ Only. How many of us have seen a really steamy (pun intended) shower sex scene on TV and thought "Oh ya that is totally on my bucket list." Well, the reality is way less "amazing," let me tell you. Now I am not a sex expert, but I have a very nice sex life with my husband. We like to try out new things together all the time and we have tried the shower scene sex more than once because I am a hopeless romantic. I want my husband to pick me up, while water is rushing around us, hold me against the shower wall and... well you know. I highly recommend trying lots of different sex things in your own relationship because it can be really great. Don't be shy to ask what each other's fantasies are. You don't have to agree to anything you don't want to do, but how will you know you don't like something if you never try it? Go ahead. Try out different things…just not in the shower. Here is why:
By Kathryn C. 8 years ago in Filthy
Advice for Being in a Sexless Marriage
Relationships: Truly wonderful things that make you feel adored, wanted, and happy. You find a special someone in your life who just seems to "get you," and then suddenly you find yourself not imagining how you ever were without them. That's how it always starts, isn't it?
By Moon Sugar8 years ago in Filthy
Sex Tips for Men, Women, Amateurs, and Professionals
Sex is something that all of us crave, but it can make a lot of us nervous due to overthinking and worrying. These tips will make you seem like a professional even if you are a first timer. Sit back, get some munchies, and get reading: Tips how to be better at sex.
By Thefunny Realest8 years ago in Filthy
Best Tantric Sex Tips That Anyone Can Try
Tantric sex is one of those experiences that most people have wanted to do at one point or another — but haven't been able to, possibly due to a lack of educational resources or a lack of even knowing where to start. But, the rumors alone will tell you that tantric sex can be a seriously mind-blowing experience.
By Ossiana Tepfenhart8 years ago in Filthy
Maintain Your Mental Health while Submitting to Your Dominant
Submitting to someone is an extremely wonderful process of giving over aspects of your life that you used to control to someone that you trust. In the BDSM lifestyle as a submissive, being “owned” by a Dominant should be an wonderful event that makes you feel like you truly belong, not only in this lifestyle, but with your partner. I wrote an article entitled “I’ve Submitted to Him,” that you can read for more information on what submitting really means.
By Lorah Catherine8 years ago in Filthy
Virginity, My Old Friend
I think there is some part of each of us that remembers the first time we had sex. It is a time that is burned into our memories for the rest of our lives… at least, for some. Whether your first time was with someone you loved, special or not, or maybe you don’t even remember the person’s name, we all at least remember the deed.
By Alyssa Horn8 years ago in Filthy
Pleasing Your Partner
There are many myths about guys and sex. Yes, ladies, this article will be discussing the intimate details of men and sex. But we can't leave the women out so there is something for us too. First I want to start with the first six main facts for what goes through the minds of men as far as sex goes. And then we will get back to the basics. I do hope you enjoy!
By Alyssa Horn8 years ago in Filthy
10 Tips for Having Hot Sex in Long-term Relationships
"So, are you still having sex?" My best friend Charlotte and I were a couple of drinks in when she blurted this question out to me. Charlotte was shy and very prudish, not one to mention the 'S' word without blushing, at least not normally. I laughed at her, not embarrassed at all. I didn't have to think about it at all.
By No One’s Daughter8 years ago in Filthy
Simple Anal Sex Tips for Men
Anal sex, is everybody really doing it? Well, according to the Kinsey institute and their recent national sexual health survey, roughly half of all men and women have attempted anal sex. So, while it isn't everybody, it is a pretty significant portion of the general populous.
By Bill Shaffir8 years ago in Filthy
