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Are You an Exhibitionist?
He pushed me against the window and I knew people were watching, but I didn’t care. In fact, I wanted them to see. I, like millions of people worldwide, am an exhibitionist. We get stimulated by the fact that someone is watching us do something that is arousing them. Whether it’s getting undressed in front of an open window or videotaping yourself and a partner during sex, exhibitionism serves as an outlet for many people to embrace kinks that they never would have tried before. Like every fetish, exhibitionism varies on a scale. Some people enjoy sending naked photos to another, knowing that the person on the receiving end desires them. More extreme cases of exhibitionism can include having sex in a public place, or letting people watch them during sex. Although there is a dirty stigma surrounding exhibitionism, in retrospect, many people might have exhibitionist tendencies and not even know it.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Understanding Sexual Fantasies
Harold M. is a 47-year-old, 5'9" man who is in generally good health although he is a bit anemic. Apart from being a pharmacist, he is married, has two children, and earns about $30,000 a year. He is almost completely bald and wears a brown toupee. His fantasy world is based on past experiences and the text that follows is written from his perspective.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Pussy Pillow Nap Time
Combining the Internet's two most popular things, the Pussy Pillow has a cute cat on one side and the best part of a woman on the other. Both furry, both entertaining, and both hallmarks of our great information highway. In the spirit of historic combinations like peanut butter and jelly, beer and pizza, and cash with free time – the pussy pillow is its own unholy marriage. On one side of the pillow is an adorable fluffy feline to rest your head on; flip it over and enjoy a beautiful, anatomically balanced vagina.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
How to Give the Best Blow Job
Giving the best blow jobs requires practice. Yet, I have been shocked to find out that many of my female friends refuse to indulge in oral sex. Therefore, I'd like to take this opportunity to tell our female readers that there is nothing more satisfying than knowing you have just given your man an astounding orgasm with your mouth. My boyfriend tells me that one of the best things about receiving oral sex is that he can just lie back, relax, and enjoy himself. He doesn't have to do any work, and he doesn't have to worry about whether he is pleasing me, or if he's going too fast or too slow. Fellatio is pure pleasure for the man, and when performed adequately, it can be more arousing than any aphrodisiac. My boyfriend tells me he decided to ask me to marry him when he realized he would never get a better blowjob than mine! Of course, what he doesn't realize is that fellatio can sometimes be used as a reward and other times as a bargaining tool. What's alarming is how many women say, "You want me to put what in my mouth?" Of course, women who read this probably don't have that kind of problem, but in case there are any wives or girlfriends out there who need a little coaching, I have some hints that I hope will be helpful. Be warned. I don't use any sexual innuendos. This how-to guide is straight to the point!
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Most Trusted Condoms
“Safe sex is great sex, better wear a latex.” —Lil Wayne. Besides protecting you and your partner, condoms are a great way to have some fun into the bedroom. Act out the scene from 50 Shades of Grey using the iconic foil wrapped condom or indulge in a Pina Colada on a penis with Condom Cocktails. Condoms come in a variety of textures, colors and flavors so you will always be able to find the best ones to fit all your needs. Whether choosing a studded condom or an Iron Grip condom for your stud, you will find our selection playful and safe.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
How to Use a Vibrator
It takes practice to become a skilled masturbator. The bottom line is that whether a woman has had difficulty achieving an orgasm or not, knowing how to use a vibrator works wonders. It just does, and it is that simple. The most popular is the basic battery operated, made to closely resemble a penis. If God wanted something else up there, he would have hung it between man’s legs. Years ago, before it was ok to say vibrator, women referred the magic wands as facial massagers. Today's shapes and sizes are less conducive to contouring and more about injecting.
By Filthy Staff10 years ago in Filthy
Guide to Sex After Divorce
Divorce sucks, plain and simple. Like any loss in life, divorce is something no new couple likes to think about, consider, or even anticipate. Just imagine that at the start of your marriage you said, “I can’t wait to marry this man and then divorce him 10 years later.” Unfortunately, though, regardless of all the good years and celebrations, some marriages do not survive. While this is sad, sometimes the commitment between two people is better off broken than being forced together.
By Jus L'amore10 years ago in Filthy
