Micky Thinks
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I claim this space as my corner of the net to express my deepest feelings and most sentimental thoughts. Not all opinions shared will be popular, thus the pseudonym. But it is my hope that others (if only one) can connect to my strife.
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How To Make Friends In Your 20s
It’s okay to admit it. You want to build new friendships but are unsure of how. Find solace in knowing you are not alone. There are millions of others like you who find themselves feeling the same way but are embarrassed to share it. There is a societal expectation that by the time we reach our twenties we have already established our lifelong friendships. That is the case for some but certainly not all. Relationships evolve, some fade, and others never have a chance at developing. We all have our unique means of connecting to others and they require some of us more time to craft healthy, fulfilling friendships.
By Micky Thinks7 years ago in Humans
How to Approach Black Women
In my experience as a Black woman, one of the most interesting topics I’ve discussed with other Black women is how men approach us. To be specific, how non-Black men approach us. It’s a complex experience and varies from person to person. However, there are some commonalities amongst those I have encountered.
By Micky Thinks7 years ago in Humans
A First Lesbian Experience
Tianna tossed her backpack onto her bed as she came into the room. After another long school day, it was comforting to finally be back home. Her bedroom was a mess. Week old laundry and books crowded nearly every corner. She knew it would behoove her to clean before her mother came home but first she just wanted to clear her mind.
By Micky Thinks7 years ago in Filthy
Eat It Like You Mean It
Make it sexy. Make it exhilarating. Make it nasty. If you’re familiar with my recent writing on how to perform the best blowjob, you understand the emphasis I place on nastiness. It doesn’t mean you have to engage in anything you’re uncomfortable with; remain true to your sexual interests. However, showing your partner the lengths you’re willing to go to please them can be extremely arousing. It’s intimate and can intensify the experience for the both of you. In regards to eating pussy, it can be a downright game changer.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Filthy
Tips on Giving the Best Blowjob. Top Story - July 2018.
I don’t like receiving oral sex. I derive no pleasure from it. I’ve had a number of enthusiastic individuals volunteer to change my attitude but I politely turned them down. I’m content with my preference because I know my body. I know what I like.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Filthy
Dating: Casual or for Marriage?
Imagine living in the home of your dreams. It’s 9 AM, you’ve just opened your eyes, and you roll over in bed to grab your phone from the bedside table. Only a few new emails and social media updates. You put the phone back. And you turn back over.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Humans
4 Reasons Why You Should Travel
In the summer of 2017, I decided to travel to Cape Town, South Africa for three months. My family thought I was nuts. They were proud of my adventurous spirit but couldn’t fathom why I would choose to travel to a country so far away from home. Aside from a few members of the military, there aren’t many people in my family that have traveled out of the country. In fact, most haven’t ever left the state. But this only empowered me even more to travel, explore, and gain an experience I once only dreamed of.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Wander
6 Uncommon Ways to Self-Care
There have been numerous think pieces plastered online to share tips on how to properly "self-care." In efforts to attend to our mental and emotional wellness, we’ve been advised to take long, soothing bubble baths, journal, read our favorite book, or simply spend time with nature. All of these are viable options for self-care but there are some healthy habits these think pieces often overlook. Some of the most impactful gifts we can provide ourselves are can be found right within. Here are 6 uncommon ways to self-care.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Motivation
I'm Addicted to Porn
I am addicted to porn. And I’m female. Does that shock you? For many it does. There’s a general misconception that porn addiction is exclusive to men, as if women are invulnerable to the habit. Consider it another double standard in regards to sexuality and the expression of it in men and women. But as a person living through the experience, I don’t believe anyone is exempt from its temptations.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Filthy
Flavors
No matter a person’s race, religion, sexuality, or socioeconomic background, they cannot escape stereotypes. Every person experiences them in some regard. Some face them at much harsher extremes than others. But in essence, we all are stereotyped in some fashion.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Viva
5 Things Your Introvert Friends Want You to Know
You recognize us. We’re your “boring” friends. The ones most often to reject an invitation for a night out, spontaneously ghost on you for the weekend, and avoid small talk at all costs. We are your introverted acquaintances and because we live in an extroverted society, we are greatly misunderstood by the general public. To people who don’t know us best, we may appear to be incredibly shy, mysterious, or even snobby in some cases. Not to say that there aren’t a number of introverts who actually do possess these traits, however a number of us do not. Here are 5 things the introverted community direly wishes you would understand.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in Humans
'A Seat at the Table'
In 2016 when Solange Knowles gifted the world with A Seat At the Table, people of color around the globe triumphed. Her album articulately embodied the frustration, resentment, and rage that many minorities are experiencing today. So many feel silenced by white supremacy, privilege, patriarchy, racism, and sexism. As a result, Solange’s socially conscious music was a breath of fresh air and collective response to the inequity of society.
By Micky Thinks8 years ago in The Swamp
