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How Masturbation Could Be Healthy for a Relationship
For whatever reason, masturbation is frowned upon in our society. We punish kids when we catch them in the act, get mad at our spouses when we figure out they do it and look at it as disgusting. What we don't realize is that masturbation is a completely regular and healthy expression that we all partake in. Do you binge on chocolates or your favorite TV show? Is it because it brings you pleasure? Masturbating is just another form of self-pleasure that, in certain circumstances, can be healthy for a relationship.
By Ashlyn Harper7 years ago in Filthy
An Empowered Erotic Persona
We all have fantasies, and in that fantasy we create a version of ourselves that embodies sensual or an erotic being that we are not afraid to be. Whether we are dominant or submissive, playful or flirty, we all have no fear of our erotic persona when it's in our own mind. So why is it so hard to give a voice to our erotic ideas?
By Miss Aayden ~ L.S. Diamond7 years ago in Filthy
How Early Is Too Early?
Sex is something that is on every teenagers mind. But how early is too early to start experimenting? I was 14 myself. Picture this. 5'1, ninth grade, unsure and unconfident me. At a party full of people I don't know. A girls older brother (he's not even a high school student, mind you) comes to talk to me. We hit it off, we find a room that's unoccupied and he takes my virginity.
By Not In Use7 years ago in Filthy
How To Feel Confident On Top
When it comes to sex, all of my insecurities bubble up to the surface. I'm incredibly aware of how my fat rolls, how small my boobs lie, and what positions that I should avoid at all costs. No matter what size you are, most women have these insecurities at one point in their life. Sex is such an intimate event that you can't help but feel completely exposed, both physically and mentally. Being on top in any form has always made me feel a tad uncomfortable.
By Ashlyn Harper7 years ago in Filthy
Why Can’t I Stop Having Booty Calls with My Ex?
This is a question that a lot of people ask themselves when they are dealing with a breakup. It is very difficult getting over your partner especially if the sexual chemistry was very powerful between you as a couple.
By Susan McCord7 years ago in Filthy
12 Ways to Boost Your Bedroom Confidence
Sex is one of the very few acts that can boost your confidence, or cause it to crumble into dust. For most of us, when we’re naked in front of our partners, we get a little nervous at first. With pop culture making sex seem like a full-scale Hollywood production, it’s easy to feel a little insecure or overwhelmed when it’s time to get busy.
By Patricia Sarkar7 years ago in Filthy
Who Knew?
When I was young I wanted to be an Astronaut. Men were walking on the moon and I suspect, like a lot of other 5-year olds around at that time, I too wanted to be called Buzz and fly in a space rocket. In fairness, for the next few years, it remained my career of choice. Right up until my early teenage years, when one day, quite by accident, I discovered my Dads porn stash hidden in a kitchen cupboard (I mean really! Who hides anything that's important in a kitchen cupboard, let alone when it's hardcore pornography!) But that’s exactly what happened. And so, my thoughts of what I wanted to do when I left school, went in a completely different direction. There was now only one job for me - Pornstar!
By The sorcerer's apprentice7 years ago in Filthy
Human Nature
Why hide it? It is human nature for the eyes to wander and the mind to dream. When we are single we check every one out, we have fun and we experiment. We go through what people call the college years. Even when we are in relationships we do the same, let’s not kid ourselves. Being married, people think that it puts an end to any kind of heart racing excitement and experimenting, but it doesn’t have to.
By Maya Juarez-Peña7 years ago in Filthy
Sex Positions for Every Room in Your House
Let’s face it, having sex in the bedroom all the time can become too routine. Add some pizzazz to your love making by changing up the scenery along with the perfect sex positions for every room in your house. Each room has its own unique vibe to inspire you to new heights.
By Lizzie Boudoir7 years ago in Filthy
Tips to Achieve Your Ultimate O
What is something that humans and animals have in common? That would be sex. The difference between us and most animals is that we actually can enjoy this act recreationally instead of using it just as a tool to procreate. With something that feels so incredibly amazing for both men and women, there seems to be an imbalance. I recently read that up to 80 percent of women fake it in bed. While this is an enormous percentage, it didn't really surprise me.
By Ashlyn Harper7 years ago in Filthy
