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11 Mutual Masturbation Sex Positions You Will Both Love
Mutual masturbation is the safest sex you can have, but it doesn’t have to be used for that reason alone. For one, there are a plethora of health benefits from masturbation. Another reason is that it can add some new excitement to your sex life, using it as foreplay, between intercourse sessions, and as a stand-alone. Check out these mutual masturbation sex positions to see other reasons how mutual masturbation can rev up your sex life.
By Lizzie Boudoir7 years ago in Filthy
How to Feel Sexy
Somehow, I got it into my head and soul in the past few years that I am not sexy or sexually desirable. The other day I started thinking about this and realizing that if I do not consider myself sexy how in the world is someone else supposed to? I am beautiful, cute, adorable, lovely. I have come to terms with those. However, I do not consider myself or feel sexy unless I am in a relationship, even one in which I am not having sex, just the knowledge that someone desires me. This is not an accomplishable goal when I not only don’t have anyone that likes me, but I am not even around men, like ever. Which means that it needs to come within.
By Acasia Tucker7 years ago in Filthy
A Beginner's Guide to Anal Sex
There is a lot of misguided information when it comes to anal sex these days. All over the internet, you hear that it is not safe, painful, and can cause health damages when you get older. While these statements are not technically false, they are misleading. What many people might not realize is that anal sex, if done correctly, can be even more pleasurable than other forms of penetration. An anus has several sensitive nerve endings that can hit that spot the same as vaginal penetration.
By Ashlyn Harper7 years ago in Filthy
From Stale to Spicy
Life is nothing but one big routine. We get up, go to work, eat, talk to the same people, see the same people, sleep in the same bed, day after day. The same routine can get boring, which is why we constantly look for ways to change it up! What new outfit can I wear? What new foods can I try? Is there something different to do at work? Are there new places to go or people to meet? Sex is no different. Many of us have sex with the same person, over and over and over. It can be absolutely fantastic, but it can also get a little stale. Thankfully, there are plenty of things we can do in the bedroom (and even out of the bedroom) to spice things up a bit!
By Laura Bruns7 years ago in Filthy
Let's Masturbate Everyday
First and foremost, it motivates us to love and respect ourselves more. We have a tendency not to have a wide knowledge of our own body. However, this can be increasingly empowering after masturbating. Furthermore, both your mind and body will be relaxed after all. According to scientific research, the more you tune in to your mind and body, the much happier you'll be in your various relationships. If you practice bodybuilding everyday, that could be the motive to masturbate at least once day. In order to make it more charming, you can be nude and masturbate in front of a mirror. As a result, you will feel comfortable a lot and love yourself more and more.
By EDGAR ANH HOAI NGUYEN7 years ago in Filthy
Honest About Anal
Anal sex is one of the "hot new things" in sex right now. For some reason, it has become a huge fad over the past few years and just about everyone wants to try it. However, anal sex isn't talked about much. People joke about it, sure. We talk about, "eating the booty like groceries," but we never actually talk about how to do it. And we never learned about it in sex education, so where are we getting our information? Porn, usually. Porn teaches us to spit on a girl's asshole and go balls deep.
By Laura Bruns7 years ago in Filthy
Sex Positions That Will Give You Multiple Orgasms
One of the best things about being a woman is that we can achieve multiple orgasms. For those who have not yet experienced this wild phenomenon, it’s not typically a case of not being able to as much as it’s a case of not using the right positions. You just have to train your body and your mind to be multi-orgasmic. To do so, check out these 11 sex positions that will give you multiple orgasms.
By Caesar Finkle7 years ago in Filthy
Captain Obvious's Guide to Young Adult Sex
Have you been celibate for far too long? Do you feel like only people named Chad are having sex? Do you assign a numerical value to every woman you see? If so, you may consider yourself an involuntary celibate. If you are tired of this lifestyle there are many steps you can take to change. Celibacy can mean different things to different people to some it means a lack of marriage to others it may mean a lack of sexual contact with a partner.
By Naima Omar7 years ago in Filthy
Eat This and That!
"I've never had to pretend to be having sex with somebody. I'm like the queen of the foreplay dissolve," Julia Roberts once said. The Pretty Woman was talking about her onscreen persona (at least we hope!) but there does seem to be some hesitation when it comes to foreplay, and there shouldn't be. Foreplay can be one of the, if not the, best part of sex. Here are some ways to have fun with your partner, no penetration required.
By Edward Anderson7 years ago in Filthy
