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Let's Talk About Sex Baby...
… Let's talk about you and me. Sorry, couldn’t help myself. So the latest news is that here in the UK, the supermarket Sainsbury’s are launching a range of vibrators. They are starting with a range of three, and depending on the demand they will be looking to increase their range.
By Kink Journals7 years ago in Filthy
Sexual Frustration in a Hook-Up Culture
As the saying goes, "variety is the spice of life," whilst that may be absolutely accurate when I am cooking my famous spaghetti Bolognese that has sprinkles of USA flavours in the form of oregano spice, or a taste of southern Spain, with a generous dash of paprika powder, that is not always a good thing when it comes to sex. Is that the collective mental gasps of naysayers echoing in these internet streets? Before we agree to disagree, read on...
By S A Miller7 years ago in Filthy
A 7-Step Beginner's Guide to Visiting Swingers Club
Here’s some simple advice to make your trip more enjoyable and comfortable. 1. Look for the rules. All clubs will have different rules. These are in place to protect you and the other patrons. They may differ from club to club, and some can even differ depending on the night or the event. Make sure you read through these and understand them before you go inside.
By Daisy Rowley7 years ago in Filthy
5 Things to Know Before Trying Anal *Must Read*
Trying new things in this world can seem pretty intimidating when it comes down to all the people that might judge you. With sex, it's pretty different though, because unless you're into exhibition, the topic between you and your partner (or anyone for that matter) can be kept pretty private. We all know sex is something we thoroughly enjoy but a lot of people I've spoken to generally find anal super frightening. It's understandable to have pause when trying something new. Today, I'm going to be telling you the things you should definitely know before even attempting anal.
By The Darkest Sunrise7 years ago in Filthy
Water Based Lube vs Oil vs Silicone Personal Lubricants for Sex
Lubricants have become rather popular amongst adults who wish to have some excitement in their sexual activities. Although there are several sex toys available in the market, lubricants have gained immense popularity over the decade. When you talk about sexual toys, these are usually made from latex or rubber and jelly. However, toys made from these materials may often prove to be detrimental to the vagina in general.
By Patty McDaniels7 years ago in Filthy
What Women Want You to Know About Sex
There is a topic many people are uncomfortable talking about with their partners. While almost all of us have had sex, we get choked up when asked to start a conversation about what happens underneath the sheets. I was one of those people. For whatever reason, I felt weird discussing this with my partner. Therefore, I had many nights that ended in uncomfortable or painful positions, because I was too scared to say something.
By Ashlyn Harper7 years ago in Filthy
Let's Have a Conversation About Sex
I've been somewhat of a hypocrite in a few of my articles about sex. To go into more detail, I've spoken about how communication is critical in the bedroom without practicing what I preach. While I do talk with my boyfriend about certain things, I still become an awkward turtle when it comes to specific topics. For example, just the other day I wanted to let him know about a particular situation that had made me feel uncomfortable in the bedroom. I stumbled through my speech, became red in the face, and made the entire talk feel weird. By the end of it, he asked me a question that I've been thinking about for a while now: “Why does talking about sex make you so uncomfortable?”
By Ashlyn Harper7 years ago in Filthy
Tipping a Sex Worker Is Huge and This Is Why You Should Do It
When I first came on-board in the sex industry, I had no clue that I wasn't going to be paid hourly. At the time, I was hurting for money when I first got in and heard through the grapevine that you could make good money. It's true that it's possible, making stacks of cash... however there's also nights when you can make squat. I began my career in this industry at eighteen as a stripper and was told that my entire income was going to be made through tips only. Not only that, but I was going to have to tip-out other people too. I had to pay house, pay the DJ, pay the bartenders and also pay a percentage out of my profit from my lap dances and champagne rooms to the house. "Whew, well okay." I thought when I first heard this. "Let me get to work and let's see what I can do." Honestly, that's a lot of information for someone that’s brand new and never ever cared to be comfortable in debt, don't you think? I'll answer that for you—holy shit, yes.
By Mardoll Gatsby7 years ago in Filthy
