Emily Chan - Life and love sharing
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Blog Writer/Storyteller/Write stores and short srories.I am a writer who specializes in love,relationships and life sharing
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Starve Trouble, Find Inner Peace
A long time ago, I was a very argumentative person. Whether online or in real life, if I thought something was wrong or someone said something incorrect, I’d jump in to argue with them. I genuinely believed I was "defending justice," "not being bullied," and "making my position clear."
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
Do You Fear Losing Someone, Or Not Knowing How to Be Alone?
The more you know how to be alone, the less you fear losing someone. In fact, I've always liked traveling solo. Beyond the freedom, no one needs to accommodate anyone else. You decide what time to have breakfast, what time to go out, and how long to stay at a tourist attraction.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
Choosing Solitude, Finding Joy
You'd rather walk alone for an afternoon than get lost in a world built for two. You'd prefer to live peacefully by yourself than dwell on someone else's reasons. Being alone isn't always the ideal, but it's certainly better than feeling lonely within a "two-person world."
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
The End of the Road: When Is Letting Go the Answer?
When communication becomes ineffective, the best approach is to recognize that we are different, but no one is wrong. Deeply realizing that our cognition is different is key. Not only are our thoughts out of sync, but our actions are too. Even the most basic communication becomes exhausting. No matter how many times we try, the result is the same. This can impact feelings, friendships, and family relationships alike.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
Are We Destined to Part?
In life, we are all destined to leave. Meetings are often coincidences, and separation is a natural progression. After all, joys and sorrows, reunions and partings are common, and no one can truly stop them. So, when that day comes, we must learn to say goodbye properly.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
Respect vs. Deceptive Love
Love can be deceptive. Someone might treat you well—kiss you, buy you delicious food, give you expensive gifts. These seemingly good things might be love, or they might not. This person could be using you as a toy for entertainment, with their efforts simply the cost of their fun, a cost they're willing to bear. They might also view you as property, an extension of their "sense of ownership." In fact, you might just be a tool for them to escape boredom and distract themselves from life.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
What if Your Toughest Critic Isn't Them, But You?
What often tortures us isn't the circumstances themselves, but how we interpret them. I still remember in my first few years in the workplace, any criticism or advice from colleagues, supervisors, friends, or even my partner would trigger a very strong emotional reaction in me. I'd think to myself, "I've worked so hard, why can't I get 100% affirmation?"
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Humans
Emotional Dependence: A Silent Terror
Good morning and good night every day, immediate replies to messages, constant availability, responses to your every word, and delightful conversations. What might start as pleasant interactions can gradually lead to a profound realization: you're becoming dependent on this feeling. I call this emotional dependence.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
A Lost Feeling Found
From that day on, I never contacted you again. I restored my original appearance, embracing independence and freedom. No dependence, no disturbance – it's like I'd never met you before. I know it would be a pity to give up, but there's no point in persisting in some things. Is it a must-have? Maybe losing would be easier.
By Emily Chan - Life and love sharing6 months ago in Poets
