Is Your Heart Freezing?

If you're feeling unloved, remember this: the most important way to move on as quickly as possible is to fully accept the ending.

Don't speak meaningless words or take unnecessary actions. Openly admit that you're no longer loved. Don't be unwilling because the outcome doesn't match the effort you put in. Don't pretend to be affectionate. Don't worry about the final gains and losses, and don't make comparisons. Don't ask "why?" when you already know the answer.

Accept that everyone eventually leaves; this is the normal course of life. Don't be afraid of separation. We all have to allow some people to appear in our lives briefly, and we must also be able to accept their departure.

Someone once said: "The person who teaches you how to grow up will never be able to accompany you throughout your life, because they teach you by leaving." They used the vows made to each other, combined with the ruthlessness of turning away, to teach you: Love will disappear, and no one can be your eternal support.

When we broke up last year, I was crying so hard on the phone that I couldn't even speak clearly. He was silent for a long time, then suddenly said, "Do you know? You're crying like this now, but I don't feel anything at all." My crying stopped abruptly, and I even automatically completed the sentence he didn't say: "I even feel annoyed."

I was stunned for two seconds, then said, "I see." Then I hung up the phone. I sat in the corner at the time, not knowing how long I was in a daze. Later, I got up and washed my face. I went to work without any heartbreak. It was as if, in that moment, a large truck of cement was poured into my heart and quickly solidified. Since then, every time my heart pounds, his words come to mind.

Did you hear that? The sound of a heart freezing. Did you see it? Your figure struggling in the cage. It's okay. Everyone makes wrong choices. We might shed tears for no apparent reason, or suddenly collapse while walking down the street. But this doesn't prevent us from watching the sunset, feeling the breeze, and falling in love with this world again.

If you love the wrong person, be brave enough to let it go. Move forward boldly and strive to be your own confidence. In this life, we will eventually have to go through storms. So, be good to yourself.

Thank you for reading!