Wealth and Freedom road: Do people around you complain?

Li Xiaolai had a childhood best friend named Golden Light. Jin Guang, who grew up in a village and is not highly educated, went abroad to work when Li was young. At that time, working abroad for a year, you can earn two or three hundred thousand yuan, which is a huge temptation for many people in China.

Mr. Jin, a seaman, plied the Eurasian route and returned with a long list of examples of how he had been helped. In Amsterdam, for example, he wanted to call his family, but there were no local coins. At his wit's end, a kind-hearted man brought him two coins, which he could hardly handle with his hands.

To Li's surprise, he also had another friend who was also on the Eurasian route, but he had much worse luck.

This made Li xiaolai very surprised, the same route, the same environment, why there are completely different experiences? He realized that the world was alive. When you smile at the world around you, the world will smile back. When you hate the world, the world will hate you back.

In our world, many things are inanimate, such as roads, houses, stones in parks and so on. In addition to these, many things are alive, such as the people around you, they can sense your happiness, happiness, sadness, they can receive your gratitude or resentment. The world is a mirror image. When you treat others, the world will treat you in the same way.

Even if we live in the same environment, each of our worlds is different. Old ladies in the community will complain that prices are too high when they see vegetable prices rise. And a person who understands economy sees vegetable price rise, he will think of the change of household consumption index, and then guide their investment.

Don't be nice to others

Life has several states, you can see which state you are in:

They are not good, others are not good

They are good, others are bad

They are not good, others are good

Good to oneself, good to others

I myself have always been in the first three states, including the people around me, and very few people are in the fourth state. People will always unconsciously compare with others, as long as there is a comparison, there will be a gap. What happens when you find out that someone else is better than you? More often you will be jealous and resentful. Why this mentality?

When we are young, few people have profound accumulation in a certain field, and few have their own attainments in a certain field, it is difficult to see others good at this time.

With the accumulation of time, when we have profound accumulation in a certain aspect, we can look at others' excellence with peace of mind.

What we should focus on is not the gap, but our own growth. When you see someone better than you, think about what kind of change it can bring to you. Only by focusing on your own growth can you bring about your own change. Once the truth grows, the proof will do itself.

Be different and correct

You know what? Many people who jump to their deaths do not actually die from the impact of the ground, but from being scared to death on the way down. The person is in the process of falling, blood pressure can rise, according to the meeting blood splatter after landing, but you rarely see this kind of phenomenon, even some people did not bleed, why? For man is dead in midair.

Before you jump, you feel like the world has nothing to do with you. There are people who did not succeed in suicide after jumping off a building recall that in the falling process, it is not a moment, but a long process, the important things in life, will be like a slide in the mind replay.

What is the meaning of life? Bi Shumin said: life has no meaning, the meaning of life is to live out.

In fact, being right in itself has no value. A lot of people think things used to one track-minded, their right, that others are wrong. One's faults make others right. This either-or view often makes me shudder.

For example, if you have a relative who has been admitted as a civil servant in a small county and leads a stable and comfortable life, he will think that the right life should be like this and cannot go out of the small county because it is dangerous to go out.

Similarly, there was another man who had made small achievements in the big city. At this time, he thought that people should stay in the big city. If he returned to the small county, he would be unable to retreat, and it was very dangerous.

Can you say who is right and who is wrong? Facts are the only test of truth, and as long as you can afford your mortgage, your kids' school, and your food and clothing, then you're doing the right thing.

Very few people are able to be "different and right." If you have an idea and you tell people around you that it doesn't work, what do you do? Be thankful that it's a blue ocean and less competitive because people around you don't agree. If everyone rushes in, you may not even get a chance to eat soup, let alone meat.