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Advice that will put you on the path to success; tips, tricks and nuggets of wisdom from trusted experts and motivational mentors.
Are you afraid of success or failure?
Should you seize the opportunity or proceed with caution? Whether you want to date someone or run a marathon, there are potential risks and rewards. Logically, you know that if you don’t try anything, you will get nothing. So, what is preventing you from achieving your goals and realizing your dreams? It may be fear of failure or fear of success, or both. Yes, it is possible to be afraid of failure and afraid of success at the same time.
By Eleonora Valerie4 years ago in Motivation
When Life Hits
December 2018, homeless, cold, hungry and tired. My family and I sat in the comfort of our car in the post-office parking lot trying to decide what to do now that my step-dad has lost his job and we have been evicted. We would have spent the night in that car parked outside the post office. My mother suggested we call her mom for help and my step-dad soon agreed. Now, up in Grass Valley we ate a delicious meal made by my grams and slept like babies in her very warm comfortable home. My grams assisted us with a storage for our belongings and aided us as much as she could; however, with her living in a senior area she was only allotted a few guests for approximately 60 days and then they had to leave. So, we did.
By Mayah Luckey4 years ago in Motivation
The Big Five
If you hang around five confident people, you will be the sixth. Knowing who to hang around is important because we all need each other to face life. It doesn’t matter what stage of life you are currently in right now. You have to understand that you are the one that is in control of you. When you hang around confident people, their energy will rub off on you and make you want to be more confident within yourself. If you know that you can do the job better than someone else, then make sure you are representing the best version of yourself to others so they can see the good in you and not the bad. I am not throwing shade at anyone here; I am only making a point. The more confident you are over yourself, others will soon notice and say things like, hey, I noticed that you had changed a bit.
By Theresa Evans4 years ago in Motivation
I Fell Out of a Tree. Top Story - September 2021.
When I was 10 years old, I fell out of a tree. Perhaps not my finest moment. I remember feeling the sudden pull of gravity. Now, gravity was an old friend of mine. We had a mutual understanding until this point. Today it was the day I finally learned who’s the boss.
By Blake A Swan4 years ago in Motivation
The Key to Success
Motivation is the fuel behind your ambitions and goals. It's what pushes you to get started on that new project or train for a race. However, it can be hard to stay motivated when life gets in the way of your plans-especially when you're feeling tired, stressed out and uninspired. Here are some tips that will help keep that motivation alive!
By Success Squad4 years ago in Motivation
4 Easy Tips on How to Make Healthy Recipes
For many people, making healthy recipes seems too difficult and time consuming... But with some advance planning and some basic knowledge of nutrition, it is easy to create a week's worth of healthy meals that you and your family will love. The key to creating delicious and healthy meals for the family is planning ...and lot's of it!
By KR4 years ago in Motivation
From grass to grace.
As i kid, I have always wondered and thought about the meaning of the above saying. I sit and I ponder to understand what it really means when you talk about going from "grass to grace", this, however, does not make any sense to me and that's because I guess my brain wasn't ready to understand and decipher what the saying really meant.
By Olalekan Adeeko4 years ago in Motivation
How to Take Action
Have you ever lost time to procrastination, later feeling guilty for not taking action? Or take on so many things that you couldn't do justice to any of them causing all the tasks to be postponed until eventually forgotten. I think we've all been there at some point in our lives… but what can we do to manage our tasks and take action?
By Jessica Miller4 years ago in Motivation
How to Discover Your True Self?
Believe in yourself Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble, but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy. But with sound self-confidence, you can succeed. A sense of inferiority and inadequacy interferes with the attainment of your hopes, but Self-confidence leads to self-realization and successful achievement. Because of the importance of this mental attitude, this book will help you believe in yourself and release your inner powers. It is appalling to realize the number of pathetic people who are hampered and made miserable by the malady popularly called the inferiority complex. But you need not suffer from this trouble. When proper steps are taken, it can be overcome. You can develop creative faith in yourself faith that is justified.
By Curated for You4 years ago in Motivation
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What Rejection Gave Me In childhood, I believe it is with great temerity and impulsivity that we look at the expanse of the world and claim, “This is what I want, This is what I deserve, This is who I will become.” It is not until we face the dark folds of life that we start to doubt this gesture of blind innocence. We contrive ways to make “sense,” to strategize, our legitimacy as human beings, as roles to play in some great archaic game. We are constantly undervaluing the truth that bleakness can be rhythmically blessed, timed, and executed for our greatest good. How I mean this to be true is the words on this paper did not exist out of coincidence, the childhood wounds did not bleed out of pure ruthlessness, the callous ending of each spiritual loss did not achieve nothing. The suffering is not without its own gifts. The suffering is indeed the gift after all. And this is not to say that one must suffer eternal damnation in order to identify a human experience. I am simply applying the concept that coincidence really has no bearing on our current reality despite the constant jumble of random encounters throughout our everyday experiences that we surreptitiously ignore until of course we have nothing left to focus on. The arid landscape that is our mind is a beautiful place to release our subconscious fears and maladaptions onto as it is the one true state of being. It says I am fully here to experience everything and anything and I hold no great bearing unto myself and I hold no great bearing unto others as I once thought I did. I can be used as a tool for the higher good, I can easily be used as a tool for the lower evil as well. It is a relative experience that holds very little bearing as I will come back into this world again and again and again and I will have lifetimes of deceit, joy, exultation, insomnia, degradation and more to mold myself into. There are only moments that I join together, I expand together or disband together at my leisure. If I am wrong writing this, I am not really wrong. Nothing can be proven or disproven as my time is not measured in accuracy of receiving information. My time is measured by a rhythmic microcosm of human evolution, experienced through the bodily senses I was born with. Can I achieve accuracy? Perhaps, but it is not in my opinion, a noble pursuit. There is always someone out there to prove what is wrong, what is right, what is seemingly pertinent to the living and what is seemingly irrelevant in the scheme of things. As I write this I am aware of all the misgivings of interpretation that can be perceived from my own beliefs. It is really up to me to add importance to those interpretations or not. Rejection is a heavenly example of distinctive possibility. Oh no, that love was not meant for you because this love was. Oh no, that house on the hill was not meant for you because this building is better for your need for inspiration. Sometimes the things, people, places, dreams, details that we place weight onto are really meant to mostly serve as an example. Are really only meant to serve as something to bounce off of until reality aligns with ideals. Hence suffering is the necessity to creation. It is not required at all times or even (for most people) for very long, but it is an acquired facet of life that is necessary to create a new thing. This is true in childbirth, this is true in killing the animal in order to feast, this true in killing the parts of yourself that created expectations that you were never actually meant to meet. So what is it to lose? What is it to lose rapidly and then all at once? What does it all stand for if it even has value enough to stand? Rejection is a powerful interspersing of both disconnection and realignment. It is a mother bear setting a cub loose after being unwilling to foster it. What must the bear decide? Does it give up and languish in its own demise? Perhaps. It could do that, and stop moving and stop eating and eventually be snapped up by some predatory creature. But most likely it revises its tactics. Its evolution is so abstract that despite the rejection it has received in existing, its instincts become hyper utilized in order to survive. This of course does not mean that the baby bear always survives, but neither do the baby bears that are taken care of and taught. There is no conceivable “rightness” in order to succeed at life. It is really just shot after shot after shot in the dark sometimes to no avail. But that doesn’t stop the bear from being the bear. That doesn’t stop its potential of growing into a fierce, irrefutably terrifying animal. The perspective of rejection is often a loss. Taking a loss or a hit, but isn't it more remarkable when the baby bear, all alone and abandoned, survives? Survives and remains. There is no right way to proceed into the black fold, into the bleak limitations we were born into. There is only exist until you cannot anymore. And then exist again, and again, and again. Nothing is as important as realizing fate is a tricky dynamic of acceptance and resolute determination. Fate is not some frilly adventure, only in an effort to make life as simple and calm as possible. Real experience cannot be gained without challenge. Real challenge cannot be overcome without willingness to assert self over challenge. My rejection story isn’t about one person, one lost love, one lost home. My rejection story is a part of me as if I could uncurl my fingertips and show you the map on my palm. It is me. Most of the time people don’t “deserve” rejection as some moral failing. Most of the time people experience rejection in order to exercise great power of self actualization. Who are you when you have nothing or no one? Who are you if everyone is always on your side and you have never proven your grit to anything or anyone? Who is the question you will always be left with. It is not a determination of moral failing if you experience less rejection, it is a mere determination that you have yet to experience the full weight of you on your shoulders. The bear can either follow its intuition and live or it can fumble and die but either way it is still a bear. It means nothing to be rejected just as it means nothing to be accepted. If we die alone how can we fear living alone? How can we fear our own thoughts and actions more than those around us? The common example used for why humans are sociably reliant creatures is the fact that it has helped us survive throughout centuries. But what about the people who died because of who they were connected to? What about the people who died from suffering daily from being put in a box of societal pressure? What is it to live if one does not experience true self expression? What then is survival if your body exists but your mind is broken?
By Faith De Young4 years ago in Motivation
