People live a life, you have to look forward

Most people want their lives to be more sweet than bitter, but the fact is that there are more bitter than imagined.

Even, though many people can not survive the bitterness, spent most of their lives entangled in it.

But entanglement is too much, but brings endless worries, like a stumbling block hindering the process of life.

Looking back on half a life, only to find needless entanglement is a waste of time.

So, people live a life, you have to look forward.

1, life is not fast enough

Those who thought they could not get over the hurdles, many years later to look back, will find that it is no big deal.

Most of the problems, at first encountered, are "difficult", but quietly and carefully answered will slowly discover the law, and find a solution.

Like a math problem, how difficult are there laws to speak of, but the more you want to quickly find the answer, the easier it is to fall into a thinking error, in turn, it is difficult to quickly solve the problem?

So, if you just want to "hurry up", it will only backfire and become even slower.

As the saying goes, speed is not enough, rather than the pursuit of speed, forcing themselves to quickly solve the problem, it is better to quietly and carefully examine the problem, to better prescribe the right medicine.

Most people tend to fall into the wrong thinking when they encounter problems.

The first thing that comes to mind is what you should do, but forget to ask yourself "why this problem".

If you do not even understand why the problem will appear, then how to solve the problem, will only treat the symptoms, not the root cause, well once, and will appear a second time, repeatedly tossed.

Instead of letting the problem recur, it is better to solve it from the root.

However, not everyone can see the root cause at a glance, requires sufficient strength and experience.

Therefore, do not be discouraged when the strength is not enough, and study hard to improve themselves to solve the problem at the root.

Life's problems are solved, and the roadblock threshold will naturally be correspondingly less.

Those problems that can not be solved, more often than not, do not see the "road" out of the wrong.

Nothing can pass, out of thinking misunderstanding, life has unlimited possibilities.

2, do not think about the past, not be afraid of the future

However, on the road of life, sometimes more cautious will make mistakes.

Those mistakes, either big or small have.

Some people are thus devastated, hitting the bottom; some people use this as a base to start over ...... each has their own choices, and each has their future, when they only feel that life has no hope, did not think the choice will change a life.

People at the bottom, really can not listen to any admonition, full of despair, only complaining about their own life is not easy, think how hard to do so, it is better to give up on yourself, and get by.

The despair at that time cannot be summed up in a few words.

I dreamed of having a chance to start over, but life can't be started over, no amount of dreaming can change reality, and dwelling on the past will only make me live in the past, with no future to speak of.

In this way, the development will be in two directions, either to revive or to stumble.

Later, after experiencing more things, I realized that: can not walk out of the past, you can not see the future.

Rather than dwelling on a momentary failure, it is better to start over.

The financial turmoil that year, how many companies went bankrupt, and few dared to start over, but those who stood up were finally successful and created their miracle again.

Those who can not pass the hurdles in life, as long as the courage to face, them at any time may become a stepping stone to a new process.

Life is more than that, brave forward, infinite possibilities.