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By Hania AliPublished 3 years ago 3 min read
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I am going to stick up to writing for sure, though I've board on Monday. Well, this is my second blog, in addition all night I was wondering, what actually my blogs are about, and then finally I realized that my blogs don't have specific genre. I am confused about it, because I am going to write a lot on different topics, but as per the introduction in my first blog, my blogs are surely going to help you and you will never get bored. As I have vast variety of topics. I will not particularly write on one topic.

Here is a short introduction of my lifestyle and about me. I don't have lavish or luxurious lifestyle, although I can easily afford it. But I am living a middle class life with no one, with no family and with on guardians. I am living on my own, but yeah I am not old enough to bear my expenses. However I am trying to become financially independent. The reason why I am living like this is that I belong from a broken family. I have lived my half of life in someone else's house and half in hostels. There is nothing for me to do on vacations, such as going on a trip etc. In fact, meeting with my brothers is also a blessing. I don't know how it feels living. Moreover I am at a stage where I really don't want to know neither I care how it feels living in a family. Also at this age no one is going to accept us as their family, which is fine. Beside that we three were the unwanted kids for everyone. People will say that you are more than family or you three are also our family. However after watching their so cold family behaviour with us, we decided to not to distract ourselves with sweet words of others. Then we longer waited for anyone to protect/save us. We lived here and there and still we are living with arrogant behaviours of people with us.

I think I've made a bit long. I will let you know how I am dealing with it, as I am eldest in my family so apparently I have to go through plenty of stuff, and I am happy that my brothers are not going through that stuff. Although I am sick and tired of it.

HOW TO TACKEL

  • I don't pay attention to others, as well I indirectly I snub them when they try to attack me.
  • I write down all the problems which are bothering me, in order not to overthink, because your mental well-being is really important for a well-built person.
  • I don't show my emotions neither I talk to everyone frankly, since no one cares and you never know who is your foe.
  • To stop playing a role of victim, and to only rely on yourself.
  • Stop proving yourself you are not some kind off theorem, and start improving yourself.
  • Make yourself, your first priority.
  • Work on your happiness.
  • Blaming others won't solve your issue, so stop doing that.
  • Always have main character energy.
  • Be humble, but not a people pleaser.
  • Treat everyone equally , and talk nicely to everyone.
  • Don't give up on your kindness. Small act of kindness are never wasted, just chose wisely with whom you need to stay kind.
  • Never compare yourself.
  • Stay silent.

End

The above mentioned deeds are literally my things. I have not written things which I don't do. All these things are applied in my daily life, otherwise I won't be able to survive in world full of monsters. Although, sometimes I have to face plenty of other things, as I do above things. However I do have idea about these things which are going to happen after I rely on above advices, because people can't see you as a well-built human. What so ever, silence is the best answer for idiots, but sometimes I speak when I am about to burst and my brain is more intelligent at supporting me than me, oh wait! brain is a part of my body. So does it mean I am supporting myself?

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About the Creator

Hania Ali

Writing about my small little world.

Hope you stay motivated/depressed with ME.

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