I am Sarah writing to you.

A nation will not prosper unless it gives freedom to women - Jawaharlal Nehru

Great social changes are not possible without the rise of women.  We can measure social progress by the position in society of the women who are referred to as the beautiful race, including the unattractive among them.  Carol Max.

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Many of us today still wonder when they will be free. When will feelings be respected?  When is it valued?  We greet you with so many questions.

Suffering does not discriminate between men and women.  However, it is the personality attitude of the male-dominated society that takes the feelings of the woman, which makes the woman go in the direction of not working, as a servant, and below the man.

Hardships to face :

How to recover from this?  Let me tell you the secret.  First of all, take it easy, my friend.  Get out of the prison of your fear first.  Don't women who have achieved and are achieving have these problems?  There is for sure.  Why it has more?  If you have a problem in your family, for them it is a problem on both sides of the family and society.  This patriarchal society does not see women as beautiful on the ladder so easily.

Instead, she would break the animals in her own family.  If she comes out, society will stop and stone her.  She advances by crushing that too.  You take it easy.  It is enough to live patiently.  This is your life.  your freedom,  your feelings and your pain.

You are Unique :

Never worry for anything. Be ready to face challenges. And always be prepared to solve problems. Whatever happens you have to be bold to handle it. You're special, you're unique. So remember to love yourself first.

The woman was not created just to break down and cry.  All religions portray women as strong.  Wipe away the pain inside you.  Play and Prepare your voice to challenge oppression.

If a woman means gentleness, tolerance, patience, and sacrifice, they will tell you many names and try to keep you down. But everything has a limit.  You are not superior to man. You are created equal to man.

Say that you will give back double what you give.  It's okay to love, it's okay to beat.  Your times of pain are gone.  If not today then never.  Choose your future.  Are you going to live and die for people like this?  Or are you going to change your life?  Make a decisive decision yourself.

Be Bold and Be Courageous :

Ask back when oppression prevails.  Tell them your feeling.  Say out loud that you are human.  Say that you are a human being with blood, flesh, consciousness and life like them.  Show that you hurt too.  Alas, your fear of what your relatives will say and your mother's honour is the strength of this evil oppressive class.  Grind it into bran powder.

Not a single rupee is worth by relations or talkers.  The germs in the blanket of these relationships, live and die, and die.  Throw it in the trash.  Wear milk as a garment and cloth as an ornament.

When someone tries to stop you, don't panic. Just relax and kick their face and say "This is my life and only I have all right to carve it". Prepare yourself and be ready always to face anything. If you have a girl child teach her how she should lead her life.

Set aside sometime in 24 hours for yourself, for your choice, to do what you like, to keep your mind happy, and to enjoy yourself.  Nothing sinks in that little time.  Your family will not be disturbed.  Tell your mind it's time for me.  Then tell those who question you.  Tell me that this family will prosper only if I am happy.

Congratulations on changing your life...

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