My Husband's Parenting

My husband's parenting

I am Sarah….

Saree is like a mother and a child is like a thread. If the child makes a mistake, how can be the mother only responsible?

In general, it can be said that child rearing is imposed on women in society. A woman who steps into marriage with a thousand dreams, no matter how educated she is, has to face regular dialogues from her surrounding. "you don't need to go to work, take care of the home and kids that's enough, who will take care of the children? only the mother is responsible for the kid's behaviour, you are not taking care of the children, girls should not go to work after marriage, like this many more things...

After Marriage, After Having Kids, Many mothers lose their education and future dreams and raise their children. However, very few women are lucky in this. If she finds a good husband, she can fly beautifully in life. Getting such a husband is all because of the way his mother brought him up.

My Husband - My Gift :

Anyway, this post is about my husband. Ours is an arranged marriage. Despite countless problems, the birth of my son brought great changes in my life. I had to wait for 8 days at the government maternity hospital for my son's birth. I had no pain because my body was so watery. The doctors waited. But we are nervous and scared. My husband waited at the gate of that government hospital for those 8 days, day and night.

The True Love :

Eat and sleep there. I use to be inside that government hospital. But my husband did stay at the door of the hospital for 9 days. It will be a pity to watch. His mother is also sad but he doesn't care about anyone. It was during those 9 days that I realized. I carry the child in my womb. But he is carrying me and my child in his heart.

Finally, Our Son Arrived :

I had my son by caesarean section because I was not in pain naturally and my due date was over. My cutie pie's birth weight was 4.6 kg. His birth was eagerly awaited by the entire hospital and nurses. Outside the door, two eyes searched for me and my child with a sense of fear.

When our son was shown, the eyes of the husband, who were in the ocean of joy, did not forget to search for me. From the moment he held his son in his arms, he was his world. He will do everything for the child. At night he wakes with him, sways and gives a bath. Son is 6 years old today. Even today he looks for his father to bathe him and wash him after finishing his morning chores. In his absence, he will do it himself. A nice bath finish. But if there is a father, he should do it.

Aunt's Logicless Logic :

My husband's uncle's wife once asked, "why Are you making your husband to do these works to your son? only You should do it. I will not let my daughters-in-law to do to my sons like this. Even if your son goes to the toilet, he calls his father." I said he is not only my son but also his son. Just let him do it. He is happy in doing it. The aunt said that this is all wrong. Thinking in my mind that your pity your daughter-in-laws are, I passed by saying that he will do everything to his son happily, you don't worry.

My husband has more role in raising my son than me. The reason I am proud to post this is so that at least one man or woman reading this will change the mindset that parenting is for women.

Thanks!!!!!