★👑 𝘍𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘪𝘯𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘺𝘰𝘶👑★

♥𝓕𝓪 𝓵𝓵 𝓲𝓷𝓵𝓸𝓿𝓮 𝔀𝓲𝓽𝓱 𝔂𝓸𝓾♥

The reason i a m writing this is because i for years haven't been able to love myself and it has been horrible.I tried a lot and nothing worked.I just didn't love myself which made me not have self respect or self worth. Now people don't respect me because for years i let them not respect me which has led me to feel hate for myself but now am learning to learn and accept the fact that it wasn't my fault i felt like that , it was the people who didn't respect me or treated me like trash and as if i wasn't a person with emotions.The amount of times they have disrespected my body and i called them my friend really hurts me to think of. It was jokes for them to make fun of my body but why? Why do i let them cause me pain or cry or control my feelings? They aren't me so they don't have control, i do because its my Body, my feelings my Decisions.

Everything started when i decided that am not gonna let anyone or anything ruin my day.It started when i decided that am not gonna be sad anymore.It started when i realized if someone gave a negative comment about my body, I would think that does this come from their insecurities and wanting me to feel bad about my body because they feel bad about theirs and is what there are saying even true? It started when i stopped listening to music that made me feel crap about myself and stared listening to empowering songs. This started when i started looking at myself and accepting it.It started when i realized that i want to live my life happy, I don't want to feel worthless and never enough. Richard Carlson once said,'If you're not gonna talk about something during the last hour of your life,then don't make a priority'

Falling in love with yourself can be hard but what the difference with falling in love with someone else. Only you can control your feelings which makes you powerful.

Look at yourself in the mirror as if in someone else's eyes and as if it was the first time and start to see yourself inside and out and fall in love. Fall in love with your smile,your personality, your talent and how you hold yourself. Fall in love with how beautifully the words come out your mouth or how you shake your body and see happiness. Fall in love with how of a good heart you have and how you have over come a lot. Fall in love with how generous you are or how you are incredibly creative but you don't even know. Look at yourself as if for the first time and fall i love.

You wouldn't judge your crush or anyone you love so why do you judge yourself. You are a human too and you have flaws and make mistakes just like anyone else. Fall in love with that one thing that makes you feel confident and makes you want to be better and do better for yourself. Don't change yourself because your friend or family or a stranger wants you to change. Change because you want to and want to strive to be your best.Look at yourself and feel butterflies. Feel happiness. If you feel insecure, take a moment and breath in and out and wonder why you can't love yourself and why you feel insecure, Look at yourself and Thank God for making you, you. You fall in love with being yourself and your positive energy and how you want to succeed in your dreams. Fall in love with how you make jokes and how many people love to be around you and how many people's days you make. Fall in love with how many people care about you and love you being around. Don't be hard on yourself and quit judging your physical body because i know you wouldn't judge someone you really do care about. I also wanted to let you know that looks don't matter and you know that and i will tell you why.

Think of someone you crush on or love, would you not like them if they had the 'insecurities' you have. You still would if you really like them and have real feelings because they are so much more than they physical appearance and so are you. If someone has made you feel worthless,do they really care about you. Remove negativity from you life first and understand what i wrote earlier. You will live a better life then.I promise you.

Hope this was helpful.Just wanted to make something helpful. xx

Author: SALEM SEMERE