mental health
Mental health and psychology are essential in life extension and leading a healthy and happy life.
The Day I Stopped Rubbing My Eyes at Work
Rubbing my eyes had become automatic. I never thought about it. A quick press of my palms into my eye sockets. A slow blink afterward. Sometimes a stretch or a sigh followed. It happened dozens of times a day, usually without my awareness.
By illumipureabout 2 hours ago in Longevity
How I Beat Procrastination
I was a professional procrastinator. Not the cute kind who waits until the last minute and still pulls it off. The destructive kind. The kind who watched opportunities slip away because I couldn't make myself start. The kind who felt shame every single day for all the things I wasn't doing.
By Fazal Hadia day ago in Longevity
How I Sleep Peacefully Now
Three in the morning used to be my breaking point. That's when I'd wake up, heart pounding, mind racing, staring at the ceiling while the world slept peacefully around me. I'd grab my phone and watch the minutes crawl by—3:17, 3:34, 3:52—knowing that the alarm would go off in a few hours and I'd face another day exhausted.
By Fazal Hadi2 days ago in Longevity
The Subtle Signs That the Air Was Holding Me Back
For a long time, I assumed the problem was me. By mid day, my focus would start to slip. Conversations felt harder to follow. My posture changed without me noticing. I would take deeper breaths, not because I was out of breath, but because something felt slightly off. Nothing dramatic. Nothing urgent. Just a steady sense that everything required more effort than it should.
By illumipure3 days ago in Longevity
Day 4 of Quitting. Top Story - January 2026.
If this is how sobriety feels, maybe it’s better to go through life a little buzzed… this, along with other hits like, I want to kill myself, I wish I was dead, and I’m going to throw myself off a bridge have been the only thoughts on rotation these past few days. I promise myself that if, in a month, I still feel like this (‘this’ meaning despondent, full of rage, and simultaneously numb) I can go back to smoking. Until mid-February though? Nicotine is off the table.
By sleepy drafts5 days ago in Longevity
7 Ways I Trained My Mind to Stop Overthinking
I used to live inside my head. Not in a creative, daydreamy way. In an exhausting, suffocating, never-ending loop of what-ifs and worst-case scenarios. Every conversation replayed. Every decision questioned. Every possibility analyzed until I couldn't move forward at all.
By Fazal Hadi6 days ago in Longevity
6 Thoughts That Were Quietly Ruining My Progress
I thought I was doing everything right. I woke up early. I set goals. I worked hard. I stayed disciplined. But somehow, no matter how much effort I poured in, I felt like I was running in place. Progress felt impossible. Success felt distant. And every day, I grew more frustrated with myself.
By Fazal Hadi6 days ago in Longevity
Talking to Yourself Isn’t Crazy: How Self-Talk Reveals Mental Strength and Exceptional Abilities. AI-Generated.
For decades, talking to yourself in public was often seen as a sign of eccentricity or even instability. Whispering into empty rooms, muttering plans aloud, or narrating your own thoughts quietly while alone has long carried a social stigma. Yet modern psychology suggests that this behavior is far from a bad habit. In fact, self-talk can reveal powerful mental traits, bolster cognitive abilities, and even enhance emotional resilience. Why Humans Talk to Themselves At its core, self-talk is a natural cognitive process. Psychologists describe it as “private speech,” a phenomenon first studied extensively in children. Young children frequently talk out loud while playing or solving problems. This behavior helps them organize thoughts, plan actions, and regulate behavior. While most people grow out of speaking aloud to themselves as they age, the practice persists in many adults, especially during moments of concentration or stress. Research indicates that talking to yourself can serve multiple functions. It can guide problem-solving, aid in memory retention, reinforce motivation, and even act as a coping mechanism during emotionally challenging situations. Far from indicating instability, it often signals self-awareness and advanced mental organization. Self-Talk as a Cognitive Tool One of the most compelling benefits of self-talk is its role in cognitive performance. Neuroscience research shows that verbalizing thoughts engages different brain regions compared to silent thinking alone. When people talk themselves through tasks, they activate the prefrontal cortex—the area responsible for planning, decision-making, and controlling impulses. For example, athletes often use self-talk to improve performance, repeating instructions or motivational phrases to stay focused and calm. Students, similarly, might repeat steps aloud when learning complex mathematical problems or practicing new skills. This method is not random chatter; it is a conscious strategy that enhances attention, memory, and task execution. Emotional Resilience and Self-Talk Beyond cognitive benefits, self-talk has profound emotional advantages. Speaking aloud can help individuals process stress, regulate emotions, and clarify thoughts. Psychologists note that naming feelings—saying “I’m frustrated” or “I’m anxious”—can reduce emotional intensity and promote rational responses. This mechanism is linked to the concept of emotional labeling. By putting emotions into words, we externalize and examine them, which reduces their grip over our mental state. People who habitually engage in constructive self-talk tend to demonstrate higher emotional intelligence, better problem-solving under pressure, and a greater ability to navigate interpersonal conflicts. Exceptional Abilities and Self-Insight Interestingly, self-talk is also associated with creativity, self-reflection, and strategic thinking. Many highly accomplished individuals—from writers to entrepreneurs—credit verbalizing ideas as a key step in their creative or analytical processes. Talking through a plan, a story, or a concept aloud allows them to hear gaps, anticipate challenges, and refine their ideas more effectively than thinking silently alone. Studies have even suggested a link between self-talk and metacognition—the ability to think about one’s own thinking. Individuals who engage in self-directed speech are often more introspective and capable of evaluating their own mental strategies. This self-awareness is a hallmark of exceptional mental traits, from leadership and innovation to problem-solving in complex environments. Overcoming the Stigma Despite the growing evidence of its benefits, social stigma still discourages many from openly acknowledging their self-talk. People often fear judgment or being perceived as “weird” or “unstable.” Yet reframing this behavior as a tool for mental organization and emotional regulation can empower individuals to embrace it without shame. Experts recommend a few practical ways to leverage self-talk: Task-Oriented Self-Talk: Narrate steps when tackling complex tasks to reinforce focus. Motivational Self-Talk: Use positive affirmations to boost confidence and persistence. Emotional Labeling: Name your emotions aloud to process stress or frustration. Reflective Dialogue: Discuss your ideas with yourself to explore multiple perspectives. Conclusion Talking to yourself is far from a mental flaw; it’s a window into powerful cognitive traits, emotional resilience, and exceptional abilities. Far from undermining intelligence, self-talk can enhance memory, focus, creativity, and self-awareness. It helps people navigate complex tasks, manage stress, and reflect deeply on their choices. So, the next time you find yourself quietly narrating your day, planning out loud, or reasoning through a problem in your own voice, take pride. You’re engaging in a practice that has deep roots in human development and is backed by science as a hallmark of mental strength. The habit of self-talk doesn’t just organize thoughts—it reveals a mind capable of insight, strategy, and exceptional achievement. Embrace it. It might just be the secret superpower your brain has been quietly practicing all along.
By Fiazahmedbrohi 6 days ago in Longevity
Why Himalayan Salt bricks take your Sauna Session to the Next Level
When you enter a sauna, you expect that rush of body heat and trace of decompression from daily life’s grind. But what if you took that idea to the next level? Imagine yourself surrounded by the.. gentle, healing light of ancient salt crystals and inhale.. the purifying, healthful air, enriched with minerals. That’s about the only luxury you get when making the choice for a Himalayan salt sauna. If you use Himalayan salt bricks for your sauna therapy sessions, not only do you get a pretty picture perfect look, but your regular sauna session transforms into a holistic and wellness therapy session.
By Emily Rosie7 days ago in Longevity
