breakups
When it comes to breakups, pain is inevitable, but Humans thinks that suffering is optional.
F^cking Memories
Okay, cue the Taylor Swift breakup song right now. I'm actually listening to that song as I write this. Memories are either beautiful or tragic. They're either magical or bittersweet. They're either hurtful or life-changing. I think we all have memories that we remember all too well. Seriously that song gives me chills. It tells a story all too well. I have a story that I will always remember. I'll remember being abused on a daily by someone who was supposed to protect my heart till death. I'll remember being left with more trauma than I knew what to do with. I'll remember loving someone at their worst and them screwing me over at mine. I'll remember being treated like crap, day in and day out. I'll remember my heart physically hurting when it ended and wanting to not live anymore. I'll remember having to pick up the pieces of my heart and the shell of my former self. I'll remember not mattering to the one person to who I was supposed to matter most too. I'll remember being yelled at daily for making even the slightest mistake. I'll remember those things forever. Some things get burned in your mind. I try to forget them. I really try. I'll remember being left with some form of PTSD and going to bed fearing for my life every night.
By Amanda Nicole4 years ago in Humans
Single is the New Black
I've never been so happy in my whole life, and I'm single. Why rock the boat? I have money, brains, and my health. What more could a person ask for? I can tell you from your experience, that if you don't have your health, you've got nothing. I'm an aspiring writer, I travel the world, and I'm the CEO of my own life and I like it. I've got 99 problems in my life and being single isn't one of them. In fact, I'd have 299 problems if I were in a relationship.
By Susan Eileen 4 years ago in Humans
I Pushed My Boyfriend Away And He Broke Up With Me (I Pushed Him Away By Being Too Clingy)
Look I don't know what you did or what you said, but you screwed up didn't you? You screwed up big time, otherwise why would you be even reading this article. Lucky for you I have been through the wringer and tried and failed with many different ways to get my ex back. Also lucky for you I have tried and succeeded with many different ways to get my ex back. Here are just a few of them.
By Jasmine Noral4 years ago in Humans
F%cking Trauma
I was thinking about this the other day as I was speaking to a friend about this. I was thinking about how Trauma changes you in ways that you can't explain. It breaks you into so many little pieces that it might seem impossible to put you back together. I was thinking about how trauma stays with you forever and only gets easier to deal with. I was thinking about how we all go through traumatic moments. I was thinking about how we heal from trauma. How do we heal from it? How do we move forward from something that broke us into a thousand pieces? How do we move forward and try to forget something/someone that we'll most likely remember forever. That's the thing about Trauma you never really get over it. It gets easier to deal with no doubt, but it never really leaves us. It scars us for life. Trauma has a way of staying with us forever.
By Amanda Nicole4 years ago in Humans
Twinkling through the Milky Way
Crawling with no energy to run I slid off the couch . When I had no other movement I could do I grabbed the ground underneath me then pulled . There was blood on my hands and on my knees . I wiped them off as I was crying . Still pulling to my next destination . After crawling I had room to breathe and growth to aspire . I learned a new skill and I walked zero to the end of the world. My feet were blistered and slowly I learned to pick up the pace. Leavened completely flushed quiet and room to evolve so I evolved. I cried I had no more inside and I was spinning. The more I cried the more I screamed the more that was thrown at me I ducked I punched I threw . I screamed so loud anyone with ears could hear .
By April Liao4 years ago in Humans
How to Get Over a Break Up
Break ups have a tendency to squash, and render useless, expectations one had of a relationship, and the investment the individual had placed on the relationship. Additionally, they cause an individual to experience the unbearable emotional pain elicited by the manifestation of hurtful emotions.
By Benny Njuguna4 years ago in Humans
My Ex Stopped Talking To Me All Of A Sudden (Ex Stopped Talking To Me Out Of Nowhere)
It's hard to have your ex ignore you. It's even worse if it's entirely your fault. Let's say your ex was talking to you after the breakup, but then they started ignoring you....but why?
By Jasmine Noral4 years ago in Humans
Me and My Boyfriend Just Broke Up and I Want Him Back (You and Your Boyfriend Split Up but You Still Love Him)
I know right now you can't see it. Everything is so gloomy and you can't see pass today and if you do it's all scary stuff, a life void of meaning and happiness. Drop it now! Take it from me, your mind can't do the work for you right now. It's so shaky and vulnerable, so even when you can't control it right at this second, you can at least be assured that this is not the end. And that things will get better.
By Michael Hamilton4 years ago in Humans
