advice
Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..
Misconception
A little advice I wish I would have had 10 years ago.. there's a certain type of guy every girl should avoid. He's a guy you will no doubt encounter in your love life, and he will have you wrapped up in his snare in 5 seconds flat. He will be attractive, but rarely act like he knows it, although he definitely knows it. His lack of self esteem is one of his many ploys. He will tell you he is lonely, he doesn't have anyone really there for him, and every girl he has dated has treated him terribly. You will notice he always plays the victim and never admits to making mistakes or being at fault when a relationship turns sour. He will go on about not wanting to have a relationship, because he just isn't ready, but he just needs a friend right now. Well it is all an act! After feeling sorry for him you will go out of your way to bring some light to his poor little life (it's just in a woman's nature to try and fix things). The two of you will talk for hours about everything, you will feel very close to him. Then comes the time when you sleep with him. Usually, it just happens. At least that's what you think. You're just watching a movie or hanging out and BAM! You are doing the naked pretzel. What you don't know is that he had planned it that way from the beginning of course. He relied on your trusting nature to feel bad for him, then feel like you've fixed him a little, then feel close enough to him to sleep with him. The next day he conveniently doesn't answer any of your text. A week later he will finally reply with a smooth, "Sorry I have been super busy" or something along those lines.
By Vanna James8 years ago in Humans
Five Traits of a Controlling/Abusive Person
He had bedroom eyes, thick, dark hair, and a smile that made my heart beat a little faster. I was at a vulnerable point in my life; recently divorced and fighting my parents for custody of my son, so it wasn't difficult for him to embed himself into my life.
By Denise Willis8 years ago in Humans
A Letter to the Most Influential Man In My Life; I'm Here Too
Everyone you know holds a certain spot in your heart, some can be large and others very small, but either way they are a piece of your life. I have this one insanely important man in my life, who will forever be the most influential in my heart. He is everything I strive to be, and yet, nothing of whom I want to be.
By Ashlyn Thomson8 years ago in Humans
How to Make It Last
There is that saying, you'll know when you find the one. If you doubt this saying it's because you have not found the one for sure. Everyone else who knows this is true is because you feel it. You have found the one. This person is not only the love of your life, but also your best friend.
By Liliana Lanaj8 years ago in Humans
Society
Society these days is so messed up. You get people judging you no matter what. If you're too 'fat' you get judged and if you're too 'skinny' you get judged. If you're not a virgin at a young age then you get classed as a slag or a whore. If you are a virgin, you get called frigid. You get judged no matter what you do. But honestly, everyone is perfect in their own way. You can be pretty no matter how much you weigh. It's your choice if you're a virgin or not. Girls. This is for you. You don't need a boy to be happy. You don't need a boy to feel loved. Sometimes it feels nice to have someone hug you when you're cold. But sometimes you may not always be happy. It's not all about having a boy in your life that you can show off. When you have a boy, it may make you feel more important, more desired but you can get friends that make you ten times happier. You will find the right boy sooner or later though.Boys. Now your turn. Not every girl you meet is gonna be perfect. And not every girl is going to have giant breast or a big bum. You can't always be wanting to get a girl just from their looks, their personality matters as well! And you may want a 'hot' girlfriend just to show off to your mates but who cares, if she hasn't got a big bum, so what? If she makes you happy then fuck what everyone else thinks!
By Kacey Manley8 years ago in Humans
Finding That Special Loved One
Ladies, we all know that it's hard to find the right man for us, right? We may find ourselves a boyfriend but is the boyfriend really marriage material? Or is he just someone we can have fun with for a few months or even a few years? Or maybe we can't even find someone. Growing up through middle school and high school, and even a bit in college, I'm the one in my group of friends who always gives relationship advice (even though I'd never been in a relationship until college and that lasted a month). But most times my advice would work. So, with that said, here is some advice on finding that special someone.
By Cheryllyn Pyle8 years ago in Humans
How To Make It Work
When you find the love of your life, you want to do anything to keep that person in your life. Sometimes it takes a little work, but most of the time it's actually quite more difficult than you'd think. Either way there are many ways to work things out and keep everything together in one piece. You also might be thinking why you're listening to advice from a girl you don't even know. But I'm hoping this might help you with your relationships.
By Cassie White8 years ago in Humans
The Wisdom of a Little Kid
Warning: this is a little self-indulgent, but get to the end and it’ll be worth it. Cool? Let's go then. Okay, I’m not what you’d call a manly man. I don’t play sports, I’m not macho (thank god) and I’ve always gotten on better with women rather than men. Now, some of you will have read that differently than others. It’s not intended as an insult to any macho guys in a bromance who love sports. It’s just me.
By Danny Kane8 years ago in Humans
The Blurred Line Between Love and Manipulation
Let's face it, love is dangerous. We are essentially handing our heart over to someone we are more than likely still getting to know, and we are trusting them NOT to make us regret our decision. The truth is, when you're heavily involved in another person, you tend to make excuses when their actions don't live up to the expectation. You start to rationalize their actions, you tell yourself that you're overreacting or that they will change. Is it our own inability to admit that our trust was misplaced, or are we just so invested in the idea of love that we are willing to make it work even when we are unhappy? Whatever the case may be, many of us end up tolerating abusive or manipulative behavior without even realizing it.
By Kasey Lomax8 years ago in Humans
Behind Open Doors
Polyamory, it's everywhere these days. With thanks to television shows such as Sister Wives, the concept of an open marriage is everywhere. Granted the stars of the television show are "married", polyamory is a form of practice similar to that of the Brown family.
By Tara Roberts8 years ago in Humans
What NOT to Say to a Flood Survivor. Top Story - September 2017.
Houston, Texas has just endured a flood and weather event of historic proportions in Hurricane Harvey. Survivors are fatigued and battered, stunned by their losses. If you know someone affected by this, you may long to reach out to comfort and reassure. Don't do that unless you can be truly empathetic.
By Arlene Nisson Lassin8 years ago in Humans
Common Mistakes We Make In Relationships
I don't care who you are or what you do, anyone that claims to live a perfect life with their significant other is full of crap. Of course, relationships can be strong and full of love and happy days, but expecting two separate individuals to agree on everything whether it be parenting, finances, sex, etc. is absolutely ludicrous.
By Jus L'amore8 years ago in Humans
