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Dating, married, single, divorced, and more. Advice on the relationships you have in life. Dear, Humans..
Sorry
In my 9th and 10th grade, my teacher always told my class she didn't like hearing "sorry" when people did something on purpose. Didn't do homework? Don't say sorry. Said something inappropriate? Don't say sorry. While she may not have been everyone's favourite, her morals were surely insightful. And as I grew up between my high school and university, I learnt a lot of things from the meaning of the word sorry to regret and making amends. In this article, I will be sharing with you what I have learnt and hope that you get to learn something and make your life enriching.
By Akshar Goyal4 years ago in Humans
A good relationship can be ruined by taking it for granted
I once heard a story like this. A guy confessed his love to a girl, who didn't immediately say yes or no, saying, "Are you sure you like me?" The boy said, "I like you more than I like everything in the world." The girl asked again, "What about 1 year later, 3 years later, and when you get married, will you still like me so much?"
By Julie Demarcus4 years ago in Humans
Am I Breaking the Law? No? Then What is Wrong with this?
We have two sets of compasses that guide us: Laws and Morals Laws are the bare minimum expected of a person. Like, don’t steal, pay taxes, etc. Abiding by laws doesn’t make someone a good person. For example, we can assume that everyone on street is a law-abiding citizen because they are not in jail. But does that mean they are all good people? Staying out of jail doesn’t make someone good, it makes that person not “bad/criminal”. “At least I am not breaking any law” is not a statement to be proud of, but an indication that we are operating at a bare minimum level.
By Mofrad Muntasir4 years ago in Humans
Scene 15
My observations throughout life on how we behave; everyone is coming from a place rooted in anger, hatred, and spite—similarity in this regard, people's vulgarity towards others is the only thing I know. And the one thing that has never made sense to me was why. We all like to think we are good people and never give malice to someone else on purpose, yet Susan is still gaslighting you. Brian still has never dated anyone weighing over 90 pounds, and Sierra is still bullying you while promoting her love-thy-neighbor poetry. Don't get me wrong, I am no exception.
By Ali Ryerse4 years ago in Humans
Beliefs & Their Hidden Connection with Our Expectations
Every one of us expects or anticipates something coming in the future when facing certain circumstances in our daily lives. These expectations may cause us to feel fear, stress, anger, and other negative emotions, but sometimes they may make us feel motivated or happy.
By Harrys Stratigakis4 years ago in Humans
Damaged
She's damaged, but she's a keeper. She needs to be loved a little differently, reassured a little more. (Unknown Author) Most men think that just because a woman is damaged, she is not a keeper, but this type of thinking is why so many good men mess around and miss out on the good women in this world like myself. Now I will be the first to admit that I am damaged in my life in some places but not all places because I have learned how to forgive myself first for all the bad things that have happened to me in life and most of the issues that I was having were not at my own hands. I have a wonderful man in my life now who has and will always be my supporter and biggest fan. Is he perfect? Of course not, but he is created for me, which is all that matters to me. No, we did not sprinkle some magic dust on our relationship. We had to go through many different things for him to see the real me. Broken, betrayed, mistreated, not being able to trust others, let alone myself, being insecure because others are insecure with themselves. All of these things would make any other person fold in life and give up but not me. Yes, I need to be loved differently because my past trauma has shaped me to love others differently. Knowing this about myself doesn't make me an evil woman. It just lets me know that I am no longer in denial about my reality anymore. Yes, I need to be reassured a little more than others because if you want to keep me on the same page as you, you have to do these things to grow and accomplish great things together.
By Theresa Evans4 years ago in Humans
Betrayal
When you look at this picture, what is the first thing you think you see looking at it? Well, I see many things, and the first thing that I see is a person torn apart by family, friends, coworkers s, and even themselves. Sometimes you have to get heartbroken to see the other person clearer. Does it feel good? Of course not, but it is part of the process. This process of pain is for you to grow and learn from it, and if you need to move some people around or out of your life, then this is what you have to do for yourself, not for them.
By Theresa Evans4 years ago in Humans
WHY ARE WE MORE CREATIVE WHEN WE ARE SAD?
Some of us feel in negative emotions the powerful energy of creation; as if our whole mind became much more receptive to stimuli, much stronger to deepen feelings, much more ingenious. Sadness thus designs itself as a fertile ground for creativity.
By Dalmy Alves4 years ago in Humans
