A good relationship can be ruined by taking it for granted

　I once heard a story like this. A guy confessed his love to a girl, who didn't immediately say yes or no, saying, "Are you sure you like me?" The boy said, "I like you more than I like everything in the world." The girl asked again, "What about 1 year later, 3 years later, and when you get married, will you still like me so much?"

　　The boy was stunned for a while, stammering for a long time, did not answer rashly, he repeatedly tortured himself in his heart this question, and finally found the courage to say: "Yes, I will remind myself every day, you are the best gift of fate to me, not because already have and forget." The girl listened, smiling sweetly and said, "Yes, I will also remind myself every day, not because of being liked and arbitrary."

　　Yes, the days are long, do not forget the initial deep love; hot love fades, but also to remember when they first met, how carefully cared for.

　　I often get off work with my colleague Lao Xie, he always brings something to his wife on the road, a cake, a cup of milk tea, or some other small gift.

　　Once I lamented: "old married couple, still so affectionate ah!" He smiled and said, "This is to thank my wife for her hard work today, she cleaned up the house and made a fragrant meal waiting for me to come home." I couldn't help but laugh at how many people think it's only natural to thank Lao Xie for solemnly going.

　　I asked him why he did this, and Xie explained, "Marriage is never the grave of love, it's someone who messes up love and messes up marriage. Think about it, if you work hard every day, busy, dedicated to the other side, but the other side never take it to heart, and even some things do not do well also receive a scolding, if it is you, is not also want to quit in this relationship and forget it? Not at all appreciate each other to pay for the marriage, often ends quickly."

　　Lao Xie's words, said a lot of people's life in the normal - husband working outside, making money to support the family, by the wife as the responsibility; wife's kindness and consideration, by the husband as "should be so".

　　We are too easy to take the other half's contribution for granted, but do not know that the real feelings, never free to grow. The two people need to take care of their feelings together, in the smallest details in the infinite joy, in the ordinary but still for each other's heart and soul.

　　One of the greatest blessings in the world is that someone likes you and gives you the best of everything, and you live up to your promise to spend time together with the warmth of the earth and see the prosperity of the red earth. It's not easy to meet someone who knows how to respect others, only to be respected; someone who knows how to cherish, only to deserve to be pampered.

　Have read this sentence: "The reason why success is so difficult is because it is testing how much determination a person can actually pay to persevere."

　　Read a few days of books, once put down, may not finish reading a book for six months; buy all the equipment, run a few days of steps, may be followed by nothing; enrolled in training courses

, there is always such and such a reason for absence, the entire training will be hampered ......

　　Sometimes, you may feel that you are not able to do things often without results, but it may just be that you can not stand the test. There is no effort in the world for nothing, and there is no success for nothing. How much energy you have accumulated, how much power can be exploded in the future. Even if the immediate growth rate is a little slower, under the accumulation of time, you can get the gift of the years.

　　Keeping your feet on the ground is the greatest wisdom on the road to growth, because there is never a shortcut to success, but only a little accumulation, step by step. With you to encourage