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6 Unconscious Biases I’ve Had as a Demisexual
I’ve never fully committed to the term until recently, but for those who don’t know, being demisexual means that one does not feel sexual attraction for another until an emotional connection first exists.
By Jason Henry4 years ago in Humans
The 15 Traits to Avoid To Be Pleasant
As was done in the previous pieces, we will focus on Napoleon Hill’s studies on human nature to conclude what needs to be done to become a pleasant person.
By Harrys Stratigakis4 years ago in Humans
3 Simple Steps to a Life Worth Living
Preface Several years ago I was asked by the graduating class to deliver the Baccalaureate address. While it’s an honor to be chosen, it presents a real conundrum: What do you say to young people that they’ll actually hear and put to use?
By AC Troi4 years ago in Humans
Bizaro Land
Why do we live in a society where bad is good and good is bad? Think about it. The chemicals in our water, in the air, in our foods and in our blood, are giving us cancer, low birth weight, birth deformities, etc. The pharmaceutical companies are sucking us dry poisoning us with opioids or made-up diagnosis's that is made up by the sales reps based on commission. There is a virus of the common cold wiping out our population. Storms and fires consume our lands. The homeless population is out of control and climbing. We keep people in cages (prison) when 90% of the prison population suffer from a mental illness, spiritual, or emotional problems. Instead of educating them we put them in a cage then ask them to be reformed when they get out. Ever see a dog caged up refusing it affection and proper guidance? We slaughter thousands of innocent animals for food. We find fighting as an entertainment sport. We listen to music that is utterly violent, degrading to women, and vulgar. Our divorce rate is higher than ever and then we ask those same children not to have emotional problems. We put our unwanted children in a broken foster system where they are revictimized in the name of the all mighty dollar. Prostitution is rampant. $20 for sexual favors at your disposal. Pornography is the teacher for how sex is supposed to be. The end of your life your sent to a nursing home without family waiting to die. We murder, steal, lie, cheat, and God forbid we do not live up to the Jone's. We compare our body images to starving models and crucify ourselves for being different. I find this all hypocritical and provers. We sell people as a commodity not only in the sex trade but within the schools, prisons, and hospitals. Every head has a price on it. We have so many third-party companies feeding off the larger corporations and asking for a price for a service we could be doing ourselves. We are slaves to the banks and the government. Our families suffer from lack of role models, bonding time, and we send our kids into the world with no morals and values. We are many and varied. Non perfect. There is racism and bullying. We are killing ourselves with self-hate because we do not fit into the perfect matrix of society. Wars are big business. We send our teenagers off with the government to become killers in a war over natural resources and then when they come home don’t support them. When they enlist we cheer them on congratulating them for becoming armed service members. When we have outbursts of emotions (that we weren’t taught how to handle) or am different from the cookie cutter personality, there’s a pill for that. Why do we all want to be Ken and Barbie. Isn’t that what makes us special is our differences? Do we all not have families? Do we all not breath the same toxic air?
By Lisa L Proffitt4 years ago in Humans
How to Impress a Girl Fast Way
Tragically many folks come up short on essential craftsmanship on the most proficient method to intrigue a young lady. They do it from every one of some unacceptable points which mood killer the interest of the young lady they are pursuing. It should be realized that oncoming and intriguing a young lady is a workmanship that is learned, created and sustained.
By Imran Ahmad4 years ago in Humans
Changing Authenticity
"To thine own self be true", the infamous words of Polonius in William Shakespheare's, "Hamlet", act 1 scene 3. The authenticity of a person ultimately is seen in how one view themselves, thus being what parts of themselves they allow for the world to see. Humans are very complex. In today's society the complexities of the human being gets misconstrued as "not being the authentic you'. However, our own individual unique complexities are in fact what make up our own authentic selves. Our world is FAST PACE everything. You can find anything online, and once it is on the web, it becomes a free for all for the media to add there spin to it, clouting judgement, along with society telling you who you should be or need to be. I guess I never took a bite of that apple because for me, like William Shakespheare's words in "Hamlet", I have always chosen to be true to my own self. At the end of each and every day it is me that I have to answer to about who I am and quite frankly it is none of my business what other people think about me.
By Greylee Tynewise4 years ago in Humans
Want To Start Your Own Business? Get A Plant First!
Yeah I know what you're thinking it sounds crazy right? But seriously you can learn a lot by looking after a pot plant and no I don't mean a cactus, although it is still possible to screw it up and kill it if you get the positioning wrong.
By Caryn G4 years ago in Humans
How to raise your vibration
Raising your vibration is an important part of raising your frequency. Your frequency can be raised by changing your thoughts, your feelings, your actions, and your environment. When you raise your frequency, you raise your vibration. Raising your vibration can have a profound effect on your health, your finances, your relationships, and your overall quality of life.
By Ja'Quay Jones4 years ago in Humans
How become a great person?
15 Ways to Become a Better Person: Life is a journey and becoming better every day is the goal. We've all made mistakes throughout our lives that haven't exactly put us in the best light--like bullying someone in school or telling what seemed like a little white lie. Chances are, however, you probably felt a little guilt and grew because of the situation.
By ali ahmad4 years ago in Humans
7 Powerful Life Lessons That Everyone Should Know
Everyone has a different perspective on life, so everyone does what they believe is best for them. Each of us is an individual whose life is distinct from everyone else's. Nonetheless, there are some universal truths that everyone should be aware of.
By Anup Joshi4 years ago in Humans
Psychological well-being: The way nourishment assumes a key part in the mental health of a youngster
Nourishment assumes a critical part in every single mental cycle, mindset, and cerebrum exhibitions and healthful lacks bring about sicknesses and side effects, a large number of which are age subordinate.
By Sharmizz_Shaazz4 years ago in Humans
Is Your Life Worth Living?
Just so you know, no. This is not a suicide note of any kind. This is a serious question. I have been alive for 9,000 days now. I’m 24 years old, born and raised in the suburbs and cities of Ontario, Canada. One of the ‘best’ places to live in the world. But yet my time and my body are not my own, it belongs to a company that has me break my body for them doing manual labor and driving a forklift. Moving as quickly as I can to meet requirements and probably taking years off my life from the stress. However, compared to most people my age. It’s not a bad job and I’m well compensated. I work 40 hours or more a week so I can live…. No, so I can survive in Canada while making the best of a one-bedroom apartment.
By Tannar Thompson4 years ago in Humans