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How To Deal With Someone Who Hurt You Physically
What does it mean if someone hurts you physically? It can be difficult to know how to deal with someone who has hurt you physically. It is important to remember that physical pain is not always indicative of emotional pain. Sometimes, people who have been physically hurt are also dealing with a lot of emotional pain. There are many people who have gone through what you are going through and there are many resources available to help you cope.
By Warisha4 years ago in Humans
How I learned to fuel my creativity into multiple outlets
“Creativity is a combinatorial force: it’s our ability to tap into our ‘inner’ pool of resources – knowledge, insight, information, inspiration and all the fragments populating our minds – that we’ve accumulated over the years just by being present and alive and awake to the world and to combine them in extraordinary new ways.” — Maria Popova, Brainpickings
By Annee4 years ago in Humans
How to Stay Motivated as a First Time Entrepreneur
In and of itself, being your own boss is one heck of an energizing endeavor. But the flipside of that statement is that it's also tough. And when it gets tough sometimes, you wonder why you're doing it. And when those thoughts roll in, it may be challenging to find motivation.
By Rick Martinez4 years ago in Humans
Diary of a bad b x
How many times has it crossed your mind why am I not good enough? Or why can’t I be her? Social media is scary because we see these warped images daily of people looking like absolute perfection and wondering why we don’t look the same when in reality while these people are stunning they have filler, veneers, bbl, extensions and so on.
By Rants_&_bants 4 years ago in Humans
Friendship Comes and Goes
“A friend is someone who gives you total freedom to be yourself.”- Jim Morrison My insecurity as well as my past anxiety transformed me into a highly sensitive person. This character trait had influenced my relationships as well as my own life for almost 5 years before I came to realize that I was the problem. I was trying to please everyone ―especially my friends― against my own happiness and prosperity as a young adult. I felt that I had to ask each one of my friends if they would be comfortable with anything I wanted to accomplish in my life. Because I thought that the best way for me to prove that I was a complete person was having long-term relationships even if my friends were not actually good to me. Besides, I was too afraid of being alone…
By Marie Cadette Pierre-Louis4 years ago in Humans
Life Is Simple!
Many major historical figures in philosophy have provided an answer to the question of what, if anything, makes life meaningful, although they typically have not put it in these terms (with such talk having arisen only in the past 250 years or so, on which see Landau 1997). Consider, for instance, Aristotle on the human function, Aquinas on the beatific vision, and Kant on the highest good. Relatedly, think about Koheleth, the presumed author of the Biblical book Ecclesiastes, describing life as “futility” and akin to “the pursuit of wind,” Nietzsche on nihilism, as well as Schopenhauer when he remarks that whenever we reach a goal we have longed for we discover “how vain and empty it is.” While these concepts have some bearing on happiness and virtue (and their opposites), they are straightforwardly construed (roughly) as accounts of which higher-order final ends, if any, a person ought to realize that would make her life significant.
By Annee4 years ago in Humans
F*ck Growing Up
Growing up is one of the things we all have to do unfortunately. We all have to go out in the real world and somehow succeed. We have to somehow make a life for ourselves. We have to somehow go out in the world and put all the things that we learned in school into context. We have to leave the comforts of our saftey net and go out in the real world. This can be equal parts exciting and terrifying. It can be exciting because you get to get out of your parents house and have some independence. There are alot of exciting parts to growing up. But as there are exciting parts there are also terrifying parts. And that's what nobody tells you. They don't tell you that you have to figure it out on your own. They don't tell you that school didn't prepare for the real world. School just taught you math,science and all that. They don't teach you how to live in the world. They give you skills for a job and that's it really.
By Amanda Nicole4 years ago in Humans
Confusion never ends
Honestly, i dont know what to do and what am meant to be, say, or write. My life is like a maze, a puzzle that am trying very hard to figure out, and no matter how hard i try i just keep getting lost.
By Gold Olanrewaju4 years ago in Humans
8 Signs That Prove You Have An Intimidating Personality
A strong personality is something that many people are intimidated by. Although some people may argue that such a label is just a polite way of saying someone is loud, obnoxious, domineering, or an ass.
By Jessey Anthony4 years ago in Humans
How to become "That Girl"
Welcome to how to be "that girl." Although this task may seem impossible sometimes, i'm here to show you how you can become your best self. healthy foods, smoothies, workouts, and cleaning is not as had as it sounds after you get into it. So grab your popcorn, change into something comfy, and read this article. then, go become "that" girl! Let's start off with step #1
By juliette f4 years ago in Humans
Some Personal Observations on How We Learn From Experience
Introduction - Why I Am Writing This I am currently reading the “Riverworld” books by Philip José Farmer and am up to “The Dark Design” which is the third book in the series. I did a story about the overall series that you can read below.
By Mike Singleton 💜 Mikeydred 4 years ago in Humans
How to Have the Best Relationship With Your Significant Other
You may have been thinking about ways to build intimacy with your significant other. The truth is, building intimacy takes time and effort. You should schedule time with your partner to spend together and do things that you both enjoy. Try to limit distractions and make points to have meaningful conversations. You should also make sure to be honest and faithful to your partner. This will ensure that the intimacy you share grows over time.
By AM4 years ago in Humans