divorced

Sometimes a good divorce is better than a bad marriage.

A Long Ten Months
Hello again to everyone that read my first post almost ten months ago. I am no longer homeless. In my last post, I was in a women's center. Not to long after my first post, I decided to work things out with my husband, and went home. Everything was good between us a few more months. In June, I went back to the shelter over my husband again. I looked for places to live, but I could not find anything due to bad credit.
By Samantha Farley4 years ago in Families
How to Have The I Want a Divorce Conversation
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY: https://www.divorcebyrose.com/ You know how they say that hindsight is 20/20? Well, here’s a really good lesson that I learned in my divorce. And if I would have done things differently from the very beginning- from the day that I told my husband that I didn’t want to be married anymore, if I would have responded better to that and if I would have shown up differently and if I would have behaved differently, I’m imagining that my life would have been a lot easier for the next decade, following that. And I really do, you know, take the responsibility in the way that I expose that I wanted a divorce. And the reason is because we don’t realize that the very, very, very first steps in the conversation are going to MAKE OR BREAK YOUR FUTURE.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
Divorce is Like a Puzzle | Thinking About Divorce
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY: https://www.divorcebyrose.com/ Let’s think outside of the box for a second here. And let’s look at divorce from a different perspective. Why? Because I want to help you make the decision: “Should I stay married or should I get divorced” from a logical standpoint. I want you to remove the emotions from the equation at the moment and just think logically so that you can make a PROPER decision of what you should do from this point forward.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
Fathers: before you hire a child custody attorney…
Even though fathers aren’t always getting victimized particularly, not very many of them have custody of their kids after a divorce. Most appointed authorities attempt to guarantee that their choices are in the best interest of the kids.
By Charles C4 years ago in Families
Reasons to Have Joint Custody of Your Children
The truth is that divorce can destroy you if you let it. It can be even worse if you have children. Trying to figure out how to split your children up can literally tear you apart. It can be very hard to think about your spouse spending time with your children. You may not want to give them up at all!
By Shelley Wenger4 years ago in Families
Thunder Booms
Thunder boomed overhead and I ran for the covered outdoor section of a small strip mall, near where I lived in Smyrna, Georgia. I had sat on the circular brick garden wall in the middle of the parking lot, because here, after 5:00 PM, all the shops were closed, everyone just went home. There was quiet here, and a place to lean back and watch the massive thunderhead cloud build and build, though all around it, above and here, way below, it was hot humid sticky close just mui caliente. This was my thinking spot and alone time, away from all people. Not an easy time, because I had recently been divorced, and she moved back to New England taking with her our four beautiful children. This time was horrible for them and for me. Adding to my angst, was the loss of my job and of a woman I had fallen in love with, who broke off our relationship, understandably not wanting to be, even for a moment, be considered as “the other woman”. The upside, if you could call it that, was I had severance pay, and two of the warehouse men, Lionel and Bubba to share an apartment with, so I had a roof over my head. I had no car, but needed to find work, so with a newspaper, I would walk to this place, sit in the sun, read the want ads, and just be, in a place where only God, could hear my urgent pleas for help and inspire my next step.
By David X. Sheehan4 years ago in Families
6 Co-parenting Tips for Couples Going Through Divorce
Separation or divorce is one of the most difficult paths of life. Working with one of your parents to raise healthy, loving and stable children despite their separation is another difficult task. But it is possible, testify too many happy adult children of divorced parents.
By kunal4 years ago in Families
Remembering with a Mental Block
On May 31st, 2017, I told my mother I wanted to live with my father. Yes, my parents are divorced. Have been since I was nine years old due to them fighting so much. My sister and I have been living with my mother ever since while my father continued his career as a pilot and paid for his child support. I hardly saw him the first few years into the separation.
By Victoria4 years ago in Families
A kid called towel
I never understood why I wasn’t the glue strong enough to keep my parents together. As an only child, in my infantile mind, the logical and rational reason for my parent’s divorce; was me. I mean who else was there to blame?
By Leo Dis Vinci4 years ago in Families
Long overdue reform and a better way to divorce
Campaigners for the reform have gathered momentum in the wake of the widely publicised Supreme Court decision in Owens v Owens where a husband successfully stymied his wife’s attempt to divorce him, on the basis that she had failed to demonstrate that he had behaved in such a way that she could not reasonably be expected to live with him. Aside from the inevitable minority of naysayers who fear that the bill will be the final nail in the coffin for the sanctity of marriage, it has been widely backed by family lawyers and individuals alike as a much needed reform to an anachronistic piece of legislation that has remained unchanged for half a century.
By Level - Litigation Funding UK4 years ago in Families
How Does A Judge Decide Who Gets What In A Divorce?
This is ultimately a question that is key to the court’s consideration when deciding how to divide assets, and is at the heart of the advice given by our team of specialist barristers at The Divorce Surgery.
By Divorce Surgery4 years ago in Families
5 Ways Divorce Can Help You Evolve As a Person
Divorce is not an easy process. It can be emotional, expensive, and time-consuming. But divorce also has the potential to be a blessing in disguise for anyone who is willing to look at it that way. We all have our own baggage from our past relationships that we carry with us into new ones. That baggage might prevent us from being happy or healthy during those relationships because it's too heavy. So, if you're going through a divorce right now, don't worry! Divorce can help you evolve as a person and get rid of some of your old baggage so that you'll be better equipped for future relationships and more fulfilled in them than ever before!
By Ramandeep Singh4 years ago in Families