Divorce by Rose
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Divorce by Rose brings together parents who are contemplating divorce or newly separated WITH coaches, experts and professionals who have the tools and strategies to guide you towards finding your answers. https://www.divorcebyrose.com/
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Elevate Yourself Above Emotional Turmoil
Welcome to the Divorce by Rose Community App Want tools that will help you get emotional mastery in minutes? If you’re divorcing or considering divorce, it’s a rollercoaster of emotions. Don’t wait for your divorce to be over before you find your feet again.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Humans
Divorce and Law of Emotions: What's the correlation?
So, let me read you a little excerpt from a phenomenal book by Brian Tracy. It says: “The law of emotions states that 100% of your decisions and subsequent actions are based on emotion. You are largely emotional or 90% emotional and 10% logical, as has been assumed. You are completely emotional. Everything you do is based on an emotion of some kind. Your emotions are the energizing forces behind your thoughts. The more intensely you feel something, the greater affect that thought or circumstance will have on your life.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
Divorce and Enthusiasm: Can those 2 words be put together?
You are getting divorced. Conversation of divorce is happening because something is broken. Something is just no longer working anymore. Someone is just not feeling good about this marriage anymore. Someone is distancing themselves- whether it’s you or both of you, it doesn’t really matter. The bottom line is that something isn’t working. And so, if something is not working, divorce is your golden opportunity to REDESIGN your life as you want it to be. To HONOR yourself. To give yourself what it is you actually want in your life. So, divorce could look like a bad thing because it’s the break up of the family and whatever it is the you knew and everything that you had is no longer going to be there anymore but, if you look on the flip side and you look at all the things that you ARE going to have and all those things are going to be introduced into your life, you should be enthusiastic about that. You should be focused on all those things that you are going to be reinvigorating back into your life, that you are going to be re introducing to the person that you really want to be and the life that you really want to have. So if you’re going through a conversation with your spouse or the other parent, and the conversation is not going so great, where you’re not feeling so great about divorce, I want you to know one thing: besides the fact of being overloaded with emotions , which I know you’re going to be, I want you to take the opportunity and really analyze where you’re at right now and is this really where you want to be because you need to be “enthusiastic” about your post-divorce life in order to make the right decisions right now. If you‘re not enthusiastic about what is going to come and what you are envisioning and what do you want to bring into your life, all your decisions you’re going to make are going to be coming from a very bad place and I guarantee you that you’re likely going to regret many of your decisions. So, if you are not sure what to do, if you’re feeling overwhelmed, confused and worried and anxious, part of which is normal, please join us at Divorce by Rose, a Divorce Community APP that was specifically created to help you: a. Stay anonymous while you are chatting with like-minded parents and b. Connect with like-minded parents that are probably thinking the same thing as you and acting the same way and showing up in their lives in the same way as you
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
Divorce is Like a Puzzle | Thinking About Divorce
Why? Because I want to help you make the decision: “Should I stay married or should I get divorced” from a logical standpoint. I want you to remove the emotions from the equation at the moment and just think logically so that you can make a PROPER decision of what you should do from this point forward.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
Mothers MUST Become Financially Independent
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY At other times they’re really understanding the truth and validity behind what I’m saying. It is extremely, extremely important for women to become financially independent of the father or the spouse. And let me explain what I mean. If you are going to budget based on moneys that he is going to give you every month, whether that’s child support or alimony, I have to tell you that you’re going to fall into problems. And the reason is because jobs come and go. Money comes and goes. Games are played on a regular basis. And we’ve all heard all the kinds of games that are being played by people who choose not to pay the bills.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
Why & How to Avoid Divorce? A Spiritual & Psychological Perspective
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY My name is Pushpinder Singh and this video is actually an introduction video which is related to the course which has been integrated into the Divorce by Rose Community App. I am one of the coaches in this particular app. The name of this particular course is “Why and How to Avoid Divorce”. In this particular course, lots of information regarding how and why to avoid divorce have been given. The different topics which have been integrated into this particular course is: what role do emotions play in your marriage and in your life. In this particular video it has been explained that emotions play in any kind of action the human body commits. I usually say this in my rooms or in my webinars that emotions are always primary and actions are always secondary. Whatever action a human body commits, it’s actually the emotions going on and on and on in the background so there are lots of reasons which have been shared in that particular video.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Psyche
Divorcing With Maturity Is Sexy
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY Maturity… Divorce…does it even match? does it even go together? It does and it should! To be honest with you, one of the main things that I look for when I’m dating is that I’m looking for a man who divorced with maturity, who does not hate or despise his ex-wife, one who does not try to do anything possible to make his ex-wife or the mother of his children suffer tremendously. And I know many women who think this way and many women who are looking for that mature evolved man. And I know of many men who think the same way and are looking for that mature evolved woman. So often when we’re going through divorce, we throw in all of our emotions and all of our worst fears and all of our worst concerns and we say I don’t want to lose this, I don’t want to lose that, I don’t want to do this and do that and they think of all the negative. But the one thing people forget about is…. hold on a second… once the saga is over with, once it all gets settled, then where am I going to be?
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
Regain Your Personal Power
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY. Hi, my name is Linda Coyne. I created this course “Regain Your Personal Power”. In my marriage of 36 years, I realized, after the fact, how much I had given away my personal power. it didn’t happen overnight, it happened drop by drop. When I got divorced, I was blind sided. I never saw it coming. He just said .. I don’t want to be with you… and that dropped me to my knees. I was never so hurt in my life and I was really affected by everything that was going on. I didn’t have any personal power: my self-esteem was crushed and I basically had no self-worth so I wasn’t starting at the starting block, I was starting well behind the starting block. I had my work to do initially. I said…" oh if he changes or if this changes everything will be better". I realized I had to look outside myself. And I took responsibility and started to look inside me as well- that’s when I started to change and the change was transformational! In this course we’re going to do that- we’re going to dive deep into ourselves, we’re going to look at how we manage our thoughts and how to feel our feelings and emotions, to better understand them. Why? Because sometimes the emotion we’re feeling is not the feeling underneath. We might have an emotion underneath- for example, we might come out with anger but underneath it really might be a fear of some sort. We’re going to talk about the inner child we all have. I can tell you that when I explored my inner child, I realized the childhood wounds that showed up as an adult and showed up in my marriage. I looked at how I handled situations. We’re going to talk about the six basic needs that we all have and when they’re not being met how that changes. When we have a belief system that starts when we’re little and our beliefs and values create our thoughts, then we create our actions and behaviors and it goes both ways, experience that we have to end up creating belief systems and then our beliefs go forward and create our thoughts and actions. So, it’s just understanding that whole process and when we do, we can kind of catch ourselves and have an understanding of why we did certain things that we did. We also talk about the burdens that we carry- some of which shouldn’t belong to us and we have to kind of hand them back. Because just as human beings and helping each other, sometimes we take on things that don’t belong to us so we’re going to talk about that too. We’re also going to talk about gratitude. I started a gratitude journal when I was going through the worst time in my life and yes there’s always something to be grateful for and I still have my gratitude journal today.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Education
How to Have The "I Want a Divorce" Conversation?
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY And if I would have done things differently from the very beginning- from the day that I told my husband that I didn’t want to be married anymore, if I would have responded better to that and if I would have shown up differently and if I would have behaved differently, I’m imagining that my life would have been a lot easier for the next decade, following that.
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Humans
HOW TO GET YOUR DIVORCE FINANCES & BUDGET IN ORDER
Join our Divorce by Rose Community App ANONYMOUSLY: Hi, my name is Ravit Rose and I'm the founder of the Divorce by Rose Community App. In this course, How To Get Your Finances and Budget in Order, you're going to learn how to take the emotions out of the equation when it comes to money and put all your numbers down on a piece of paper. Whether you're contemplating divorce or newly separated and you're wondering to yourself “how am i going to make it to the end of the month”, Am I going to have enough money to buy food at the end of the month”, “How am I going to pay my bills”, “Am I going to be eating out of tuna cans instead of eating my steak dinners that I'm used to”, “How do I ensure that I'm not going to end up broke and broken”?
By Divorce by Rose4 years ago in Families
