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It takes a village to raise a family; advice and tips to make the most of yours.
The Double-Edged Blade of Brilliance
The Double-Edged Blade of Brilliance There’s a kind of brilliance that shines too brightly—so sharp it dazzles and blinds, so quick it leaves others stumbling in its wake. We often idolize intelligence and wit, praising those who can outthink, outmaneuver, and out-speak anyone in the room. But there’s a hidden edge to that cleverness—a blade that, if not handled with care, cuts not just those around it, but the one who wields it.
By Kazi Mirajul Islam10 months ago in Families
The Words I Never Said
The Words I Never Said is a poignant and emotional story about unspoken love, quiet longing, and the ache of missed chances. The narrator, a shy and observant writer, reflects on a high school connection with Julian—someone vibrant, kind, and seemingly out of reach. A chance encounter during a rainy afternoon sparked a gentle bond between them, but the narrator never found the courage to confess their feelings.
By Kazi Mirajul Islam10 months ago in Families
Behind the Smile: The Secret Life of a Trusted Stranger. Content Warning.
n a quiet neighborhood, there lived an old man named Mr. Rehman. He was kind, polite, and always smiling. Everyone called him “Uncle Rehman.” He used to be a librarian, and even after retirement, he still gave books to children. Every week, he would visit homes and gift a book to each child.
By Majeed Ullah10 months ago in Families
Where are the Boys?
Over the last one week, I have been caught up in a series of events, among them team building, talks and interactive workshops. One that particularly stood out was a team building activity over the weekend where we ventured into the Aberdare Forest. The team was composed of 11 ladies and only 4 gents. As we enjoyed the trails, one of the ladies questioned at one of the stops, “But why do we have just 4 gents with us? Where are the rest?” This ignited a further heated discussion with another member of the team adding, “Nowadays boys are nowhere to be seen compared to back in the day.” The final member wrapped it up by saying that they are in business and a majority of their clientele are typically women. This caught me thinking for a minute. It took me back to yet another gathering I had attended two days prior, where boys and men were being reprimanded for failing to assume their roles. So, how did we get ourselves here?
By Oscar Munene10 months ago in Families
The Ripple Effect on Families: What Happens When Women Suffer?
When my cousin's wife Achol's phone number flashed up on my screen at 7:28 a.m., I knew something was wrong. She never called before 9am, she is a mother of five under 10, and mornings in her house are an Olympic event. I braced myself, and sure enough, the line opened to a staccato lullaby of children shrieking, the toaster popping, and Achol's breathless voice:
By Majok Wutchok10 months ago in Families
A Farmer is a real person
A farmer is the nation's foundation, working tirelessly from dawn to dusk to ensure that everyone has access to food. In the heart of a rural village, nestled between gentle hills and wide-open fields, lives Ramesh, a dedicated farmer whose life is deeply intertwined with the rhythms of the earth. Each day, he rises before the sun paints the sky with shades of gold, stepping into the morning mist with hope in his heart and determination in his stride. His hands, weathered and calloused from years of labor, are the true tools of his trade—more reliable than any modern machine. As he walks across his fields, the soil greets him like an old friend. He bends down to touch it, feeling its warmth, its readiness to receive life seeds, and its moisture. He begins his work with practiced skill, nurturing the seeds like a father would his children, knowing that each grain holds the promise of a better day. His crops—wheat, rice, vegetables—depend not only on his efforts but also on nature’s cooperation. Ramesh watches the sky constantly, his eyes trained to read the clouds, to sense when rain is near or when drought might loom. The weather, unpredictable and often harsh, is both a friend and foe, capable of blessing him with a bountiful harvest or leaving him staring at withered plants and empty granaries. Life on the farm is not easy. Ramesh faces challenges at every step, from fluctuating market prices and rising costs of seeds and fertilizers to pests and diseases that can destroy months of effort in a matter of days. Yet, he endures it all with quiet strength. His fields come to life with activity during harvest. Under the scorching sun, Ramesh tirelessly cuts, gathers, and stacks the produce with his family and a few hired laborers. The sight of golden grains piled high fills him with pride—a tangible reward for his months of perseverance. However, the struggle does not end there. Another struggle is getting the harvest to the market. Roads are often in poor condition, and middlemen take a large share of the profits. Still, Ramesh remains hopeful. He recognizes the significance of feeding the nation and the dignity of his work. Despite the hardships, he finds moments of joy—listening to the birds as he plows, watching his children play by the fields, and sharing meals with his family under the shade of a tree. These simple pleasures are the treasures of a farmer’s life. Education is important to Ramesh, though he himself had to leave school early to help his father. He wants his children to live a different life—not necessarily one without farming, but one with more options, knowledge, and support. He encourages them to study hard, often sacrificing his own comforts to buy them books or pay their fees. Technology has started to make its way into his village—mobile phones, government apps, and improved irrigation techniques. Ramesh is keen to learn, attending workshops and speaking with agricultural officers who visit the village. He adopts new methods slowly but surely, balancing tradition with innovation. Organic farming, crop rotation, and water conservation are practices he now embraces, not just to improve yield, but to protect the land he loves so dearly. The community around Ramesh plays a vital role in his life. Farmers in his village support one another, sharing tools, advice, and sometimes even seeds during tough times. Festivals are a time of joy and bonding, where they celebrate the fruits of their labor with music, dance, and food. These gatherings are more than just a place to have fun; they also serve as a place of strength and cooperation. However, the modern world is undergoing rapid change. Urban migration is pulling young people away from the land, and Ramesh often wonders what the future holds for farming. Yet, he remains steadfast in his commitment. To him, farming is not just a job; it is a way of life, a sacred duty, and a source of identity. His fields are not just land; they are a legacy passed down through generations, and he feels honored to be their caretaker. Ramesh sits on his porch and looks out over his land as the sun sets behind the hills and the sky turns orange and purple. He is tired, but there is a calm satisfaction in his heart. He has faced the day’s challenges with courage, just as he will tomorrow. His story is one of millions—unsung yet essential, humble yet heroic. A farmer like Ramesh may not wear a suit or sit in an office, but his contribution to the world is immeasurable. He grows not just crops but hope, not just food but the future.
By sami ahmed10 months ago in Families
WHAT HE REALLY NEEDS
Introduction Behind every strong man is a little boy who once craved love, connection, and affirmation. But somewhere along the journey, that boy was told to "man up," "toughen up," and "never cry." And so, he buried himself under layers of silence, strength, and shame — until one day, he could no longer recognize who he truly was.
By Kreative William 25410 months ago in Families
HOW TO MAKE STRESS YOUR FRIEND
Introduction: A Confession About Stress How often have you heard that stress is bad for your health? That it causes heart disease, depression, and even premature death? For years, health psychologist Kelly McGonigal stood behind this message—until one research study completely changed her perspective.
By Kreative William 25410 months ago in Families
The Critical Role of a Process Server in the Legal System
In the legal system, a process server plays an essential role in ensuring that due process is upheld. These professionals are responsible for delivering legal documents to individuals involved in court proceedings. Their job is not just about handing over paperwork—it's about protecting constitutional rights by guaranteeing that all parties are properly notified about legal actions being taken against them or involving them. This notification is vital for the legal system to operate fairly and transparently.
By Emma Wegenast10 months ago in Families
Parenting in the Age of Screens
Some days, I feel like I’m parenting in the middle of a crowded train station—doors slamming, voices bouncing off walls, responsibilities shouting for attention. And somewhere in that chaos, there’s my 8-year-old asking, with full dramatic flair, if she really has to do her studies or chores.
By Babita Sobhani Jalan10 months ago in Families
